I used to spend a lot more time in this section, when it was more fun. Freya. Jasmine, BA..Hubba, EdmontonSubbie..the list goes on..so does life and many of them have moved on. I wish them all well. It may be of interest to some that it was the folks in this forum that organized the first of the various MERLs and WERLs that have been referred to in the Lounge.....just an observation.
Over the years I have liked to play as a Dom...I have paddled some great asses, bound some beautiful tits and suspended some magnificent bodies all in the name of pleasure...never mind the legs that have been spread.....with a variety of spreader bars some of which were also used for suspension. Block and tackles are such under appreciated toys.
A couple years ago I met with a pro-sub advertising on LL. Met for lunch, were comfortable with what we saw and heard and a session was arranged. It was fairly basic, some humiliation and degradation, some bondage and punishment, sushi and wine. It went well enough that there was another session...followed up on the theme established during the first, but mush more intense, the lady is a self-proclaimed pain slut. Great for me as I like making my own toys that are superb at generating pain. One of the observations she has made is that any welts I raise on her ass or elsewhere generally last a week or more, her other clients a day or two at best. Not that she's complaining, in particular since I can do this without the force used by her other clients. I have, to my delight managed to introduce her to a number of new ways to punish a misbehaving sub that she never experienced before....which she enjoyed. I also introduced her to my dog, in fact I have introduced everybody on PERB to my dog, at least through pictures..she met him in person. I wish I could get my nose into her crotch the way he does, won't even need the peanut butter as incentive.
Anyway, this weekend the wife is away and I invited the lady over for dinner, not something unusual as over the past couple years we have spent more social time together then professional time. In fact the lady has a key to my house, she's one of the few people the dog will let in and she comes by to walk him if we are away for any extended period of time. Also helps she lives about a 15 minute walk from my place.
After dinner we had a session, not a professional one.. a fun one...where she was the domme. They say, I don't know which they...but they say that to be a good dom you have know how to be a good sub or at least have the experience. It long before I found myself bent over the bed getting my ass paddled with a bought toy and then one of my own creations. We got to arranging this as a result of texting back and forth about a strap-on experience she had. No she didn't bring the strap-on, not that it mattered, I had a number of dildos and other anal play things around she knows about and has experienced. You know, having a rubber cock up your ass and having somebody slamming it with their pelvis probably feels as close to a strap-on as you can probably get. Seems I'll find that out at a future date when she picks hers up from the boyfriend.....should I be worried ? Since there was no guarantee that this was not going to be a one time thing she decided to cover a number of bases during this one session.
All in all it was quite a learning experience for me. Will it make me a better dom....yes....does it improve the trust in our play relationship, yes....and it means I am going to expand the range of how I inflict pain on the little slut....it also means a stronger personal relationship as friends.
Over the years I have liked to play as a Dom...I have paddled some great asses, bound some beautiful tits and suspended some magnificent bodies all in the name of pleasure...never mind the legs that have been spread.....with a variety of spreader bars some of which were also used for suspension. Block and tackles are such under appreciated toys.
A couple years ago I met with a pro-sub advertising on LL. Met for lunch, were comfortable with what we saw and heard and a session was arranged. It was fairly basic, some humiliation and degradation, some bondage and punishment, sushi and wine. It went well enough that there was another session...followed up on the theme established during the first, but mush more intense, the lady is a self-proclaimed pain slut. Great for me as I like making my own toys that are superb at generating pain. One of the observations she has made is that any welts I raise on her ass or elsewhere generally last a week or more, her other clients a day or two at best. Not that she's complaining, in particular since I can do this without the force used by her other clients. I have, to my delight managed to introduce her to a number of new ways to punish a misbehaving sub that she never experienced before....which she enjoyed. I also introduced her to my dog, in fact I have introduced everybody on PERB to my dog, at least through pictures..she met him in person. I wish I could get my nose into her crotch the way he does, won't even need the peanut butter as incentive.
Anyway, this weekend the wife is away and I invited the lady over for dinner, not something unusual as over the past couple years we have spent more social time together then professional time. In fact the lady has a key to my house, she's one of the few people the dog will let in and she comes by to walk him if we are away for any extended period of time. Also helps she lives about a 15 minute walk from my place.
After dinner we had a session, not a professional one.. a fun one...where she was the domme. They say, I don't know which they...but they say that to be a good dom you have know how to be a good sub or at least have the experience. It long before I found myself bent over the bed getting my ass paddled with a bought toy and then one of my own creations. We got to arranging this as a result of texting back and forth about a strap-on experience she had. No she didn't bring the strap-on, not that it mattered, I had a number of dildos and other anal play things around she knows about and has experienced. You know, having a rubber cock up your ass and having somebody slamming it with their pelvis probably feels as close to a strap-on as you can probably get. Seems I'll find that out at a future date when she picks hers up from the boyfriend.....should I be worried ? Since there was no guarantee that this was not going to be a one time thing she decided to cover a number of bases during this one session.
All in all it was quite a learning experience for me. Will it make me a better dom....yes....does it improve the trust in our play relationship, yes....and it means I am going to expand the range of how I inflict pain on the little slut....it also means a stronger personal relationship as friends.
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