Stay Away From My Baby Sister You Filthy Pig

[Fudd]

A few years ago I had an SO/GF that I was really close to the point that we were discussing marriage but nothing formal. She had a little sister that she had to take care of and also joined us when we went out and when her parents couldn't get a sitter. Over time we just went our separate ways and I haven't seen her for years.

This week I was at a local college attending a seminar about various environmental and social issues, when this young and really hot looking coed at least a 9 and looks like Mandy Moore, come up to me a said hi, and yup it was that little sister. we got to talking and found out that we both had common interest in social and environmental issues. Of course, being a virile hetero sexual male I ask her out, but didn't give me a clear yes or no answer. But she did give me her number and I've been chatting with her in the last few days.

Now we get to this morning, I get this call and on the other end is the old SO/GF. At first I was really pleased at hearing from her, but after what she said I wished I hadn't answered. She was pissed that I was seeing her sister and the conversation ended with her saying, "STAY AWAY FROM MY BABY SISTER YOU FILTHY PIG!!!!".

I'm really surprised at her reaction cause we had a good relationship and we parted amicalbly.

 

[island-guy]

I'm really surprised at her reaction cause we had a good relationship and we parted amicalbly.

Obviously not as good or as amicably as you thought?

(Maybe she knows you're a perbite?)

 

[Stew]

A couple of thoughts.

How young is the baby sister? Does the former SO think you would be cradle robbing?

Starting a relationship with the baby sister will likely not go anywhere because if the former SO is calling you out of the blue and you do not back off she may try to poison things by telling the baby sister all sorts of vile, nasty stuff about you. This may be a no-win thing unless the baby sister sees through it as an obvious attempt at manipulation. (Then again, are you someone who should be kept away from impressionable youth? )

Stew

 

[Bartdude]

It's probably the age thing.

 

[Fudd]

FYI Baby sis is in uninversity.

I'm trying to call the baby sis now but no answer. Not a good sign.

 

[erotic_exotica]

From a womens point of view

I sure all you guys see this one way (wow, lucky guy, score) allow me to shed some light on what was probibly going though her mind.

That story reminds me of one of my own stories. when I was 20 I had a baby and had to go back to my home town to take care of some business. I was staying with a old elementary school friend and her family. My mom use to date my friends uncle when I was about 11 yrs old. Anyhoo, after I just had my baby I get a strange phone call and it happen to be my mom's old BF. He was talking about us getting to know each other and going for coffee. He said he thought I was beautiful and stated that he use to watch me play while I was a little girl and think what a beautiful women I may become. EEWWWWWW! Can we say pedophile. Of course I wasn't interested rather disgusted, grossed out, ect. So the point I'm getting at is even if this "little sister" wasn't a young girl when you knew her (I'm going not even to ask if she was or not casue you'll surely be eaten for breakfast in the forum if you have the wrong answer)the fact is she almost became yourLittle sister. You are way out of line on soooo many levels here. Wrong, wrong, wrong. You should be ashamed of yourself. Why are you looking at her in this light? I'm aware that some time has pasted and things change but seriously think about this. If your ex-gf loved and cared for her like a daughter that would have almost made you a step father or at least father figure. Do you see where I going with this? Do you see why she maybe upset? I doubt she jealous. It's a sick situation that your in and I would have beheaded you (pun intended)if it were my baby or baby sister.

 

[erotic_exotica]

hubba your absoultly right!!! It 's the "baby sis" choice. However I wasn't speaking about the "little sis" I was refuring to how "big sis" might have been feeling. Don't get me wrong I sure hope that "little sis" gets words to. I mean thats the biggest betrayle ever and hopefully she has realized that and doesn't answer the phone to fudd. Blood is thicker then water.

 

[Wet My Noodle]

oK, eLMER, fUDD, i TAWT I SAW A PUDDY CAT.

 

[bustyluster]

git on with the baby sis and let them compare notes! hope you never did anything to kinky with the OG (may be it will actually help land the younger sis).

 

[erotic_exotica]

Thank you, hubba for seeing where I was going. I wasn't commenting on the choices that were made made between either consenting parties. I only wanted to point out what might have been going through "big sis" head when she found out.

Fudd I'm sorry, but you should have been a bigger man and said no! I sincerely hope that everyone comments are able to help you see things differently more clearly. So you can make a more informed decision on what is right or wrong. Good Luck!

 

[SexyBoy]

I have a question does age differance really matter?

I actually like women older then myself and younger.

One of my best relationships was with a girl that was only 19. She was more mature then any other woman I have ever met.

I also think any man would be lucky to have a woman like Very Veronica. I hope I actually get to meet her one day.

 

[d_Duck55]

git on with the baby sis and let them compare notes!

Compare notes? Hell, I would go for the three-some!

 

[SexyBoy]

Chances are if she called you a filthy pig that she is actually scared of you succeeding.

Would you really want your ex married to your sister?

 

[erotic_exotica]

Ya right sexyboy thats exactly what it means. I'm soo glade to meet a guy that thinks like a girl.

 

[SexyBoy]

Ya right sexyboy thats exactly what it means. I'm soo glade to meet a guy that thinks like a girl.

Hey I am a filthy pig. Been there done that more then once.

Never had a mom yet!

 

[SexyBoy]

Ya right sexyboy thats exactly what it means. I'm soo glade to meet a guy that thinks like a girl.

I guess when it comes to women you know everything!

I mean every woman thinks exactly like you do!

Since you know everything tell me what is Brittney Spears is thinking.

I do have a woman's imput about this topic. It isn't the first time a topic like this has been brought up.

Some women don't want to be anywhere near their ex. Let alone having to go to family functions with them. Not seeing their sister as often as they would like because he is there.

 

[kalel]

i would think that she asked you to stay away from her sister cuz you two were close. it's kinda like marrying your sister in law if it doesn't work out with you and the wife. i read a phrase somewhere that said "seek first to understand and then be understood". it means put yourself in the other person's situation and understand their thought process, and then think about it from yours. i dunno, if i was never close to a girl then i would think about her sister, but if i was close to her then i wouldn't go for the sister.

 

[LonelyGhost]

first off, 'amicable' can mean she didn't leave with your nuts in a jar,
but it doesn't mean she left happy ...

second, she may view your 'moves' on her sister as a threat or a
way of getting back at her (sure, that's NOT what you were thinking
but women think different from men) and she has by now told
her sister everything you never wanted a woman to know about you ...

true or not.

best thing you can do is phone the little sister, apologize, tell her it
was never your intent to upset her sister, you were just glad to meet
her and to get to know her again. and then do the same with the ex.

and walk away.

 

[chilli]

If someone called me a "filthy pig"

I'd nail the little sister just for payback.

 

[sarahpassion]

I think you were way out of line!

There is a line you just don't cross, a sister never dates your EX period.
I would be so disgusted if my sister started dating someone I used to sleep with. Nevermind close to marrying!
It's like just a respect thing.