It was meant to make no sense - it was directed at Silky/Lightbearer (the king of seeing insane conspiracies everywhere) after all...
asking out a girl!
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i read this whole thread and found it hilarious. i was rooting for u the whole time MM. too bad u didnt get it done. but your cocky/arrogant/ theory is correct 100% just dont overdue it and you will have to drop it later on. ive used that method many times with success. good luck in the future and dont procrastinate next time, JUST DO IT.
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and if you re-read what i posted, i didn't say women want insecure needy guys, i simply said what women want and what they say they want aren't necessarily the same thing.
ps confident and cocky/arrogant often go hand in hand.
are you prepared for the day that all men have all the confidence in the world and manipulate women to get what they want and give alot less in return? at no time did i say to not be respectful but let's face it, this board is ful of women who make a living off of insecure guys (note, i didn't say all guys here are insecure, far from it).I do not have a "vested interest" in (as you said in a previous post) men being submissive doormats & catering to a woman's every whim, in fact if that's what women wanted shy needy insecure guys would have all the babes.
and if you re-read what i posted, i didn't say women want insecure needy guys, i simply said what women want and what they say they want aren't necessarily the same thing.
ps confident and cocky/arrogant often go hand in hand.
thank you everyone for suggestions and criticisms. Criticisms were well deserved and suggestions were well-received. I don't think anyone criticized to actually 'belittle' me (referring to Sperminator here) - I think it was more of 'buck-up, you chicken shit' or at least, that's how I took it.I don't think Violet implied she liked needy/nervous guys. I think a confident guy could indeed be shy (but not nervous); and it could appear cutesy - depending on how the guy plays it. I think that's what she meant. That if my nervousness/neediness hadn't been obvious to the girl so far, then I may have had upped my chances a bit.
I don't think by cocky/arrogant Kalel meant to be an insulting-arrogant bastard. I think cocky/arrogant as in playfuly-insulting/funny/ and smooth (oh those are nice earrings? did you get them from a pawnshop? ... nonetheless, they look nice on you -- if you deliver this kind of line in a playful manner, you qualify as cocky/arrogant). You need to be confident about yourself and be able to talk to hot girls without putting them on a pedestal. Which means playful insults (since that's what most nervous guys, me included, won't do or if they do, they wont be able to deliver it properly and just come off sounding creepy/boring). I, personally, am all for cocky/arrogance but what I lack is 'delivery' (it ties to under-developed and under-practiced social skills as I mentioned in earlier posts).
I don't think the girl refused solely because she was NOT single. As I said earlier, it was more to do with how I delivered the content. How I said what I said. That is, in a nervous/needy way. Not cool. There is no doubt in my mind that she'd have been eager to hang out with me if I had delivered stuff differently. The refusal had more to do with my approach and less with her relationship status.
Which is why, it's time for more practice; and that means, I'd eventually get a nice/hot date, and that means HubbaHubba, you might afterall get to explain in another 12 pages what to do on a date. Just playing. lol. Seriously though, I don't see it happening very soon. Simply because I am not out looking for a girlfriend/relationship. I see a lot of attractive girl (malls, yoga etc.) but I rarely give them a second thought. For some reason I was obsessing about this particular girl, and I don't obsesses about every girl I see/meet. With most (hot and not so hot) girls I am able to talk properly and (on a good day) sometimes even crack jokes. So, while talking to pretty girls helps, what I really want to practice/improve is talking to girls I care/obsesses about.
Yes, she is not single (or so she said). I posted this earlier.Oh she's not even single after all this?
She is probably lying. Anything to get you to stop coming back to her place of work.
As I said, the refusal had more to do with my approach and less with her relationship status.
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have you seen the Dao of Steve?
at least i think that's what the movie was called.
watch and learn! it works.
at least i think that's what the movie was called.
watch and learn! it works.
Very true. I had a buddy who had tons of confidence, but was actually pretty quiet. He'd always 'act' kind of shy, but perfected this demure smile...at times appearing almost subservient. The girls loved it. He always had a stable of women gravitating to him...lucky bastard.
I think a confident guy could indeed be shy (but not nervous); and it could appear cutesy - depending on how the guy plays it.
Thirteen? I only see 5. I want the other 8 or a refund!
"It's not the destination, but the journey" {Star Trek, paraphrase?}.
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magicmystery...
you recently saw Sarah...
are her pictures accurate...
as she looks like she has a very athletic body and great legs...
please confirm...
good luck with this girl you want to ask out...
magicmystery...
you recently saw Sarah...
are her pictures accurate...
as she looks like she has a very athletic body and great legs...
please confirm...
good luck with this girl you want to ask out...
I have to agree with agent47, this thread has been pretty funny..i read this whole thread and found it hilarious. i was rooting for u the whole time MM. too bad u didnt get it done. but your cocky/arrogant/ theory is correct 100% just dont overdue it and you will have to drop it later on. ive used that method many times with success. good luck in the future and dont procrastinate next time, JUST DO IT.
Just keep practicing, soon you will score that home run and there will be no looking back. Talking to the opposite sex takes practice for both parties involved so get at er!!
Yep. Pics are accurate. https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=102957
I already asked, but thanks for belated good luck anyway
