Ad posting tips for SPs

[Vancity561]

Just killing some time on the train before heading home and got to thinking about some of the SP ads I've seen lately (ERS mostly) and what things lead me to place a call/txt and what things drive me to keep looking. All personal preferences and YMMV I realize but thought a discussion on what makes an ad compelling/interesting would yield some interesting ideas. Apologies if this topic has been done before/recently:

1. Dealing with faces/privacy

I have no problem with girls hiding their faces in their ads. Makes total sense and I'd do the same in their shoes no doubt. But how it is done matters. Avoiding face shots completely (ie. Below neck or backside shots only) is frustrating, as it gives no clue about hair colour or face shape. Perhaps I am more driven by a girls prettiness (face) than some but I usually won't bother with a girl if I can't get _some_ idea of how she might look. Even a blacked out face is better or - best of all - a heavy gaussian blur in Photoshop/Paint.net is better than nothing and far more likely to get my interest.

2. Pic variety

Lots to cover with pics but this is specifically about making good use of the pics you do choose to show. Specifically if you have 1 or 2 great shots of your ass, don't waste the other 4-5 pics just showing your ass from different angles or in different panties. Toss in a boob/bra shot, mix in a leg shot, include one on all fours w back arched, etc etc. Men are visual and these pics give us a sense of your entire "package". Nothing more frustrating than 5 pics all from the same angle or of the same body area. Also extreme close ups are generally useless. Even if you want to focus on your great rack, show them in context of your whole body or at least top half. Nobody needs a computer screen-sized nipple and half areola.

3. Include services please

This one is more functional and most girls are pretty good about it but I don't understand the ones that don't tell anything about what they will and won't do. If the thinking is the mystery will get me to call and ask, well think again. It just makes it harder to tell if I am interested in you or not because now there is an extra step that I must take. I may not even be looking for that day, just browsing for another day, so I'm not looking forward to calling a girl and potentially taking crap for "wasting her time". Just save us all a lot of time and hassle and say what you do/don't do.

4. Fake pics

Not gonna spend much time on this other than to say it's extremely annoying. Again I understand the need for privacy but with photo editing and cropping there is no reason you can't preserve your privacy and still use your own pics. With Google images, tineye etc we know when pics are fake most of the time anyway and I'll skip a girl just out of principle when she may very well be a stunner. Not in your best interests to do it IMO.

5. Give your general incall location

Vancouver is a big area. If you are downtown or on south Granville, it makes a big difference to whether I will see you. Save us both some time - me calling and you having to fill me in - by just listing your general area. No need to be detailed, but general location would be great.



Coming up to my station so going to have to wrap it up here. Probably could add a few more but curious what else guys would add or what some of the gals here think about these suggestions and why they may not work as well as I think.

Cheers!

 

[PuntMeister]

Hey, great advice there Vancity. Agree with all your points. Punt would like to ad the following to your list:

- Do a spell check / grammar check. Re-read a couple of times before you hit send. Better to get it right that say "I am a fight Milf and muy cut is juicy 4 yU". LOL. But seriosly, if you don't put any effort into your ad, how much effort can we expect you to put into your session? Sloppy posting = potential flake

- Talk to me, not to you. I love an ad that gets my attention, and headlines that ask questions in the advertising world get far more attention than statements. By posing an interogative, your ad engages us and pulls our passions and ego in to your world. ie: "Have you tasted the swetest naked pussy on the planet?", vs. ".....with big boobs, daty, shaved,......yada yada yada...."

- What are you special at? What makes you different? Make it truthful and you build your brand.

Good to hear you made your station there VC; much like a good session, I hope you enjoyed the Ride.

-Punt

 

[carvesg]

Good advice VC561. I have always wondered if any of the ladies keeps track of the ratio of views of their ad vs the number of call it generates . I am intrigued because some ads have thousands of views but the same ladies in some cases are not well known, never been reviewed or have conflicting reviews.

 

[odonnell]

3. Include services please

This one is more functional and most girls are pretty good about it but I don't understand the ones that don't tell anything about what they will and won't do. If the thinking is the mystery will get me to call and ask, well think again. It just makes it harder to tell if I am interested in you or not because now there is an extra step that I must take. I may not even be looking for that day, just browsing for another day, so I'm not looking forward to calling a girl and potentially taking crap for "wasting her time". Just save us all a lot of time and hassle and say what you do/don't do.

