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I feel you. One def needs to be street smart about this stuff and not let themselves get got, but for some it’s easier said than done. I believe your sentiment is buyer beware, which is wise. I suppose it’s an unrealistic expectation these days to think that there are providers out there who...

I'm wondering if there is an ethical "grey area" in some instances, where the compliments or details of conversation turn into deception, in order to ensure future business, especially with those who are emotionally vulnerable and spending a lot of time/money with one particular provider in...

Real talk right there

I always struggle to track down half the reviewed ladies here, between agencies on X, or with agencies with sites, and indy ladies with sites, I feel like I’m searching for lost treasure sometimes and i really just wish there was a depository page of links that were easy to follow and find. I...

“weaponized fragility” aka victim mentality

Great point! Would you be willing to provide an example of this? It is so easy to misread intent over text and we often read things with our defenses up and project our own insecurities into their intention and reply similarly. I’m def guilty of passive aggressive + underhanded low key slights...

I thought it would have been toast a long time ago to be honest. It’s going better than I had expected, more acceptance than I thought there would be, so perhaps we’re evolving? Or I was wrong, I’ll take either and both.

God forbid anyone be "fragile" ...

dang, really? i wish i didn't know that. are they accusations or facts? i couldn't find anything. does that mean his attachment repair work is invalid? i personally found some things extremely illuminating and insightful about my personal situation. i hope they are just accusations, but then...

It takes a lot of effort to continually lead by example, it’s hard, but I try not to take anything too personally. Hurt people hurt people right? It’s not really about me. Poking fun at those courageous enough to be vulnerable and open up here, who are perhaps deeply lonely men in a lot of pain...

Zero. have had a number of doozies too, not to mention mind blowing exceptional experiences. I just think it’s too personal and potentially hurtful to do them, since everyone’s experience is their own, and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We all have different tastes and things that get us...

To be fair, I was inspired to look this up after going thru the lounge threads and found the incel article. Not so much about the flame ups I found between members here. Mostly everyone is fairly respectful even when disagreeing, but rarely do any people who disagree ever find a way to reach a...

I expect to receive mounds of ridicule for posting this, but even if one person learns from it, it’ll be worth receiving all the hate I’m opening myself up to. If it’s what we all want, perhaps we’d build a healthier community here that is more inviting to less confident people in real need of...

Is she well know around these parts and well reviewed? are you obviously wealthy? as an overly cautious person I suggest you test the waters you stud and manage your expectations, trust your gut as things play out and consider all the very valid arguments posted here. It’ll be a tricky...

Always keep it tidy “down there” I guess that’s technically about us and not about escorts

Are you trying to imply I’m delusional or in denial, or being paranoid? Maybe I’m listening to too many podcasts about cyber scams and malware / ransomware? be direct please, I’m not well versed in forum sarcasm and snarkiness…. If you wouldn’t mind. thanks!

can't count how many emails i got saying they had hijacked my camera and recorded me pleasuring myself and were gonna blow up my spot if i didn't send them money. i replied "dude, i really don't care, everyone masturbates, no one cares about seeing me do it" but the emotionally vulnerable and...

Anyone else worried that those of us in this hobby are getting hit so hard because someone we’ve seen has connections to criminal organizations, and someone they are friends with in one of these organizations have gotten contact lists off their phone, with or without them knowing? Or even a...

good point. i suppose there-in lies the dilemma, i do wanna keep booking her, cuz it takes time to evolve the physical chemistry & sharing of affections and friendship into something worth cherishing. just can't get attached or cling to that. i think if it happens again at an inopportune time...

I appreciate the feedback. i just don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, or feel awful about doing so. i guess if it happens again i'll address it then, with as much delicacy as humanly possible. I wasn't asking anyone to decide for me, just what kind of helpful experiences they may have had that...