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Thanks for your interest, brother—and for pointing out the truncated link. Just google "true population of China." The article I wanted to link to comes up 3rd for me, but the first two results are worth reading, too. There's also good stuff for Chinese culture buffs under "sexuality China."

A very valid point of view Thank you, susi, for your informed input on whether the influx of Chinese SPs is good or bad. I'm one of your sincere admirers. No one could better articulate what's probably the overwhelming consensus among Western SPs—except that most would be considerably more...

The world economy is massively impacted by China—and the sex business is no exception. By far the majority of SPs in many Western cities, like Vancouver, are now Chinese. This seems odd, given that China has a terrible women shortage. China is 10s of millions of marriageable women short, due to...

Thanks for the empathy & encouragement Sure appreciate a few loyal readers' feedback on my saga of going BJ hunting in local dancehalls. Hope, at some point, I'll have a Happy Ending to report.:) Right now I've a few irons in the fire, ladies whose goodwill I'm cultivating. Too much...

This now happens more than ever. Just read Mara Hvistendahl's fascinating book Unnatural Selection: Choosing Boys Over Girls, and the Consequences of a World Full of Men. She has a chapter on the Vietnamese villages that breed baby girls for export, and the hotel meetings at which these girls...

Progress report #3 (of a projected 5): The mess one gets into with civvies... In my ongoing quest for honesty between the sexes—which I'd like to culminate with a BJ in my car—I checked out a very different dance place yesterday. Before paying the entrance fee, I stand by the door and survey...

An eye-opener on the Rehtaeh Parsons case Christy Blatchford's article, which I consider investigative journalism at its most courageous: http://www.calgaryherald.com/news/Blatchford+Sources+reveal+will+likely+prosecuted+Rehtaeh+Parsons+case/8298287/story.html Rehtaeh Parsons’ mom and dad...

Teen sex at drunken parties: interesting points of view! Kudos to the brothers for the level of discourse in this thread. Anyone who knows the raging hormones of boys—with inhibitions numbed by alcohol—won't consider it implausible that passed-out teenage girls get raped at parties. But...

Progress report #2 (of a projected 5): more honesty Honestly...things didn’t go too well at the dance last night. So I practiced iron self-discipline and didn't release all day, to keep my motivational edge sharp. Still, I totally bombed out, in the most pathetic way. Ended up dancing...

Fascinating thread Hey sister, Once in a blue moon we get an angry post from a pooner's distraught wife—but it's certainly not your kind of humble request for feedback. You sound like a savvy, sweet-natured lady, judging from the tone in which you present your story. I especially applaud...

No one has all the answers Hey, brother—no need to heap abuse on Tugela or myself, or on anyone else who speaks to this topic. We're all sincerely concerned to understand what caused these teen suicides—and what could minimize the risk of similar tragedies in the future. If you've some...

Progress Report #1 (of a projected 5) Paid yet another visit to the old-folks dancehall. No, I didn't carry out my plan...but late in the evening, during a dance, I had an interesting conversation with a cute-faced, short, spunky Vietnamese lady, probably in her 50s. After warming her up...

Hey Tugela, No, most of my posts aren't fiction. If you really want to know, they reflect my ongoing struggle to overcome an anti-sex upbringing and to own my sexuality—for example, by describing encounters with SPs as candidly as I can. It's often people with joy-deprived lives who don't...

Appreciate the thoughtful debate There're strong feelings and opinions here...which seems to have provoked vancstok to his first post. Thanks, brother, for understanding and elaborating my point with admirable clarity. I know, voicing any viewpoint on this issue—other than condemnation of the...

An inspiring attitude I've nothing but the greatest admiration for SPs like NataliaBijoux who defy outdated stigma and proudly show their face in ads. If I were an SP, would I have enough courage to show my face? I sure hope so. But what if this provoked a hostile reaction from family...

As a man whose fate is deeply, lovingly, tied to women's lives, I find myself emotionally affected by the suicide of several girls in the bloom of their teenage years. Amanda Todd http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suicide_of_Amanda_Todd Rehtaeh Parsons...

Amazingly pertinent input Hi mimi, Just as I was going to give this thread a rest, your amazing comment shakes me up...and pierces right through my armour of defensive argumentativeness. Insights like yours are what what this Board should be about, at its best. You fully understand the...

What does it take for a woman to develop such a wonderful attitude toward sex? Hi Playful, I'd be amiss not to thank you for your much-needed encouragement in my planned endeavor. Sure helps silence any negative self-talk I'm sometimes prone to—and which killjoys like crankory easily...

Hey Torrential, Thanks for letting us know this movie exists. Haven't yet watched it, and after browsing through the reviews—which are overwhelmingly damning—it's not high on my list of priorities. As one reviewer says, "The viewpoint is clearly feminist, with the men emerging as users and...

A fantasy—and a plan I. THE FANTASY I went back to the dance hall where I met that Korean mature. The place was humming with older folk of both genders—but I regret to say, the Korean lady pulled a no-show. Hope it's not because I scared her off. Last week, after our heart-to-heart talk...