The posting rules for some sites (mostly American based such as backpage and craigslist) do not permit posters to offer sex for money so the ads are mostly disguised by design and those who do break rules and mention services provided often lose their ads so do cut the ladies some slack depending on what site their ad is on.

 

[twotip]

This should be a sticky

 

[Vancity561]

For some, this is a legal thing (women who cross the border). Many have already been banned on personal trips for providing. That also being said, I don't ever and will never list alphabet soup, services, or anything in my ad. I do practically everything you'll want, but you can ask me privately because that's where conversation like that belongs - between two people. What I deal in is time. You purchase time, and we do pretty much whatever the fuck you want as long as it's not unsafe or outright gross. I also offer clockfree visits, where you buy an experience and it's over when it's done. How do I describe that in acronyms? You get an experience. That's it ha.

First of all thanks for the insights. Definitely was hoping to hear from one of the lovely gals on this board for a non-guys perspective.

Re: not providing for legal reasons, I get that I suppose though I don't get how this info would ever be connected to your personal identity given that those ads are pretty much anonymous (fake name, fake pics or hidden face, etc). Who is seeing "DFK, BBBJ" and thinking "Whoa, NOW I think she's selling sexual services" that didn't already know this?

As for your view that it isn't really the time or place to communicate such things. Sorry but I really disagree. I am making a decision on where to drop a fairly large amount of money for your time. I am therefore going to value knowing as much as possible about how that time may be spent. You happen to have a pretty wide open menu but you are more the exception than the rule. Some girls allow kissing, some none at all. Some allow digits, others complain if you touch their boobs. I would never go into a session not knowing the ground rules ... it's not fair to her to put her in the position to not offer something I want to do and it's definitely not fair to me to be disappointed given the finances involved. So you _could_ make me call or txt to ask, but that isn't the intimate discussion you are describing. Rather I'm wasting her time and eating into my own just to clarify something that could have easily been out into the original ad.

I can tell you've never been stalked

No obviously not, nor can I imagine what that is really like. But I'm not clear on why saying you are located in Yaletown or Coal Harbour or Crosstown would expose you to a stalker? Those are large areas and unless the stalker is literally standing at a street corner hoping you'll walk past I don't think sharing your area exposes you to undue risk. And if it truly were that bad, you might want to consider leaving the profession to be truly safe. Besides 50-70% of ads don't give a general location other than "Burnaby/New West" and since I doubt 100% of those girls are being or have been stalked I assume it is unrelated to that. More likely just hadn't occurred to them.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Just killing some time on the train before heading home and got to thinking about some of the SP ads I've seen lately (ERS mostly) and what things lead me to place a call/txt and what things drive me to keep looking. All personal preferences and YMMV I realize but thought a discussion on what makes an ad compelling/interesting would yield some interesting ideas. Apologies if this topic has been done before/recently:

1. Dealing with faces/privacy

I have no problem with girls hiding their faces in their ads. Makes total sense and I'd do the same in their shoes no doubt. But how it is done matters. Avoiding face shots completely (ie. Below neck or backside shots only) is frustrating, as it gives no clue about hair colour or face shape. Perhaps I am more driven by a girls prettiness (face) than some but I usually won't bother with a girl if I can't get _some_ idea of how she might look. Even a blacked out face is better or - best of all - a heavy gaussian blur in Photoshop/Paint.net is better than nothing and far more likely to get my interest.

It may surprise you to know that some ladies actually have to hide their hair, in order not to be recognizable. It seems to me that you should stick to the ads that show all of the things you require, instead of suggesting to girls that don't, that they should. I guess it just hasn't occurred to you that most SPs do actually know this, and must be doing their advertising the way they are, for certain reasons! Of course, some men won't go see someone unless they've gotten a look at their face, like you. However, many men will.

2. Pic variety

Lots to cover with pics but this is specifically about making good use of the pics you do choose to show. Specifically if you have 1 or 2 great shots of your ass, don't waste the other 4-5 pics just showing your ass from different angles or in different panties. Toss in a boob/bra shot, mix in a leg shot, include one on all fours w back arched, etc etc. Men are visual and these pics give us a sense of your entire "package". Nothing more frustrating than 5 pics all from the same angle or of the same body area. Also extreme close ups are generally useless. Even if you want to focus on your great rack, show them in context of your whole body or at least top half. Nobody needs a computer screen-sized nipple and half areola.

Sorry you're so frustrated. Refer to #1. above.

