$300 to take a SP to the movies!

[Cock Throppled]

Lot's of times with only money spent on a latte.

As usual you make a lot of assumptions usually on the negative side.

Just going by the information provided - "So if we go shopping I usually offer to pay for some retail therapy whether its clothing, stuff for her apartment or whatever we have chosen to do together on her day off. Sure sometimes its been $300 but that's just me; I am a generous guy. Sometimes its a few things that cost < $100. Its never a hard and set rule about paying for social time but I do offer gifts even though she will pull out her cash to pay. We enjoy each other's company."

Maybe it's all fine like you say, but try an experiment where you buy her NOTHING for the next six social outings and see if anything changes. She might still be fine with things. If you're a loyal customer, it's just good marketing, but are you willing to gamble?

 

[Pillowtalk]

Maybe it's just my point of view, but I can't see how any two people can be friends, if one party won't spend time with the other without the exchange of money. I think the business relationship always takes priority and if a SP can see that a client is confusing that, it is her responsibility to clearly define the nature and extent of their actual relationship to her client.

I think the sp who can't draw the line appropriately is just asking for misunderstanding and hard feelings. She'd be better off doing as the sp in the OP's story: telling him that 3 to 4 hours of her time will run him $300. For social rate, that seems a bit high, but it's her day off, and he wanted her to 'work' by spending time with him. He thinks a movie date with someone who just paid to pound her is a vacation, she's thinking he expects sex anyway, so she factored that into the fee.

Sps who blur the lines are only going to hurt the guys' feelings when he figures out that he isn't actually a real friend, but a paying client she has a friendly relationship with. I just don't think it is a very nice thing to do, whether she is an sp or not, to string a guy along like that.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

If your going to take the lady to the movies might as well make it a drive-in. At least there you could get a bj in the privacy of your own car.

Its not something I've looked for lately. Probably rains too much. Would suck to watch screen through wiper swipes

what would suck would be watching the movie while getting a blowjob!

 

[InTheBum]

4+ pages and no one has asked the real question.

Where the heck is the review?

Edward, I never posted a review since I didn't like the greedy side of this girl! She is a pretty good deal @160 for 2 shots, but she only allows that for guys she likes...hence, why I asked her out to a movie. She goes by the name Mico on Erslist...and works a few blocks away from MetroTown on Kingsway. I did her 2 weeks ago, and who knows if she is still around...I can't recall her number.

 

[UhOh]

what would suck would be watching the movie while getting a blowjob!

Any chick that wants to suck my dick while I watch a movie will be greatly appreciated

 

[lenny]

Edward, I never posted a review since I didn't like the greedy side of this girl! She is a pretty good deal @160 for 2 shots, but she only allows that for guys she likes...hence, why I asked her out to a movie. She goes by the name Mico on Erslist...and works a few blocks away from MetroTown on Kingsway. I did her 2 weeks ago, and who knows if she is still around...I can't recall her number.

I did a search for "erslist mico" & it also decided to give me results for "resist micro".

 

[james1944]

Hmmm... I guess if u like a SP and wanna do something outside pooning, might be better to ask if she does social outtings and ask how much up front.

 

[Travel]

I'm not surprised at all, it's a business after all. However, If she asked you out, then I wouldn't expect to pay her for her time. It would be a platonic type of thing. I can appreciate your efforts and kindness, but biz is biz.

I've been pooning for more years than I care to admit and I prefer to keep things on a business level. Admittedly, after a period of time, comfort levels can evolve and I have found myself hanging out with providers in a non-work related setting.
I never ask them out. If it happens, it's because they put the wheels in motion. We don't have sex, we just grab an occasional meal or drink or go to a concert. I even took a language class with one. It doesn't happen frequently, but over the past ten years it's happened with six different women. Truth be told, after the friendships started, the sex ended. Getting to know them on a personal level and hearing stories about their work lives changed the dynamic of things. That's just my experience though. I know of two providers who are married to former clients, so all sorts of things happen.

 

[sevenofnine]

i book long sessions with my sp. they cost me over six.
and we do have supper and talk.

the reason.

i need to know she is ok,
i need to know im ok,
i need to know we both enjoy the evening.

instead of walking away and just having a bad feeling.


i have never asked an sp for free social time,
and never will

but they have asked me.