Hello fellow perbers.I've been on a two dating sites for quite some time now regarding internet dating.What a bleeping joke!I am going to get a white t-shirt printed up with a ghostbuster circle and put "cyberbabes" on it?Other site is Mate-1 dating.I figure with all the money I have spent in my life on prostitution(Thousands upon thousands of dollars,seriously,will have to ask Satan when i'm in hell?) I'd give a couple of these sites a shot.What a bleeping joke.For starters AFF has 90 thousand guys to only about 8 thousand ladies!Talk about flaky women,I tell ya.I thought the phone personals was bad having tried them in my younger days!Save your money guys!These two sites are a waist of time.Extreme head games by the ladies.Got to have everything they desire or what there expectations are it's beyond me.Might as well carry on here just paying for it!I and some other buddies of mine on both sites sure as hell ain't getting any results trying to meet todays modern educated employed ladies of the new millenium!Wouldn't mind hearing some of your guy's thoughts on internet dating.Any good sites other than these two out there that you would recommend.Chances of meeting a chick on one of theses sites is about as remote as winning the lotto 6/49.Seasons greetings
Adultfriendfinder Sucks!
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I would tend to agree. About the only good thing with Adultfriendfinder is all the amateur porn you get to look at. If you're into couples, there is a chance of getting some action. If you don't want a male audience around though, the women on there with any kind of looks at all either have way to much to choose from or they're only looking for other women. If anybody has had any positive experiences, please let us know.
Hooked up with a young lady looking for some extra $. Went to her place, not much furniture and it stunk. FS was $ 1/2, bbbj, cim and later was mentioned for an extra red bbfs, not my idea of fun.I had a hard time keeping it up and that never happens. She's about 19-20 BBW, will not repeat or recommend. Sorry i can't remeber her handle on AFF but i do have her e-mail. Too unsafe for my liking, i regret going there.
i saw one girl on Date.ca that was an escort. i have not checked to see if she has been kicked off because i have pretty much given up on internet dating.
i only met two women from online dating. one didnt look like her picture at all and the other forgot to mention the extra 100 or so pounds that she is packing. apparently, on those sites, "a few extra pounds" means ALOT OF EXTRA POUNDS.
i think the adult section in lavalife is pretty much the same as AFF. women have way too many guys to choose from.
i only met two women from online dating. one didnt look like her picture at all and the other forgot to mention the extra 100 or so pounds that she is packing. apparently, on those sites, "a few extra pounds" means ALOT OF EXTRA POUNDS.
i think the adult section in lavalife is pretty much the same as AFF. women have way too many guys to choose from.
It's a crap shoot
Yes AFF sucks.
I've tried on-line dating for years. It is rare that there are "hot" chicks available on these sites. Though there are some genuine women who post, but meeting them is like playing roulette.
I had my most success meeting women with mytelus.com/personals
I found that those women are more mature (grounded) and are also interested in meeting.
On-line dating is frustrating and you need a lot of patience, and you get very little reward. However, the girls did date seem to be very interested in sex. Put in a couple of weeks of time and then you get them in the sack. Funny though that none of those relationships worked out.
I've also tried Speed Dating. The talent is 50/50 but at least you get a good/bad vibe immediately with a girl and you know whether you want to invest time with her. The women at spped dating events are more interested in long term relationships - so you won't get into the sack with them right away.
Check it out: 25dates.com
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Yes AFF sucks.
I've tried on-line dating for years. It is rare that there are "hot" chicks available on these sites. Though there are some genuine women who post, but meeting them is like playing roulette.
I had my most success meeting women with mytelus.com/personals
I found that those women are more mature (grounded) and are also interested in meeting.
On-line dating is frustrating and you need a lot of patience, and you get very little reward. However, the girls did date seem to be very interested in sex. Put in a couple of weeks of time and then you get them in the sack. Funny though that none of those relationships worked out.
I've also tried Speed Dating. The talent is 50/50 but at least you get a good/bad vibe immediately with a girl and you know whether you want to invest time with her. The women at spped dating events are more interested in long term relationships - so you won't get into the sack with them right away.