3. Include services please

This one is more functional and most girls are pretty good about it but I don't understand the ones that don't tell anything about what they will and won't do. If the thinking is the mystery will get me to call and ask, well think again. It just makes it harder to tell if I am interested in you or not because now there is an extra step that I must take. I may not even be looking for that day, just browsing for another day, so I'm not looking forward to calling a girl and potentially taking crap for "wasting her time". Just save us all a lot of time and hassle and say what you do/don't do.

Here you assume that you are reading a restaurant menu, and you're hoping they have something gluten free on it. Acronyms are crass, and it can take away from the overall experience of the ad, and the essence you are trying to present in a website, if you post a laundry list of all the do's and don'ts.

4. Fake pics

Not gonna spend much time on this other than to say it's extremely annoying. Again I understand the need for privacy but with photo editing and cropping there is no reason you can't preserve your privacy and still use your own pics. With Google images, tineye etc we know when pics are fake most of the time anyway and I'll skip a girl just out of principle when she may very well be a stunner. Not in your best interests to do it IMO.

No argument here. And there are many threads devoted to the discussion of ads with fake pics. The funny thing is, if you read the reviews, those that post fake ads never have a shortage of customers, go figure. In fact, if she even slightly resembles the fake pic, most guys seem to be OK with that!

5. Give your general incall location

Vancouver is a big area. If you are downtown or on south Granville, it makes a big difference to whether I will see you. Save us both some time - me calling and you having to fill me in - by just listing your general area. No need to be detailed, but general location would be great.

Again, I can't argue here. It makes a huge difference to the gentleman caller if the lady lives in North Burnaby or the West End, granted. Travel time, convenience in the daily schedule, parking and traffic concerns, it all makes sense. I'm gonna have to say that it isn't exactly dangerous to give an idea, in your ad, of your municipality. It can actually be a bonus when said gentleman knows that you're in the West End, and his travels happen to take him to that area today. Some may even keep a roster based on location, for future reference, and I think that's super smart! Variety is the spice of life!

Coming up to my station so going to have to wrap it up here. Probably could add a few more but curious what else guys would add or what some of the gals here think about these suggestions and why they may not work as well as I think.

Cheers!

What you have basically exposed, Vancity561, is that you want to spend as little time as possible on research. You want it all laid out for you (no pun intended), like the SEARS catalogue, or the Amazon website. Sorry but it doesn't work that way. As some of the other ladies have commented, SPs are unique individuals, who all do things differently, from start to finish. Your job is not to make suggestions as to how they can present themselves in ways that are more pleasing and convenient for you (or speaking for others). Your job is to find the ones who do meet with your high standards, and give the experience a go. Having been around a few years now, I'm rather surprised at this point, that you're posting your advertising suggestions in such a way. That's like going to the candy bar aisle and feeling frustrated over the vast selection you have to choose from. Where's that thread on First World problems...?

 

[Vancity561]

So first of all there's many ways they can connect your ads with you. Lots of ways, the easiest one would be to book an appointment with you via your ad, right? That's pretty simple.

Makes sense I guess. Still would assume a person motivated enough to stalk you is going to get your location anyway - phone call from another number, email from a different account - so it really just makes it harder for the legit customers to know if you're in their area or not. But I get your point and I don't blame anyone for prioritizing their safety.

Why not stop questioning why ladies who travel internationally don't want to post self incriminating stuff? You're almost acting like you think it's a ploy by girls as a way to avoid posting a "menu" (I loathe that word). Accept the answer given, it's the truth whether you choose to believe or understand it or not.

LOL, are you actually asking me to accept an answer that makes no sense because you said so? Sorry, most people don't work that way and neither do I. There are hundreds of girls posting on erslist and up to half probably don't list services. You want me to believe that it is solely because they all travel internationally (unlikely) and that somehow posting "DFK, CBJ, MSOG" in their ad is the difference between them being able to travel or not? How about the part where they describe their "hot ass" or "luscious boobs"? Does that not incriminate them as well or more than writing the words "MSOG"?

