your ideal session
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Unless you are writing a college thesis on this topic, and are not in any way a working girl or wanna-be-working girl, I suggest that you stop letting yourself believe that YOU will improve "YOU" with such data.
IF, for example, you are a sultry chilean beauty of age 24 who is nearly flawless then it simply will not do you a bit of good to hear someone reply that he yearns for a milky-white woman of at least 30 years of age. If you are a tall and leggy gal in addition to the above, it will not do you any good to hear responses from the men who only pay for the company of waif-like asians who don't reach 5 feet tall.
Pretend this is like make-up... meaning the true intent of make-up and not make-up as you and a majority of women probably use it:
You take whomever youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu are... and accent/highlight/enhance that uniqueness.
Do NOT decide that "(all) men like pot-bellied grandmas who are coal black and speaka no englisa" before using make-up to cover up your individuality and then paint-on whatever you think others want to see.
In response to your last part, well, I might have enjoyed giving you sincere answers to the potentially useful stuff had I not been so concerned as to your thinking you needed the parts which will only serve to inspire you to lose sight of yourself.
My ideal session would be a 18 yr old virgin,36d,5"4,thin,blonde,and tanned. She'd do bbbj,cim,daty,and anything i wanted. This sp first day at work she forgets to ask me for $$ after a entire night of getting her pussy slammed and swallowing my load
same but with 4 girls O_O and the best penthouse sweet of the 7 star hotel in dubai.My ideal session would be a 18 yr old virgin,36d,5"4,thin,blonde,and tanned. She'd do bbbj,cim,daty,and anything i wanted. This sp first day at work she forgets to ask me for $$ after a entire night of getting her pussy slammed and swallowing my load
The Sweetest Thing
I had my ideal session a couple of weeks ago. Gee whiz! She was the Sweetest Thing. Never expected it but she actually surprised me more than the unexpected power failure that occurred in some parts of Downtown.
My ideal session in the future involves spending time with my favorite companion at one of the 220 luxury suites of the jellyfish-shaped hotel called Hydropolis in Dubai which is exactly sixty-six feet below the surface of the sea. Always preferred to be near the water but doing it under is truly one for the bucket list. I'll get the chance to see real marine creatures and artistic ones as well.
Personally for me, chemistry plays a big role. When you jive or click with each other then your meetings become more fun and less mechanical and you look forward to further repetitions.
I had my ideal session a couple of weeks ago. Gee whiz! She was the Sweetest Thing.
Never expected it but she actually surprised me more than the unexpected power failure that occurred in some parts of Downtown. My ideal session in the future involves spending time with my favorite companion at one of the 220 luxury suites of the jellyfish-shaped hotel called Hydropolis in Dubai which is exactly sixty-six feet below the surface of the sea. Always preferred to be near the water but doing it under is truly one for the bucket list. I'll get the chance to see real marine creatures and artistic ones as well.
Personally for me, chemistry plays a big role. When you jive or click with each other then your meetings become more fun and less mechanical and you look forward to further repetitions.
I had my ideal session a couple of weeks ago. Gee whiz! She was the Sweetest Thing.
My ideal session in the future involves spending time with my favorite companion at one of the 220 luxury suites of the jellyfish-shaped hotel called Hydropolis in Dubai which is exactly sixty-six feet below the surface of the sea. Always preferred to be near the water but doing it under is truly one for the bucket list. I'll get the chance to see real marine creatures and artistic ones as well.
Personally for me, chemistry plays a big role. When you jive or click with each other then your meetings become more fun and less mechanical and you look forward to further repetitions.
i would get creeped out by the fish and feel claustrophobic and freeze up and not be able to preform hahah
WHAT?????????
Ladies actually do this in session??? wow okay...... i am speechless I'm truly sorry that girls (not ladies) have actually done these things while in session!
Answering the phone would be prob the worst of it for me if i was a man , paying to spend time with a lady! It's almost like the SP is ignoring the fact that you exist
NOT COOL!!!I think there is a recent review where the sp answered the phone 6-8 times, and left the room once or twice.WHAT?????????
I'm truly sorry that girls (not ladies) have actually done these things while in session!
Answering the phone would be prob the worst of it for me if i was a man , paying to spend time with a lady! It's almost like the SP is ignoring the fact that you exist
ohh hahaha... noo i am not a working sp nor am a wannabe i have no interest in becoming one. I am however doing research on "prostitution".. but not like street walkers... the professional oness.. escorts. i have a lot of questions, and i have pm some ppl to see if they can help me out with some questions.. like personal questions
eg. how do you prepare for a session, what happens before the "fun", how much do you usually spend... etc.. if any of you guys could help me out that would be great im just getting some info to write an essay
Well first thing first. Donation goes in a envelope take good look at your mirror, check the clock visualize how to get there do final preps like confirmations, brushing, polishing, trimmings, sniffing, and don’t forget to take the pill hour before and keep on smiling once blood flows to other direction everything else is easier.
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If this is anything other than a puff piece, then you are asking the wrong group and in the wrong way. Most of what people say on these boards can't be considered reliable info - people brag, puff themselves up, drag others down - in other words a bloody mess. I don't doubt that some people will tell you things that are true (at least as they see them) but whether you can reliably discern which people are telling the truth and which aren't is another story.
