Am I Bi-Sexual?
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Like always well put Tiff.
I have to say that this thread (like most) has totally gone of topic. I agree that if you engage in sexual activity with the same sex and enjoy it that makes you attracted to the same sex. You don't have to label it, just do what feels good and don't worry about what anybody else has to say about it.
As far as any really sexy tranny's, there is a hot tall blonde who is always out and about on Davie, between Granville and Bute. A client of mine picked "her" up and didn't know til they had their clothes off! She would probably be up your alley or could be convinced to get up your alley (lol).
Hey BC_BOY have you ever thought about "" SHEMALE""? some of them are very feminine looking, voice and evey thing.. maybe that could be for you.
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=453483
http://www.shegods.com/
yep..
Queer as a 3 dollar bill! just kidding..why sweat it..?? Be who you are man! Who gives a good Gawd Damn what anyone else thinks!
Life is short...Party Naked!
Queer as a 3 dollar bill! just kidding..why sweat it..?? Be who you are man! Who gives a good Gawd Damn what anyone else thinks!
Life is short...Party Naked!
after looking "shemale" site for him.. i saw "trannies or tranny words" many time..
humm who wonder where that came from..lol
I was referring to transvestites. An actual transsexual wouldn't have a hard dick to fuck someone up the ass with.
I totally agree with the 'do what makes you happy' thoughts that have been expressed so well by Timmay and others.
Given your difficulty with labels (as is evident in your posts on this thread) I'd say just go with it and be "BC-Boy-sexual"
You guys fuckin' kill me.
Yer all more confused than the poor bastard that started this useless thread.
edmontonsubbie...don't ask dude. Just do whatever the fuk feels good.
And screw anyone that gets in your way.
Screw em. Up the ass.
Yer all more confused than the poor bastard that started this useless thread.
edmontonsubbie...don't ask dude. Just do whatever the fuk feels good.
And screw anyone that gets in your way.
Screw em. Up the ass.
Ok, to begin with, gender issues and orrientation are entirely separate. Read a psych text from the past 2 decades. Also, the 'bitch' and 'butch' theory is false, it doesn't work that way. If bi doesn't exist what exactly do you call someone who enjoys both sexes?
Then there is this, also from Moron,
But, if the person in question has a 'hard dick' that they can 'ram up your ass' then they are NOT a transexual. I believe that by 'Tranny' you mean transvestite perhaps?
Pre opp???
If someone has a 'hard dick' that is a natural part of their body (not a strap-on) then they are a dude. End of story.
Transexuals are born with them, you tool. Treat people with respect.
BC Boy, you are who you are. Just enjoy and respect yourself. As long as it's safe and consentual nothing else matters.
lately I've been craving a hot feminine looking caucasian tranny who will "fill me up"......anyone know of one such tranny?
cant read every post here, but...
here's my take on the matter. i personally, enjoy going down on girls, licking tits, etc... etc.... and yes, call me bi. i'm not a lezzie and i have complete happiness as a female. so to the posters (no need to name them!) that have said that it amounts to some level of "wanting to be the opposite gender"...seriously bite me. i dont want to be a dude and i'm as girly as they come....
human sexuality, as isabelle said, is a BROAD spectrum, one that we didn't even try to understand again until Kinsey took charge in the 50's, I believe. In Greece, people were a little more outright with their desires, which is why I enjoy the nature of some of our ancient cultures.
Sexuality is beautiful, if you really open yourself, explore your true desires, filter out the crap, and really nurture it. I dont care if youre an SP, married, single, bi, straight, whatever.... treat your sexuality with respect and honor yourself the way you want to honor yourself. Supression is just horrible, and all of the guilt that comes with it
BCBOY, more power to you. I prefer real skin over dildos as well. And yes, many men, more so than admit on these boards, enjoy a good prostate massage. You are what you are, and you should not worry about any condemnation.
Some of my best friends are gay, and I have some of the best sex with guys that I know are bi. Hooray for them. They're incredibly enthusiastic lovers.
If people want to judge, they can judge, but you've got more to say for yourself because you seem to know what you want. Good for you hun.
