A question to SPs or anybody that wants to comment...
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I didn't know this was a common thing at all. I don't allow anybody near my phone or email account. I totally respect everyone's way of doing business, but don't you ever get worried about what might happen if your friend happened to recognize the client's phone number or email address?
Chill out dude, you're just not the center of her universe anymore. Women can be so flaky like that.
hey whiteshark!
If I did not want to see someone again, I would most definitely make that clear. It has only happened about 3 times, 2 times they stayed away, the 3rd time we made up and all was well afterwards. If I had just simply been busy, there are times where I only can get to my messages once or twice a day, and miss opportunities to meet with people. Once I make a good connection with someone, I will remember a lot about their preferences, although even so, I go for a time without answering my messages simply because I do not see them until much later or the following day. So from my personal experience I think you are getting too far into this, so be patient, eventually you can connect to her again… Anticipation is a powerful aphrodisiac!
If I did not want to see someone again, I would most definitely make that clear. It has only happened about 3 times, 2 times they stayed away, the 3rd time we made up and all was well afterwards. If I had just simply been busy, there are times where I only can get to my messages once or twice a day, and miss opportunities to meet with people. Once I make a good connection with someone, I will remember a lot about their preferences, although even so, I go for a time without answering my messages simply because I do not see them until much later or the following day. So from my personal experience I think you are getting too far into this, so be patient, eventually you can connect to her again… Anticipation is a powerful aphrodisiac!
Whiteshark - don't get hung up on coming. There have been many times where I haven't come when with an SP. Sometimes it is a first visit and unfamiliarity. Always there's a condom and no friction.
But even with familiar repeats - sometimes we play and play, and then - time's up. Too bad, just finish up at home.
You've got a beautiful naked girl in your hands, stop obsessing and enjoy. This is the best its gonna get all day.
If you really like a failure if you don't come - ask to come early with a BJ. Then just enjoy the rest of the time stroking and squeezing.
But even with familiar repeats - sometimes we play and play, and then - time's up. Too bad, just finish up at home.
You've got a beautiful naked girl in your hands, stop obsessing and enjoy. This is the best its gonna get all day.
If you really like a failure if you don't come - ask to come early with a BJ. Then just enjoy the rest of the time stroking and squeezing.
But Ryan Gosling always seems to have lots of confidence and dynamite social skills. And he's so dreamy too.
my friend you are not cut out for pooning based on your current mindset. You have to be able to see it and play it for what it is - entertainment, not a thing more. I fear you may seek attraction with the wrong type of girls. If you cannot relax and thoroughly enjoy it, then you are "forcing" it and that aint going to work.
I wish you the best.
I wish you the best.
With ourself being the only container through which we experience the world, it may sometimes seem that everything that affects us is about us. But the liklihood that her choice of words or lack of personableness is a sign of rejection is pretty unlikely. Remember that sps have a whole other life that you are not privy to and many things going on that she is unlikely to share with you so her changes in mood may leave you feeling confused if you take them personally. Unless you have explicitly asked her something and she has given you a direct answer, do not make assumptions. Also realize that her answers to you are going to give you limited information if you are asking about anything that is not directly related to you as a client. Don't fret. Unless she has told you she does not want to see you, dont assume that is the case. On the other hand if she completely disregards your attempts to contact her for an extended period of time, then stop contacting her.
I tend to agree with Willingham. You seem to be going down the path of considering this SP as a type of girlfriend or friend. This is a business and the SPs are doing a job. Certainly friendship relationships can develop over time if you see an SP many times and the two of you get along well but that is not the norm. I would be concerned that you may fixate on one SP and get emotionally connected which is dangerous as you are a client of hers not a boyfriend. I would recommend you make the effort to see a number of different SPs to avoid becoming attached to one in particular. I think once you have experienced many different SPs your mindset will change. Good luck.
