Best way to ask? SP's please answer
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Tell her you were recently tested; show her yours then ask to see hers. I don't mind this, at all. I prefer it.
Keep in mind that an STD report is only good up to the date the testing was done. If the SP in question has seen anyone else since the testing was done then don't assume the results are still valid.
If you are concerned that you may have contracted something from her then discuss it with her in a non-threatening manner. I know that if a client of mine ever thought he picked something up, I would want to be told about it whether he suspected it was from me or not.
If you are asking so that you can feel better about engaging in riskier activities with her, do your research on transmission rates, understand what risks you are taking on, and don't assume that a clean bill of health from last month is still valid. The only way you can be sure that those results are still good is if you know for a fact that she has not seen anyone else since the testing was done.
A good SP will get her testing done regularly and will monitor her health closely, but there are no guarantees in this hobby so assess your risks and protect yourself accordingly.
If you are concerned that you may have contracted something from her then discuss it with her in a non-threatening manner. I know that if a client of mine ever thought he picked something up, I would want to be told about it whether he suspected it was from me or not.
If you are asking so that you can feel better about engaging in riskier activities with her, do your research on transmission rates, understand what risks you are taking on, and don't assume that a clean bill of health from last month is still valid. The only way you can be sure that those results are still good is if you know for a fact that she has not seen anyone else since the testing was done.
A good SP will get her testing done regularly and will monitor her health closely, but there are no guarantees in this hobby so assess your risks and protect yourself accordingly.
It's all risky business. Worry about yourself only, and stick to safe activities. Nothing is 100% effective. There are ways to reduce the risks... But that is all. Condoms break... there are periods of time when you may have a disease and it doesn't show on tests, example: AIDS takes 3 months to appear on a test. And all diseases such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, hepatitis have an incubation period and a window period where it is contagious but doesn't show up on tests. Clients should get tested just as often as workers.
I bet you are one of those of guys that has never even been tested, because you "look" clean. If you can't think of how we get around the name/identity, I'm not gonna spell it out for you.
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Its a meaningless question with a meaningless answer. She could've caught something the day after her test. Lets face it, no matter how careful you are you can still catch herpes shortly after an infection
Yeah I've been reading up a lot of stuff, I can't believe they didn't teach this shit in my planning class.
Yeah but I would more assured to see that she actually gets test/got tested recently. I would want to play it safe as I could.
If you ask politely, most SPs would not consider this an offensive request, however, don't be surprised or put off if she declines to show you such personal information. Many SPs won't even have copies of their lab work, as most doctor's offices do not automatically provide hard copy results.
The best way to proceed in this business is the same way you would proceed in the real world if you had multiple partners. Assume everyone may be infected and play as safely as you can. Be aware of the signs and symptoms of common STI's. Always use protection. Get tested regularly.
The best way to proceed in this business is the same way you would proceed in the real world if you had multiple partners. Assume everyone may be infected and play as safely as you can. Be aware of the signs and symptoms of common STI's. Always use protection. Get tested regularly.