As to locals not listing services? There's plenty of other reasons a girl won't. That's her choice, perhaps don't see her? Because perhaps she took her "menu" down to avoid men who seek a "menu". Do you read reviews before you see a girl? Generally I think reviews are a much more accurate way to determine if the girl is the type you want to see. If she only does cbj and other "dealbreakers" (for some) it will be mentioned in her reviews or at least in the replies. If there's something specific (like an outfit request or nail polish request [yes that's a thing]) then contact her and ask

*Sigh* I understand it my choice not to see her, that isn't the intention of this thread. Perhaps try to understand it from the other side before you condemn. There are HUNDREDS of girls posting ads. I am looking for information that helps me narrow it down to a small handful of girls that I might then contact and discuss getting together. What should I go by? Her pics? Probably fake. Her location? She won't list it. Her services? Not listed. So what am I going by to narrow it down then? Her blurb about how my time with her will be magic? Call dozens of girls and find out "what they're like" in 30 seconds on the phone? Read dozens of poorly written reviews?

Look, if you think offering a "menu" is so horrible, then fine, I'm not trying to change YOUR mind. I'm trying to suggest to the girls that would like to see me - I am not a horrible person despite my desire to know more about a girl before meeting her - that this would help me make a decision that hopefully leads to her. If that isn't your goal and you just want to see only those honest and true men that don't care about what you do together, then cool beans. But I don't think you need to get on a high horse about this either.

 

[Vancity561]

What you have basically exposed, Vancity561, is that you want to spend as little time as possible on research. You want it all laid out for you (no pun intended), like the SEARS catalogue, or the Amazon website. Sorry but it doesn't work that way. As some of the other ladies have commented, SPs are unique individuals, who all do things differently, from start to finish. Your job is not to make suggestions as to how they can present themselves in ways that are more pleasing and convenient for you (or speaking for others). Your job is to find the ones who do meet with your high standards, and give the experience a go. Having been around a few years now, I'm rather surprised at this point, that you're posting your advertising suggestions in such a way. That's like going to the candy bar aisle and feeling frustrated over the vast selection you have to choose from. Where's that thread on First World problems...?

Haha, so I view you like a Sears catalogue (bad) but you view it as a candy bar aisle (good)? Funny double standard.

And how is it a first world problem? Let's not pretend that this hobby is _inexpensive_. So to use your candy bar analogy (since you made it and I assume you won't get offended by it), let's assume there are 200 candy bars each for $200. The wrappers contain photos of other candy bars and may or may not be the actual bar inside. Some say they contain peanuts, toffee, etc while other say nothing but rather hope I'll buy it and then like whatever it is. I know from MY experience, I am going to choose the one that tells me what it is before I drop my 200 on it only to find out that it is orange cream filling which I hate and can't stand.

Am I being selfish dick for wanting to know more about how my time will be spent with a girl BEFORE I meet her? According to you I am, so I guess my business isn't for you which is fine and cool. But for those who would like my business, these are tips that would help them. No offense meant though clearly a lot was taken around here.

 

[luvthecurve]

transparency would benefit both parties. due to the nature of this business, it's hard be to achieved for one reason or another. if I have questions about a certain girl who I'm interested, I'd ask the girl directly or other Perb member. but I do share your frustration regarding some of the pictures that were posted in the ads. I do believe that you can spot the quality of a SP by the way she posts her ad.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

+1
Alex you always have such a way with words

I think Ms Alex's response to this post ought to be a sticky SOMEWHERE!

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

I personally don't care about the term hooker or prostitute etc. It is what it is, saying it in other words doesn't change the fact that it's prostitution. But I understand that there are more sensitive types out there who take offence to the word. I personally think we should "take it back" like how the African Americans have taken back the N word. (This is a vague reference to a movie that I can't remember the name of lol)

Clerks II. Kevin Smith! HEART him and Mewes big time!

 

[badbadboy]

I put my comments within your text

Just killing some time on the train before heading home and got to thinking about some of the SP ads I've seen lately (ERS mostly) and what things lead me to place a call/txt and what things drive me to keep looking. All personal preferences and YMMV I realize but thought a discussion on what makes an ad compelling/interesting would yield some interesting ideas. Apologies if this topic has been done before/recently:

1. Dealing with faces/privacy

I have no problem with girls hiding their faces in their ads. Makes total sense and I'd do the same in their shoes no doubt. But how it is done matters. Avoiding face shots completely (ie. Below neck or backside shots only) is frustrating, as it gives no clue about hair colour or face shape. Perhaps I am more driven by a girls prettiness (face) than some but I usually won't bother with a girl if I can't get _some_ idea of how she might look. Even a blacked out face is better or - best of all - a heavy gaussian blur in Photoshop/Paint.net is better than nothing and far more likely to get my interest.

