Advice please....

mistressfreyja

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My first thought:

is NOT to contact this guy under any circumstances.

His behavior (following her around, undetected and continuing advances, although they are completely unreciprocated) is indicative of a stalker.

And a stalker has a sociopath mentality. A sociopath doesn't stop, even when politely or rudely asked to fuck off. They don't feel remorse like most people would.

It isn't her job to diagnose what extent this dude is a sociopath, has a mental illness, or is simply social inept.

Tell her not to ever contact him, and write down every single incident, with the intent to file this with the police to take necessary steps to protect herself from someone that has already crossed the line of her personal safety.

THIS BEHAVIOR IS NOT APPROPRIATE in any respect.
 

mistressfreyja

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Better SAFE than sorry...or dead.

If the original description is accurate then he's been at this for months, despite never getting a response.

He doesn't appear to just happen to see her but watching and probably following her.

Better to be safe than sorry.
I usually love VV's hardline approach.

But I agree with the better safe than sorry, stance. His behavior is completely inappropriate and really scary, and she should NOT contact him with ANY sort of response. Someone truly sick with stalker capability will see this as an advance.

No contact, in this case, is probably for the best.
 
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