Yes, but the problem here is that she doesn't see what she did as being wrong and still maintains there is no right or wrong - so why would she do things any differently next time.
It was not her place to say anything at all. Her loyalty was to her client and if his wife already knew "anyway", that didn't give her the green light to confirm it or betray his confidence. Period. She wasn't backed up again a wall with a gun to her head being told to talk or else.. It showed lack of judgment on her part IMO, not to mention lack of discretion.
As someone's already mentioned, I doubt the fact that this client and many others are married should come as news or be a surprise to her. She should have already thought about and planned the way in which she would react if she ever got a call such as the one she got. Also, I must say that if she views her/our role as one which is responsible for and to blame for breaking families up, and as such, feels it acceptable to betray clients trust when her heart hurts, then I would suggest she is not in the right profession.
It's silly to even think that an sp may be responsible for this, completely absurd. In most cases, it would be just as absurd to lay the blame solely on the man, as stepping out on a marriage isn't the root of the problem, it is a result of the actual problem which, most of the time involves 2 people sharing blame. It's simplistic to say that an sp is to blame.
It's just easier for people to put the blame on things that don't force them to answer some hard questions about themselves and their problems, whether it's alcoholism or marriage.
