Safe G.f.e?
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Every companion is going to have her own defination of a safe GFE.
For some Vancouver escorts that will mean no fluid exchange at all - but that is generally not considered a GFE then.
For most ladies, a safe GFE will mean no BBBJ, and obviously no BBFS, BBG. Most ladies offering a safe GFE will be open to kissing and DATY as those are relativley safe activities compared with the other restrictions.
As always, it is best to clear up your expectations with a lady prior to an engagment so that there are no misunderstandings.
Have fun!
Every companion is going to have her own defination of a safe GFE.
For some Vancouver escorts that will mean no fluid exchange at all - but that is generally not considered a GFE then.
For most ladies, a safe GFE will mean no BBBJ, and obviously no BBFS, BBG. Most ladies offering a safe GFE will be open to kissing and DATY as those are relativley safe activities compared with the other restrictions.
As always, it is best to clear up your expectations with a lady prior to an engagment so that there are no misunderstandings.
Have fun!
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I've never, unfortunately, been favoured with your presence, but Angel, I've been a fan for so long I feel like I've known you. Thanks for your posts in the past, and this one in particular.
I didn't quote the entire thing, because I wanted to high-light the above quote. As always, a very clear and succinct description of the best way of participating.
I've never, unfortunately, been favoured with your presence, but Angel, I've been a fan for so long I feel like I've known you. Thanks for your posts in the past, and this one in particular.
I agree with washing one's hands as they are usually the most contaminated areas. However, brushing teeth and/or using mouthwash (especially one that contains alcohol) could cause micro damages in the mouth. They can be safely performed after, but not right before, the session. If one is concerned with oral hygiene, brush a few hours beforehand or take a couple minty candies.
there was a lady i saw once, she didnt' even call her self as a safe gfe.
and she had a very low price, because she was safe in the extreme. no kissing no daty, some fondling on the outside only, no mouth,
oral with a condom, fs with a condom, and hj,
but she gave a very sensual satisfying experiance, almost like a body slide before i even heard of such things.
she had a reputation of one of the best dressed and prettiest ladies in calgary.
i told her her look and style alone she was worth more then what she was charging. and her sevice i felt was no way compromised but what her definition of safe was, because she more then made up for it in other ways.
she eventually did raise her price to what the standard was,
and she had a very low price, because she was safe in the extreme. no kissing no daty, some fondling on the outside only, no mouth,
oral with a condom, fs with a condom, and hj,
but she gave a very sensual satisfying experiance, almost like a body slide before i even heard of such things.
she had a reputation of one of the best dressed and prettiest ladies in calgary.
i told her her look and style alone she was worth more then what she was charging. and her sevice i felt was no way compromised but what her definition of safe was, because she more then made up for it in other ways.
she eventually did raise her price to what the standard was,
That is a non-gfe. Typically no kissing, no digits, no daty, no bbbj, no cuddly time, no msog, no mpos (or not much) etc all equal non-gfe. It doesn't make it any less sexy or sensual, just makes it non-gfe.
With the safe gfe you would normally get kissing, digits, daty, cuddles, and a cbj. The safe part just keeps the gfe elements with a condom for the bj. And it would be with fs. Gfe doesn't usually get attached to non-fs sessions, even those can be very intimate, or completely hands off.
Regular gfe would be all of the above with the bbbj, imo.
PSE is a guaranteed bbbj, daty, lfk, cim, cof, cot, msog, mpos, digits to the point of fisting, dato or anal play. It does not guarantee greek, at least not included in the rate, but greek may be an option depending on the sp. In general there will be a lot more sweat and fluids and body parts flying about.
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No kissing? GFE stands for Girl Friend Experience. I can't imagine a girl friend experience that does't have lots of kissing. Safe, in my opinion, only means that the lady won't allow barebacks (blowjobs or penetrations).
Thanks for letting me know. I'd remember to clarify this at the time of booking.
That's really important, cuz I think some newer sps (and not so new) misinterpret the term, accidentally or on purpose lol. And depending on how they deal with the question, can help you decide if you want to spend time with them. Like if they get irritated when you ask, or if they genuinely want you to know, or to see that they can provide what you are looking for. Based on that, you just might like to see someone who doesn't offer everything you'd normally look for simply because they sounded so nice when they let you know
Thats why when asked I say I do not offer although I do accept some GFE type things. like said before, just gotta make sure you know what you are getting.
Guess i didn't get the memo upgrade to my escort 101 manual. PSE means greek. That's it. It in no way obligates the girl to do any potentially unsafe acts including body fluid exchange or msog. Making (erroneous) statements such as yours puts girls at risk.
I agree! Maybe she needs to throw in a bit of whining to make it true gfe and make up for the no kissing.