Aly
here's my take on the matter. i personally, enjoy going down on girls, licking tits, etc... etc.... and yes, call me bi. i'm not a lezzie and i have complete happiness as a female. so to the posters (no need to name them!) that have said that it amounts to some level of "wanting to be the opposite gender"...seriously bite me. i dont want to be a dude and i'm as girly as they come....
human sexuality, as isabelle said, is a BROAD spectrum, one that we didn't even try to understand again until Kinsey took charge in the 50's, I believe. In Greece, people were a little more outright with their desires, which is why I enjoy the nature of some of our ancient cultures.
Sexuality is beautiful, if you really open yourself, explore your true desires, filter out the crap, and really nurture it. I dont care if youre an SP, married, single, bi, straight, whatever.... treat your sexuality with respect and honor yourself the way you want to honor yourself. Supression is just horrible, and all of the guilt that comes with it
BCBOY, more power to you. I prefer real skin over dildos as well. And yes, many men, more so than admit on these boards, enjoy a good prostate massage. You are what you are, and you should not worry about any condemnation.
Some of my best friends are gay, and I have some of the best sex with guys that I know are bi. Hooray for them. They're incredibly enthusiastic lovers.
If people want to judge, they can judge, but you've got more to say for yourself because you seem to know what you want. Good for you hun.
Aly
If it looks like a duck----
Hellman:
If it looks like a duck,walks like a duck,etc.gotta be a bloody duck
Hellman:
If it looks like a duck,walks like a duck,etc.gotta be a bloody duck
IMHO.....people think that one's occupation is related to their sexual drive/interest.
in my case, just cause someone likes working with numbers, formulas, symbols etc......doesn't mean they don't like dildos, whips, and chains......and vice versa
I'd heard that in ancient times the idea of having an "orientation" didn't really exist. If you were more powerful than someone and you wanted them sexually then you had sex with them.
Now that we are at least pretending to be somewhat egalitarian all these other factors have to be brought in to "justify" certains types of sexual experiences.
I've mentioned this book before but Robin Baker's Sperm Wars goes a very long way IMO to explaining our very odd and varied sexual behavior.
Also good to see what an understanding bunch the sps are on this board.
Now that we are at least pretending to be somewhat egalitarian all these other factors have to be brought in to "justify" certains types of sexual experiences.
I've mentioned this book before but Robin Baker's Sperm Wars goes a very long way IMO to explaining our very odd and varied sexual behavior.
Also good to see what an understanding bunch the sps are on this board.
Yes and no... apparently, often people in positions of power seek out sexual situations where they are more submissive or at least less in charge. But that doesn't have to be whips and chains..... it might just be a visit to VV
Right at the top of my to read list! I've seen a few documentary TV shows about his work - gotta love kamikaze sperm!
Wasn't it common in ancient Greece and Rome for men to have wives for the sake of family, and male lovers as companions and intellectual equals (or mentors/apprentice)?
good point.......I guess when you are in charge every day of a billion dollar corporation and 1000s of people, you wanna get away from the stress of leading and let someone else take charge for the hour or twoYes and no... apparently, often people in positions of power seek out sexual situations where they are more submissive or at least less in charge. But that doesn't have to be whips and chains..... it might just be a visit to VV
For example, in my social life and non-sp girls, I prefer to be the one in-charge and the leader; however, when seeing an SP, I like to let her lead
Anyways, my main point was that people often assume that someone with a conservative job (accountant, mathmatician, etc) also has a conservative sexual side......which is BS in my opinion
Same Here
I like things exactly as described in the original post. I see women as sexy, my eyes and body are immediately attracted to them and not to men. I don't identify with the stereotypical concerns and interests of gay men, and have no interest in gay/bi culture, if such a thing really exists. I just like the physical act.
So I don't worry about any label. I see it as a fetish, not an all-defining identity. My fetish can be satisfied by a woman with a toy. The key is that she has to get enjoyment from doing it. I completely understand what BC_Boy is talking about, and have long since realized that what other people call it is irrelevant.
I like things exactly as described in the original post. I see women as sexy, my eyes and body are immediately attracted to them and not to men. I don't identify with the stereotypical concerns and interests of gay men, and have no interest in gay/bi culture, if such a thing really exists. I just like the physical act.
So I don't worry about any label. I see it as a fetish, not an all-defining identity. My fetish can be satisfied by a woman with a toy. The key is that she has to get enjoyment from doing it. I completely understand what BC_Boy is talking about, and have long since realized that what other people call it is irrelevant.
