So, I'm into receiving golden showers. But not in a BDSM/femdom way.
Rather, I just want to have a regular interaction with an SP, where I can make her "squirt"... but, where what she is "squirting" is most definitely urine, from her very full bladder. (You know — the thing that women in porn are almost always doing when they "squirt" out a whole litre of fluid.) I don't want to be "punished" by a domme sitting on my face; I want to be rewarded for my sexual efforts by a series of spasms that leave my face, my chest, and my johnson all soaked.
Not looking for a "woman who can squirt for real." Real female ejaculation is great, but it puts out maybe an ounce of fluid and some creamy dribbles. I'm into receiving golden showers for the tactile sensation of being flooded upon. Female ejaculation doesn't really deliver on that front.
Ideally, I'm looking for an SP who experiences "orgasm-associated urinary incontinence" (as the medical literature puts it), and who embraces that! A girl whose attitude is "get me off and you'll get wet, so you'd better be into that!"
Failing that, I'd be interested in an SP who at least finds it easy to "let go" at any time during sex, rather than finding herself "plugged up" when aroused/stimulated. (I've heard that having a baby can do this?) And who is very down with the idea of doing that letting-go during sex, intimately, in the moment, with full body contact; rather than thinking of it as so many SPs that "do GS" do — as some gross little sideshow that has to be isolated to its own little scene, done in a bathtub, from three feet away to avoid splashback, and then washed away before sex can begin.
Even if you're not personally into GS, you might be able to help me out, if you think back through the SPs you've been with, and try to identify whether they match any of the following signs:
If there's nobody local like this, I'd also take suggestions for SPs in other cities/countries known to do this. (I travel a lot for work, so that info could be very helpful!)
Rather, I just want to have a regular interaction with an SP, where I can make her "squirt"... but, where what she is "squirting" is most definitely urine, from her very full bladder. (You know — the thing that women in porn are almost always doing when they "squirt" out a whole litre of fluid.) I don't want to be "punished" by a domme sitting on my face; I want to be rewarded for my sexual efforts by a series of spasms that leave my face, my chest, and my johnson all soaked.
Not looking for a "woman who can squirt for real." Real female ejaculation is great, but it puts out maybe an ounce of fluid and some creamy dribbles. I'm into receiving golden showers for the tactile sensation of being flooded upon. Female ejaculation doesn't really deliver on that front.
Ideally, I'm looking for an SP who experiences "orgasm-associated urinary incontinence" (as the medical literature puts it), and who embraces that! A girl whose attitude is "get me off and you'll get wet, so you'd better be into that!"
Failing that, I'd be interested in an SP who at least finds it easy to "let go" at any time during sex, rather than finding herself "plugged up" when aroused/stimulated. (I've heard that having a baby can do this?) And who is very down with the idea of doing that letting-go during sex, intimately, in the moment, with full body contact; rather than thinking of it as so many SPs that "do GS" do — as some gross little sideshow that has to be isolated to its own little scene, done in a bathtub, from three feet away to avoid splashback, and then washed away before sex can begin.
Even if you're not personally into GS, you might be able to help me out, if you think back through the SPs you've been with, and try to identify whether they match any of the following signs:
- They use a mattress protector on their bed.
- They will eagerly switch from PIV back to BJ — i.e. they're not put off by the fact that they're tasting their own fluids.
- If they do video content, and have ever put up a video related to wetting themselves (with this being their idea, not a client request)
- Clearest sign: they're known to "squirt" for clients who didn't ask for it and weren't even doing anything that could provoke female ejaculation — essentially using this kind of GS play to "perform pleasure", the same way other SPs might add performative convulsions and moans to their orgasms.
If there's nobody local like this, I'd also take suggestions for SPs in other cities/countries known to do this. (I travel a lot for work, so that info could be very helpful!)
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