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How hard should a pooner try to turn an SP on?

tantalizeme

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15 solid minutes of DATY… wow, my tongue would get a little sore.
(reddog`s review, https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=79728&page=2;)

Sometimes pooners report on their tenacious effort to turn on an SP—and they seem to leave with a sense of failure if they can’t.

Myself, turning providers on or bringing them to orgasm isn’t a burden I care to shoulder, though it’s nice when it happens as a byproduct of enjoying myself.

Based on my experiments so far (an investment of about 7 grand) I personally find providers fall into 3 main camps:

—“Resisters” get incentive and satisfaction only from money, seem to feel strong inner resistance to their work, provide poor service with lots of pleasure-killing restrictions, show no affection, and are almost impossible to turn on.

—“Pleasers” don’t usually get turned on much themselves, but get satisfaction from making a client happy, and they play along willingly with most requests; and some are also good at showing affection.

—“Whoopers” (my word, for lack of finding a better one) also get satisfaction from a client’s happiness, but they don’t just aim to please but like to whoop it up with a client for their own erotic pleasure. They tend to be easily, demonstratively, orgasmic; take adventurous initiative; give you a sense that the enjoyment is mutual and that they really appreciate your company and not just the money; and the best of them pamper you with both passion and affection.

I agree, of course, that the same provider may behave very differently with different pooners—but I suspect most providers have a basic attitude which doesn’t differ all that much from one respectful, clean, friendly-looking pooner to the next.

Most of my SPs have been pleasers (and that’s really the secret of typical Asian providers’ appeal: not that they are submissive, but that they seem so willing to give a client pleasure by using their body as if it were the most natural thing in the world).

It seems to me quixotic to try hard to turn on a resister or a pleaser; and in the case of a “whooper,” well, there’s really no need to work hard at it.
 

Krustee

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15 solid minutes of DATY… wow, my tongue would get a little sore.
(reddog`s review, https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=79728&page=2;)

Sometimes pooners report on their tenacious effort to turn on an SP—and they seem to leave with a sense of failure if they can’t.
15 minutes of DATY?
I would be thankful if I could get away with only 15 minutes.

My SP places me on the bed does about 3 min of shaft suckling then pops up & plops her purring pussy over my face & commands me to make her cum.
This usually lasts for the next 45 minutes or until she gets enough O`s & want`s to take a short break before going for another 10 or 15 O`s.

Literally, I have to give her at least 15 before she will ride me.

The thing is, she`s getting worse!

It started with a her enjoying the pleasure of massging my man meat in her mouth for what seemed like hours but she has now become a selfish cunnilingus craving cum MONSTER!

Our last session carried on for nearly three hours as she racked up a record count of pussy palpitations and awe-inspiring O`s.

By the time I was finally allowed to release the pressure built up in my loins, she was proclaiming 48 magna cum loud`s!



Selfish BITCH!





:D

 
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SexyBoy

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Drop Down more 20's as you are nailing her!

Makes them cum every time!

Some SP's really get dissapointed if they don't get a orgasim.

Let them go on top!

It would be nice if every SP told us what they liked. Instead of us having to find out. I mean we are paying for it!
 

Ghostwheel1969

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Let's face it... and then when it happens....

15 solid minutes of DATY… wow, my tongue would get a little sore.
(reddog`s review, https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=79728&page=2;)

—“Pleasers” don’t usually get turned on much themselves, but get satisfaction from making a client happy, and they play along willingly with most requests; and some are also good at showing affection.

—“Whoopers” (my word, for lack of finding a better one) also get satisfaction from a client’s happiness, but they don’t just aim to please but like to whoop it up with a client for their own erotic pleasure. They tend to be easily, demonstratively, orgasmic; take adventurous initiative; give you a sense that the enjoyment is mutual and that they really appreciate your company and not just the money; and the best of them pamper you with both passion and affection...
For myself, I don`t enjoy being with an SP unless she`s one of these categories, preferably the latter. BTW, I`d suggest the term rejoicers rather than whoopers. I`ve been with a few women in the past, and some have been so-so.... some have been great! I particularly recall an exceptional woman from Cachet in Toronto that took all digits for the 1st time, and literally kept repeating "More! More! More!" and basically suprised the hell out of herself. That was a top quality experience.

