WTF is the deal with women and attached men???

[Wet My Noodle]

Wedding Ring / Married Men

My so called understanding:

Re: The Wedding Ring, and why some women hit on married men. It's because she knows the married man is already attached. So if she does wild thing , she knows at the end of the day he has to go to his wife. He isn't looking for anything more then just to score with a different piece of ass.

 

[smackyo]

i know a girl that would totally go out of her way to score with attached men. she said it "made her feel special" that she was attractive enough to get that man to cheat. i think if women were honest you would hear this answer a lot more.

so there ya have it ladies. there are many of you out there actively trying to get men to cheat. so now if you are in a committed relationship, you know what we as men are up against. its hard to say "no" when a girl has a handful of your cock.

when i was in high school at a party, i once had a girl that knew i was with someone drop to her knees and blow me. she wanted to fuck me but thats as far as i let it go. was that cheating? yeah i think so but how do you stop once a women has her mouth on your cock.

 

[SexyBoy]

It's cheap shot day at SexyBoy, didn't you know?

I guess when you can't beat a guy cheap shot him.

Too bad nothing said really bothers me.

Keep trying though.

 

[Thais]

Sometimes all you want is an innocent flirt. At least, I know that to be true for myself and several other women I know.

Flirting does not necessarily indicate a desire to sleep with someone. It is enjoyable in itself. Sometimes a woman sincerely flirting with you and enjoying herself may be appalled at the idea of even a kiss, much less sex.

So while I personally try to avoid hitting on attached men, I could see how that could feel a safer option when you don't want to deal with the man's desire to take things further.

 

[littlejimbigher]

Well for me, now that I am married:

• I have way better clothes.

That's because our wives picked out the clothes.
For Xmas my sister only bought me clothes and made me through out a bunch from my closet.

 

[Dakota_edm]

hear is a thought!

Most girls like being attached to someone right? So Girls can look at a guy and see that he is single and one thought comes to mind...Why?,There must be something wrong? But a guy that is married or has a girlfriend just means that there is something right with him!He must have some type of charm or he is fun to be around or just a great person...Not sure but it is just a thought!!

 

[chilli]

Most girls like being attached to someone right? So Girls can look at a guy and see that he is single and one thought comes to mind...Why?,There must be something wrong? But a guy that is married or has a girlfriend just means that there is something right with him!He must have some type of charm or he is fun to be around or just a great person...Not sure but it is just a thought!!

This is all part and parcel of how women are their own worst enemies.

It couldn't be because the guy is happy being single?

The fact is when I tell a girl I'm dating other people, they think I'm a player, if you're not dating anyone there's something wrong with you.

Only women could use that kind of logic.

 

[SexyBoy]

This is all part and parcel of how women are their own worst enemies.

It couldn't be because the guy is happy being single?

The fact is when I tell a girl I'm dating other people, they think I'm a player, if you're not dating anyone there's something wrong with you.

Only women could use that kind of logic.

So true!

A lot of men are players attached or not attached.

I am personally getting tired of women trying to set me up with someone. Is it so hard to believe that for right now I want to be single? Then they find out I am a player. Normally happens when I want a gf lol.

It is always better to pretend not to be a player.

 

[apple juice]

If I can be frank...who wants a man that already has a woman...that's just silly...lol. I would feel so ashamed of myself if that thought even crossed my mind. There are plenty of men in this world and to me a man already attached is out of bounds...unavailable...taken...occupied...you get the drift. I don't think it's about competition...it's deeper and darker than that...but then again it's just my opinion.

 

[Krustee]

Most girls like being attached to someone right? So Girls can look at a guy and see that he is single and one thought comes to mind...Why?,
There must be something wrong?
But a guy that is married or has a girlfriend just means that there is something right with him!He must have some type of charm or he is fun to be around or just a great person...Not sure but it is just a thought!!

This is all part and parcel of how women are their own worst enemies.

It couldn't be because the guy is happy being single?

The fact is when I tell a girl I'm dating other people, they think I'm a player, if you're not dating anyone there's something wrong with you.

Only women could use that kind of logic.

So true!

A lot of men are players attached or not attached.

I am personally getting tired of women trying to set me up with someone. Is it so hard to believe that for right now I want to be single? Then they find out I am a player. Normally happens when I want a gf lol.

It is always better to pretend not to be a player.

OK I was gonna leave this thread alone until Dakota had to bring up the inevitable!

Why are women always pseudo psycho-analysing men?

WTF?

I'm gonna refrain from using any REAL world statistics about sanity or bring up the dreaded "common sense" debate, but I will pipe-up about the "single men are flawed" fallacy.