Check it out: 25dates.com
later
I've had some success with lavalife before. Well OK, they didn't work out at the end, but at least I got a few dates from it and a couple of serious (albeit short-lived) relationships. But as with all online dating services, the guys outnumber the girls by something like 40/1 and the superficiality is overly apparent (if you're not a handsome athletic 20-something CEO over 6 ft tall with a full head of hair and a Donny Osmond smile then your chances are slim with a good majority of females). My best bets are to go after the ones with backstage pics and hope that they are decent, because they don't get as many hits as those with public pics. BTW, I'm talking about the Dating and Relationship sections here...the Intimate section is a no-mans-land, and women in the other sections will reject you if you have a profile there.
Speed dating is always worth a try. At least you see who you're dealing with immediately, and can see what kind of bonds can be established within your allocated 7 minutes. It can get a bit dull when the same questions are asked over and over: What do you do for a living? What do you do for fun? The only thing is that you hope that the co-ordinator is actually matching you up instead of just telling you 'no matches' because she doesn't like the look of you or something.
My best advice?
- Keep your expectations low. Don't expect to find "The One" or even a one-nighter immediately. Just expect to have fun chatting with the ladies.
- It's a numbers game - keep firing til you hit!
Speed dating is always worth a try. At least you see who you're dealing with immediately, and can see what kind of bonds can be established within your allocated 7 minutes. It can get a bit dull when the same questions are asked over and over: What do you do for a living? What do you do for fun? The only thing is that you hope that the co-ordinator is actually matching you up instead of just telling you 'no matches' because she doesn't like the look of you or something.
My best advice?
- Keep your expectations low. Don't expect to find "The One" or even a one-nighter immediately. Just expect to have fun chatting with the ladies.
- It's a numbers game - keep firing til you hit!
Hey Fellow PERBerts trying Online Dating ...
from what I just read I think $220 is a bargain at the MP. IMHO they are generally nice looking, don't tease and vanish, full fill an important need, don't need dinner at a nice restaurant and can't find where you live or call you afterwards
If you want someone at your home, it may cost $300 and they can find you afterwards but they generally don't want to so it is just as full filling .
Just my 2 cents ... T
from what I just read I think $220 is a bargain at the MP. IMHO they are generally nice looking, don't tease and vanish, full fill an important need, don't need dinner at a nice restaurant and can't find where you live or call you afterwards
If you want someone at your home, it may cost $300 and they can find you afterwards but they generally don't want to so it is just as full filling
. Just my 2 cents ... T
I think these sites are a little more useful in smaller cities (if you like women who aren't that attractive). I tried AFF and some others when I was in London, Ontario and got a few replys in a short period, but their online pic was nothing like their real pic. Felt like I was in Hillbilly Town, or something close to it. Haven't gone near those sites since.sexaholic said:
Be aware...some of them women on those sites are SCAMMERS!!! I almost got lured in a couple of times, but i got wise quick...Chat..yadda..yadda..Chat some more..email...email.swap pics...promise to meet..ASK FOR MONEY!!! BAILED...Do a search...There are lots out there..a few sites list the scammers email address... EVEN IF SHE PROMISES TO USE A MONEY ORDER..DON'T SEND CASH!!!! It can take up to 2 weeks for the money order to get rejected..then you are out...
Just a heads up...
Just a heads up...
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Aff
Hi..it's funny how all of you are saying sort of the same thing....i'm saying this because I was thinking of joining that sight.....REALLY!!
I haven't though....Something looks shifty about that site!!!
To good to be true!!! I think most would agree ( here) --since I'm new I'm not that qualified yet..but the ladies that are talked about and the the ones that i've seen pics of.....blow those ones that are shown on that site!! I don't see to many good looking ones on there!!
Cheers
Hi..it's funny how all of you are saying sort of the same thing....i'm saying this because I was thinking of joining that sight.....REALLY!!
I haven't though....Something looks shifty about that site!!!
To good to be true!!! I think most would agree ( here) --since I'm new I'm not that qualified yet..but the ladies that are talked about and the the ones that i've seen pics of.....blow those ones that are shown on that site!! I don't see to many good looking ones on there!!
Cheers
AFF or LavaLife - The Real Deal!