Privacy is each SP's choice. How would being barred from travel to the USA for ten year suit you? It happens. I respect their choice on this one. Too bad if you like to see their faces, pay the freight and find out personally.

2. Pic variety

Lots to cover with pics but this is specifically about making good use of the pics you do choose to show. Specifically if you have 1 or 2 great shots of your ass, don't waste the other 4-5 pics just showing your ass from different angles or in different panties. Toss in a boob/bra shot, mix in a leg shot, include one on all fours w back arched, etc etc. Men are visual and these pics give us a sense of your entire "package". Nothing more frustrating than 5 pics all from the same angle or of the same body area. Also extreme close ups are generally useless. Even if you want to focus on your great rack, show them in context of your whole body or at least top half. Nobody needs a computer screen-sized nipple and half areola.

Yah I tend to agree more with this one since I am very visually motivated. Better selection of pics goes a long way to get my attention. Shitty selfie pics in the bathroom don't impress me. At least get a friend to take a few shots for you.

3. Include services please

This one is more functional and most girls are pretty good about it but I don't understand the ones that don't tell anything about what they will and won't do. If the thinking is the mystery will get me to call and ask, well think again. It just makes it harder to tell if I am interested in you or not because now there is an extra step that I must take. I may not even be looking for that day, just browsing for another day, so I'm not looking forward to calling a girl and potentially taking crap for "wasting her time". Just save us all a lot of time and hassle and say what you do/don't do.

I agree with what the ladies are saying to you on this one. Menu is a non starter for over ninety percent of the ladies I see. I think a simple line outlining restrictions is more to the point.

4. Fake pics

Not gonna spend much time on this other than to say it's extremely annoying. Again I understand the need for privacy but with photo editing and cropping there is no reason you can't preserve your privacy and still use your own pics. With Google images, tineye etc we know when pics are fake most of the time anyway and I'll skip a girl just out of principle when she may very well be a stunner. Not in your best interests to do it IMO.

I agree, very frustrating and the SP's in question are getting smarter about it. They or their handlers are reverse imaging the pics and making it tougher for the different image website to figure it out. I report any I find that are fake. Put the onus on erslist or vancity or BP to make the ads go away.

5. Give your general incall location

Vancouver is a big area. If you are downtown or on south Granville, it makes a big difference to whether I will see you. Save us both some time - me calling and you having to fill me in - by just listing your general area. No need to be detailed, but general location would be great.

Totally agree that a ballpark vicinity is necessary. If I am working in Burnaby or Coquitlam one day and want some fun in between appointments, I don't want to deviate to Richmond to do it. I primarily play in Yaletown but on occasion will go further afield for some fun. I don't find it stalkerish to ask for a general vicinity.



Coming up to my station so going to have to wrap it up here. Probably could add a few more but curious what else guys would add or what some of the gals here think about these suggestions and why they may not work as well as I think.

Cheers!

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Maybe I'm oversimplifying this but, if you don't like the way a lady advertises then cross her off your list and move on. There are many ladies with many different advertising styles targeted towards varying market demographics. In other words, lots of fish in the sea.

Like BBB, I'm not partial to bathroom selfies and therefore I choose not to see ladies who post them. However, it doesn't bother me if they do. Whatever works for them, it's their business and I'm sure there are plenty of clients who don't mind.

Laissez faire - Noninterference in the affairs of others.

Yes...'leave it as it's done' !

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Haha, so I view you like a Sears catalogue (bad) but you view it as a candy bar aisle (good)? Funny double standard.

And how is it a first world problem? Let's not pretend that this hobby is _inexpensive_. So to use your candy bar analogy (since you made it and I assume you won't get offended by it), let's assume there are 200 candy bars each for $200. The wrappers contain photos of other candy bars and may or may not be the actual bar inside. Some say they contain peanuts, toffee, etc while other say nothing but rather hope I'll buy it and then like whatever it is. I know from MY experience, I am going to choose the one that tells me what it is before I drop my 200 on it only to find out that it is orange cream filling which I hate and can't stand.

Am I being selfish dick for wanting to know more about how my time will be spent with a girl BEFORE I meet her? According to you I am, so I guess my business isn't for you which is fine and cool. But for those who would like my business, these are tips that would help them. No offense meant though clearly a lot was taken around here.

No, I never implied that you're a selfish dick at all; lazy perhaps. I understand that you just don't want to waste a lot of time, sorting out which of the ladies are the closest to what you're looking for.

