Here's an update for anybody interested in learning from my very short "relationship".
I went out with little sis for a while and we had a lot of great fun together at various gatherings and protest events. We both had a lot in common in terms of our social activist beliefs, political views and ideology.
However, there seemed to be a lot of differences between us that just prevented us from getting any closer. Things such as economic background. She comes higher wealth level than my personal background which is middle class. She drives a new Mercedes and I drive a car my uncle left me.
Then there is the age difference, she's still in University and still looks like she could be in high school and I've been out of school and working for years and look over 30. Yea, I got some very nasty looks from some old ladies when we were out together.
But what finally seemed to cause an end to things was when I attended a gathering at her families place. Other than her cousin, I did not get along with any of her family especially with alll the social differences. They were polite enough but hardy any body talked to me.
What realy pisses me off is the way we "broke up". She just simply stopped answering my phone calls and did not return any of my messages. Eventually, an aquatance informed me that she just wanted me to stop calling her. I personally think that was really guttles of her for doing that.
Then a few weeks latter, I see her just outside my office with her Amnesty Int. material. She definitely saw me looking at her and I was about to go out and talk to her during my lunch break but by the time I got out there she was gone. She knew were I workd of course and I have never seen any Amnesty volunteers in my area before. So she deffiinetely went out her way to my work but she has not ever returned my calls.
Its been a few months since all this and I guess things are definitly an no go for this relationship.
I think the lesson here is major differences is a barrier to developing relationships.