If you want to find out what it is really like then you either need to be a pooner or an escort (sociologically that would be called "participant observation") PA can be a fair bit of fun as a research method and can produce some interesting stories but isn't what anyone could call a proper scientific protocol.
And if you want to be scientific by collecting and analyzing data, then you will need to do things like random sampling etc. And while we are a weird bunch on these boards, the ones who answer your questions in response to a post like yours can't be considered random in a scientific sense.
My 2 cents.
So having provided the disclaimer that you can't believe what anyone says, here are my answers:
The first step in preparing is to figure out what I am in the mood for. There are many variables. Price, location, services sought, required physical characteristics, willingness to wear outfits etc.
Sometimes I am just in the mood for a nice R&T (rub and tug, which is a massage - often a very short one, followed by a hand job) while other times I am looking for full blown, down and dirty GFE. I'm not really into PSE. To understand what people say here you are going to need to "bone" up on the domain-specific acronyms. There is a thread with that in her somewhere or you can check urbandictionary.com.
And then I try to match what I am seeking against what I know is available.
And the way I know what is available is by maintaining a database of information (some of it in my head, some as a list of links to escort websites, some in other computer applications, galleries of picturies downloaded from Craigslist etc.) And to produce that I regularly monitor the boards (reviews, ads, back channel PMs, chatting with SPs and pooners in the chatrooms etc.), Craigslist, various local papers with escort ads etc.
Sometimes I want to repeat with an escort I have enjoyed before. Sometimes I go by something I read about someone I don't know - generally a review by someone with a substantial record of posting what appear to be reliable reviews. And sometimes I want to go where know one has reported from before (the TOFTT - Taking One For The Team)
Then I start making calls, PMs, emails etc. Many of the "higher class" escorts require booking with a fair bit of notice (hours to days depending on their popularity, seasonal factors, how often they provide services, their "time of the month", whether they are taking classes/exams, their regular lives etc.)
One key for many of us who have SOs (significant others) is not getting caught. So we don't use our home phones or our business or personal email etc. There are a variety of ways to buy phones without providing id or credit card info. And that way you don't need to block your number to protect your identity. Many escorts won't pick up calls from blocked numbers, because these people are often time-wasters and also because they think that by knowing the number there is an element of safety in case things go bad (which isn't really the case with untraceable phones). As for getting a separate email account for the hobby, you can get any number you like from hotmail, gmail, yahoo etc. You can have a different email for each different SP you visit if you want
So you go through your list via whatever methods the SPs provide their information for. Some only provide their phone number, some have contact info on their website, some give you MSN addresses and some have you respond to a Craigslist ad-specific email address.
So you try to make contact - and in many cases you come up dry. Full voice mailbox, no answer for days, number no longer in service etc.
So you finally reach a live one. This part can be delicate. If you are serious (and not trying to get some kicks for whacking off or to impress your 12 year old buddies listening in on the speakerphone), then the first thing to do is to confirm that you are talking to the escort (or whoever does their booking). So you ask if this is Julie or whatever her name is or you say "I saw your Craigslist ad" and when they say yes you continue. And while you are doing this you are interpreting how they sound. Do they sound like they would be fun, do they sound sleepy, are they slurring their words, do you hear gunfire in the background (hopefully just a western on TV) etc.
There are a few basic questions: matching their availability and yours, price for particular service for particular time, location (you may want to know a more specific location than Surrey or downtown because of parking, bad neighbourhood, good transit etc.)
You may have specific wishes like them dressing as a secretary with red high heels. This is your fantasy - if you want it and can pay for it, then go for it! Or just arrange a blo 'n go.
So you get the info and you arrange to meet. Let's assume it is you going to see her, which is called incall. The higher class escort will probably ask you to give a confirmation call a certain amount of time before the appointment. This is so that she knows you are probably serious, that she should prepare and so that she does not give her location away to every Tom, Dick and Hairy that arranges something and then for whatever reason never shows up. She may even say at this point that you should be at the Chevron station at such and such intersection 5 minutes before the appointment so she can check you out from her apartment window, just in case you might be a stalker, ex-husband, her butcher etc.
So the arrangements are made. You eat something with protein, some carbs. not too heavy. You want to be able to perform well. If you need the help you pop a Vitamin V,"C" etc.
You brush your teeth at least an hour in advance. You cut your fingernails - maybe she will let you finger her. You do your toilet duties. Give yourself an enema if she will use a strap-on on you. You shower - wash the naughty and stinky parts a few extra times. Spray some cologne on, gargle with mouthwash. Find clean underwear - search around in your closet - well this is pretty clean. Get dressed.
Check that you have everything before leaving. cell phone, her address & phone number, enough money, an envelope to put the donation in, maybe a bottle of wine or small gift to impress her (you're dreaming here but we do that). Oh and just in case, you take some backup phone numbers of other ladies who might be available as a fallback plan.