You cannot imagine the number of kind and conscientious texts and e-mails I receive, asking me questions. The weird thing is, this does take up some of my time, as most guys barely read the ads, so I actually answer (daily) many points that are discussed in my ads and on my website! You'll hear this echoed by almost every SP! Some ladies put a ton of information in their ads and websites and actually bash every guy that has the audacity to call and ask any questions. They're like 'DIDN"T YOU READ MY AD? WHY ARE YOU ASKING ME THESE QUESTIONS?'

Personally, I love answering questions, no matter what!

So just don't be surprised if the ads don't change in style, depth, and detail, after reading your thoughtful and unique suggestions...

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I think Ms Alex's response to this post ought to be a sticky SOMEWHERE!

+1
Alex you always have such a way with words

 

[cherise]

transparency would benefit both parties. due to the nature of this business, it's hard be to achieved for one reason or another. if I have questions about a certain girl who I'm interested, I'd ask the girl directly or other Perb member. but I do share your frustration regarding some of the pictures that were posted in the ads. I do believe that you can spot the quality of a SP by the way she posts her ad.

how does the type of picture determine the quality of the sp? there are plenty of photographers like vancouverman who will do the glamour shoots at no cost. the reason i use selfies is mainly at the request of the guys. i ran a poll on a different board and it was a landslide in favor of selfies.

the fellows felt more confident that " what they see is what they get" with the phone shots. greater chance of fake or heavily photoshopped with professional studio shots

 

[sdw]

Haha, so I view you like a Sears catalogue (bad) but you view it as a candy bar aisle (good)? Funny double standard.

And how is it a first world problem? Let's not pretend that this hobby is _inexpensive_. So to use your candy bar analogy (since you made it and I assume you won't get offended by it), let's assume there are 200 candy bars each for $200. The wrappers contain photos of other candy bars and may or may not be the actual bar inside. Some say they contain peanuts, toffee, etc while other say nothing but rather hope I'll buy it and then like whatever it is. I know from MY experience, I am going to choose the one that tells me what it is before I drop my 200 on it only to find out that it is orange cream filling which I hate and can't stand.

Am I being selfish dick for wanting to know more about how my time will be spent with a girl BEFORE I meet her? According to you I am, so I guess my business isn't for you which is fine and cool. But for those who would like my business, these are tips that would help them. No offense meant though clearly a lot was taken around here.

To Add:

If the lady is advertizing GFE, be aware that nobody knows what GFE is. There are ladies that think GFE doesn't include kissing or digits, but the "I won't do things" are not included in her Ad. There are a couple of ladies that advertize GFE without elaboration AND have no reviews. I don't do TOFTT.

I usually click past ladies that think that anatomical detail shots will get me to phone, on the other hand, there are ladies that have professional pictures with good lighting and sexy clothing. I've seen a couple of them. I always run pictures through Google, if there are thousands of hits on the picture, the lady is lying to me and I won't see her.

I also look for the word "Safe" in the Ad. Safe GFE, lfk means that I will consider seeing her. Anything that gives me the thought that she will do uncovered anything, means that I won't consider seeing her.

 

[sdw]

how does the type of picture determine the quality of the sp? there are plenty of photographers like vancouverman who will do the glamour shoots at no cost. the reason i use selfies is mainly at the request of the guys. i ran a poll on a different board and it was a landslide in favor of selfies.

the fellows felt more confident that " what they see is what they get" with the phone shots. greater chance of fake or heavily photoshopped with professional studio shots

The reference may be to the SPs that post anatomical detail shots. Ladies can look sexy and not be a page in a medical textbook.

 

[cherise]

To Add:

If the lady is advertizing GFE, be aware that nobody knows what GFE is. There are ladies that think GFE doesn't include kissing or digits, but the "I won't do things" are not included in her Ad. There are a couple of ladies that advertize GFE without elaboration AND have no reviews. I don't do TOFTT.

I usually click past ladies that think that anatomical detail shots will get me to phone, on the other hand, there are ladies that have professional pictures with good lighting and sexy clothing. I've seen a couple of them. I always run pictures through Google, if there are thousands of hits on the picture, the lady is lying to me and I won't see her.

I also look for the word "Safe" in the Ad. Safe GFE, lfk means that I will consider seeing her. Anything that gives me the thought that she will do uncovered anything, means that I won't consider seeing her.

maybe they think it means that you will "Get Fucked Eventually"