FACT - I get laid more often now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I get much better sex now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I have more freedom now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I have more money now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I argue less now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I have more toys now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I drive a better car now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I have more cars now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I live in a nicer home now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I can do what I want when I want more often now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I have interesting conversations more often now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I travel more often now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I get laid more often now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I get laid more often now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I get laid more often now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!


Yeah, your right -
"There must be something wrong?"

Well for me, now that I am married:

• I have a better haircut.
• I have way better clothes.
• I don't reek of desperation to get laid (just a slight aroma now ).
• I am better fed and healthier.
• and I do have that ring.

Dude, good for you!

Wait till you go through a divorce
See how your hair looks when you've been sleeping in your car for a week.

See how your clothes look when you've been sleeping in your car for a week.

See how well fed you are when you've been sleeping in your car for a week.

See if ya give a shit about that ring after you've been sleeping in your car for a week.

 

[SexyBoy]

OMG SOOO FUNNY

 

[Krustee]

OMG SOOO FUNNY

Oh God!

Your not gonna steal this one too are you?

 

[SexyBoy]

Oh God!

Your not gonna steal this one too are you?

The thought crossed my mind.

 

[Dakota_edm]

Just so it's clear.

OK I was gonna leave this thread alone until Dakota had to bring up the inevitable!

Why are women always pseudo psycho-analysing men?

WTF?


I didn't say I think that when i look at men!
In fact when I see a man with his girlfriend im to busy looking at the girlfriend..
It was just a suggestion after all you did ask for an opinion...right?
And just so you know..The same things you do single...when you find the right girl for you those things shouldn't change! Well I don't think they should anyways..but then again I got caught up with the getting laid sentences HA!
Made me way to Hot just thinking about a life where thats what you could do all day!! LOL

 

[Very Veronica]

FACT - i can spend 24/7 on perb & pretend that i'm rico suave! Cuz i'm single!

FACT - I get laid more often now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I get much better sex now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I have more freedom now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I have more money now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I argue less now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I have more toys now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I drive a better car now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I have more cars now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I live in a nicer home now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I can do what I want when I want more often now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I have interesting conversations more often now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I travel more often now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I get laid more often now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I get laid more often now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

FACT - I get laid more often now than ever before in my life!
Cuz I'm single!

 

[Krustee]

FACT - i can spend 24/7 on perb & pretend that i`m rico suave! Cuz i`m single!

Now there`s a woman who will never agree with me.
Grind that axe baby!


But, you`re right VV, I do spend a lot of time on PERB -
and here`s why;
it was just prior to the Christmas holidays when I joined, I spent the holidays at home as all my relatives & friends were out of town as well as my SP.
Therefore, I stayed & volunteered to help the less fortunate. (as I said I would in this forum)

I work on average 10 hour days & have major bills from the kitchen renovation I just completed.
(to wit ergo, I choose to not go out & spend more money every night)

I support my SP with over $1200 per month of my hard earned & HEAVILY taxed income.
I see her at least once & occasionally a few times per week for an average 2.5 hr session.
The reason I see her is not because I have to but because she fucks better than 99% of the women I`ve been with, & that`s important to me. We have a mutually compatible physical connection, ie. I know how to please her & vice versa. (something I`m sure you just cannot understand)


I don`t ever remember claiming to be rico suave in fact just the opposite, see here.

I`m sorry if my bravado & bombast is disconcerting to you but I posted the way I feel about it.

It would`nt hurt you women folk to at least consider that a man can be happy without having a woman latched to him in a "relationship".
Not that there`s anything wrong with that, just that I will choose who & not jump into it with every girl I date.

Been married once already & it was an eye opener!


So, yeah, I spend a lot of time on PERB.

But then again, I am free to do that.
"Cuz i`m single!"

 

[Krustee]

Being married sure beats being single (LOL)..

Lemme tell ya true blue 2 Live Crew!

IF I was married or in a commited relationship -







I






would






NOT







be






POONING!!!!

 

[Cosmo]

Most girls like being attached to someone right?... But a guy that is married or has a girlfriend just means that there is something right with him! He must have some type of charm or he is fun to be around or just a great person.

This is part of it too, I think.

Dakota_edm makes a good point and the thought has crossed my mind as well.

 

[Cosmo]

Help? Who is Rico Suave???

LOL...

The ever-erudite VeeVee is refering to what is more of a definitive personality type.

Rico Suave is basically a man who is - for all intended purposes - a good looking, muscular, "macho" stud towards whom almost every lady is attracted because of his great charismatic ability.

Rico Suave is what every man wants to be, but 99.7% of men never live up to (wherein lies the point of VeeVee's intended witticism).

 

[Very Veronica]

it's marketing

It almost seems like the world's greatest aphrodisiac for women is the sight of a man in the company of another woman.

Women sell the suit..with or without the man.