You drive to her location. Various rigmarole to get the address, buzzer number, suite number and you are finally at her door at the appointed hour. Don't be early, don't be late by much (without calling to let her know).
You knock, the door opens and there is no one there. If this is your first time, you think WTF! She says "come in sweetie" and you realize she is standing behind the door.
This is tricky. If you walk in, then the odds are that unless she is a mutant with many bleeding sores you are going to pay her the money and stay. That is because all of your blood is in your southerly regions and your brain is barely functioning. That is why reviews are so valuable (from trusted sources) and why you pray like hell you aren't the victim of a "bait and switch".
So you walk in.
And that is where I am leaving the "story" tonight.
I'm sure I have forgotten some things and that everyone will jump all over this with their 2 cents. Should be fun!
My ideal session
I have been in this hobby for 35 years, here is what I like. My ideal SP (i think there have been 4 incredible courtesans) starts by blocking the world out for the 2 hours I am there. She provides a coocoon of quiet and clean enviornment,. She is intelligent and is funny, warm and sensual. The unknown is chemistry. It is there or not. familiarity helps but if the chemistry is not there, familiarity means nothing. once those criterion are in place. I will turn her on anyway I can. to paraphrase the cadillac ad "will your ride return the favor".
My most recent perfect woman was a young Brazilian named Isabella who I met on her last day at the Den. I was her last appointment, She was dark senuous and beautiful. She had beautiful unretouched breasts. She kissed me and the chemistry exploded. In the shower it did no matter if hair was wet she got down on her knees and gave me a great BJ. After that we moved to the bed where I made her come at least 5 tmes. after she cuddled with her head on my chest, her long black hair flowing. I had not come yet and I asked if I could travel to Greece. She had seemed open to anal play during our session. She agreed. After I entered her, she orgasmed another 3-4 times i finally blew my load and was wiped out as was she. She liked to be on her stomach. She took my and put it on her thigh and said "I orgasmed so much and hard from anal my pussy juice is running down my legs". She was right her legs were wet and slippery. She told me she wanted to go home and sleep but she was leaving the next morning for Brazil so she had to pack. On my way out the door she gave me the warmest hug.
That is a perfect session. Very dependent on chemistry and sexual attraction. The one thing that is paramount for the SP is to control the things she can, The enviornment, the attitude, the wish to participate in the clients fantasy. After all that is what we buy, that one-two hours of Fantasy where we are incredibly sexy guys who turn on women and are turned on in return. I hope this explains what a real session should be for both parties.
I have been in this hobby for 35 years, here is what I like. My ideal SP (i think there have been 4 incredible courtesans) starts by blocking the world out for the 2 hours I am there. She provides a coocoon of quiet and clean enviornment,. She is intelligent and is funny, warm and sensual. The unknown is chemistry. It is there or not. familiarity helps but if the chemistry is not there, familiarity means nothing. once those criterion are in place. I will turn her on anyway I can. to paraphrase the cadillac ad "will your ride return the favor".
My most recent perfect woman was a young Brazilian named Isabella who I met on her last day at the Den. I was her last appointment, She was dark senuous and beautiful. She had beautiful unretouched breasts. She kissed me and the chemistry exploded. In the shower it did no matter if hair was wet she got down on her knees and gave me a great BJ. After that we moved to the bed where I made her come at least 5 tmes. after she cuddled with her head on my chest, her long black hair flowing. I had not come yet and I asked if I could travel to Greece. She had seemed open to anal play during our session. She agreed. After I entered her, she orgasmed another 3-4 times i finally blew my load and was wiped out as was she. She liked to be on her stomach. She took my and put it on her thigh and said "I orgasmed so much and hard from anal my pussy juice is running down my legs". She was right her legs were wet and slippery. She told me she wanted to go home and sleep but she was leaving the next morning for Brazil so she had to pack. On my way out the door she gave me the warmest hug.
That is a perfect session. Very dependent on chemistry and sexual attraction. The one thing that is paramount for the SP is to control the things she can, The enviornment, the attitude, the wish to participate in the clients fantasy. After all that is what we buy, that one-two hours of Fantasy where we are incredibly sexy guys who turn on women and are turned on in return. I hope this explains what a real session should be for both parties.
Hey Ratbert_2008, That should be showen to the newbees on all boards as how to get ready and how to treat a women. Good going.
For sure.
And if you are wondering, I did see you once when you visited BC.
Can you send me a link to the blog by PM? I'd ask that you share with everyone through a post in the thread but the PTB (Powers That Be) would probably consider that to be advertising.
luv,
Ratbert
That was sweet, straight8!
I had no idea Miranda was Brazilian or an ex-Fox. Just kidding.
The only woman I have ever met who had orgasms to that degree was Miranda.
My whole time with Miranda is one big happy blur. She seems to have slipped off the radar lately. Hopefully she found the man of her dreams and has retired to a nice beach somewhere.
I had no idea Miranda was Brazilian or an ex-Fox. Just kidding.
The only woman I have ever met who had orgasms to that degree was Miranda.
My whole time with Miranda is one big happy blur. She seems to have slipped off the radar lately. Hopefully she found the man of her dreams and has retired to a nice beach somewhere.