Ok, where to start. AFF aka HotMatch seems to have a bad reputation here. For the cost of one pooning session you can sign up for a gold membership which entitles you to access all acounts and pictures, watch porn, live camera action from amateurs etc.
It is like anything in life - you get out what you put in. I am average looking but keep myself in good shape. I am no model or adonis but have hooked up with several nice, hot, slutty and completly disgusting women. Its a crap shoot, a cross-section of general society. Its like the strip club in Seattle called...."50 Beautiful Women and Three Ugly Ones"! Do a little research and put a lot of effort into it - for a while, and see how the results are. Like the old saying "garbage in - garbage out". In no time you can zip through a ton of profiles, starting with the hot ones with pics. Write something witty and interesting - and guess what, its easy to cheat...read the profile and respond in kind. Be honest in your profile. Where else can you potentially talk with a thousand women in a month or two?
Success! I recently met a beautiful young woman. She is incredible in every way and have fallen in love with her. We both had low expectations, there is over a decade in age difference, she is very bisexual and started with women - but we have both been very pleasantly suprised! Just goes to show you that you never know where you will meet someone. The internet is not the once frowned upon wasteland of losers and geeks it was 10 or 15 years ago. Normal BUSY people go online and some meet other great people.
I used to poon 1 or 2, sometimes 3 or 4 times in a week. At times I would get back in town and visit two in a day! I have not seen one for months and don't really miss it. I had all the best ladies here, even fell for a couple But that was a phase, finished for now.
AFF worked for me. I have met two previous LTR from lava and had some great sex off there too. Once again figure out how to approach women - smile at everyone that appeals to you and only bother to mail the ones back that smile at you. I did it all without a picture up as well. AFF I used a pic and a lot more responses though. Its up to you, it only works if you try.
Good luck!
Ok, where to start. AFF aka HotMatch seems to have a bad reputation here. For the cost of one pooning session you can sign up for a gold membership which entitles you to access all acounts and pictures, watch porn, live camera action from amateurs etc.It is like anything in life - you get out what you put in. I am average looking but keep myself in good shape. I am no model or adonis but have hooked up with several nice, hot, slutty and completly disgusting women. Its a crap shoot, a cross-section of general society. Its like the strip club in Seattle called...."50 Beautiful Women and Three Ugly Ones"! Do a little research and put a lot of effort into it - for a while, and see how the results are. Like the old saying "garbage in - garbage out". In no time you can zip through a ton of profiles, starting with the hot ones with pics. Write something witty and interesting - and guess what, its easy to cheat...read the profile and respond in kind. Be honest in your profile. Where else can you potentially talk with a thousand women in a month or two?
Success! I recently met a beautiful young woman. She is incredible in every way and have fallen in love with her. We both had low expectations, there is over a decade in age difference, she is very bisexual and started with women - but we have both been very pleasantly suprised!
Just goes to show you that you never know where you will meet someone. The internet is not the once frowned upon wasteland of losers and geeks it was 10 or 15 years ago. Normal BUSY people go online and some meet other great people.I used to poon 1 or 2, sometimes 3 or 4 times in a week. At times I would get back in town and visit two in a day! I have not seen one for months and don't really miss it. I had all the best ladies here, even fell for a couple
But that was a phase, finished for now.AFF worked for me. I have met two previous LTR from lava and had some great sex off there too. Once again figure out how to approach women - smile at everyone that appeals to you and only bother to mail the ones back that smile at you. I did it all without a picture up as well. AFF I used a pic and a lot more responses though. Its up to you, it only works if you try.
Good luck!
I'm on both AFF and lava...
as well as AshleyMadison. I have had luck with all three. I agree, posting a picture or having one ready to send works better. I've met a few really nice and good looking women as well as a few stinkers...I've even seen a couple of our well known SP's profile's on AFF. I was curious to see if they would charge me if I made contact.
as well as AshleyMadison. I have had luck with all three. I agree, posting a picture or having one ready to send works better. I've met a few really nice and good looking women as well as a few stinkers...I've even seen a couple of our well known SP's profile's on AFF. I was curious to see if they would charge me if I made contact.