It obviously has to do with (ugh! that word!) chemistry between people. I`m seeing someone tomorrow night that hasn`t been reviewed very positively, but is exceptional in her looks and talents. Will it click? I hope so. Is that a lock-in? Of course not. If she finds that a) I`m not a fat ugly bastard, b) I`m reasonably well-spoken, and c) I`m funny, then things will probably go better than if I was a 360 lbs. monstrosity that spoke web-speak only and farted constantly due to undue nervousness. :p

If you keep yourself well, hygenic, and fit, and present yourself as a confident, aroused and interested person, I`m sure those things go a long way towards the woman enjoying the experience as much as you do. Nothing more... not gifts, not toys, not music and candles and scents.... nothing more can do more for her.

If I`m wrong, ladies, please set me straight. It`s about the people, and the connection. Sappy, but true.

Cheers, and have fun!
Ghostwheel
 

totravel

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Reading boards has helped me only see "Pleasers" and "Whoopers", unless it's a TOFTT with no previous reviews.

"Whoopers" are the only SP's I repeat with.

At the same time, (talking with some SP's I've repeated with) they admit that not every client gets to see their "Whooper" personality, if the chemistry isn't there.
 

Guardian Angel

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Whoppers are great, pleasers work too

Pleasers are the best for me because I know that they can be whoppers (YMMV). I find it very satisfying & stimulating to know maybe you made her whop when she does not normally get that way (there goes the male ego).

I like knowing the two of us can take it to a higher level, more animal, and yet also get enormous satisfaction from cuddling & caressing instead of jungle sex every time. I love to have a lady tell me what she wants, how much and when it is getting her where she wants to go. I have to know that she is enjoying what I am doing. If I don't get a true sense there is some mutual satisfaction, then I don't think I'll be back.

I will hold myself back to be sure she has reached the level she wants. If that gets her to a Whopper level, then it's whoppee for me too!

In a way, I could categorize myself as a pleaser.

G.A.
 

Guardian Angel

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I always try

I won't go back to an SP that does not like to enjoy things and get satisfaction herself. It does not mean she has to cum every time I am with her, but I need to have the sense she likes what we are doing, or quite frankly just likes seeing me. That makes the rest goes hand in hand.

G.A.
 

littlejimbigher

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The gals I see know that I love to lick and please them before they please me. 10-20 mins of licking is as much fun for me as it is for them.
 

AA_Train

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Of course you try to please them. Part of the reason I do trhis is to keep my sexual skills razor sharp so when Miss right does come along, she will have virtually no complaints about my bedroom skills. Plus it turns me on to turn women on and most women are more than happy to reciprocate, thus getting better service. It's a cycle of sexual generosity.
 

Man Mountain

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15 minutes of DATY?
I would be thankful if I could get away with only 15 minutes.

My SP places me on the bed does about 3 min of shaft suckling then pops up & plops her purring pussy over my face & commands me to make her cum.
This usually lasts for the next 45 minutes or until she gets enough O's & want's to take a short break before going for another 10 or 15 O's.

Literally, I have to give her at least 15 before she will ride me.

The thing is, she's getting worse!

It started with a her enjoying the pleasure of massging my man meat in her mouth for what seemed like hours but she has now become a selfish cunnilingus craving cum MONSTER!

Our last session carried on for nearly three hours as she racked up a record count of pussy palpitations and awe-inspiring O's.

By the time I was finally allowed to release the pressure built up in my loins, she was proclaiming 48 magna cum loud's!
Careful, Krustee. Keep putting up posts like that and someone is liable to come in here and call you a "bragger shit". :D

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tantalizeme

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You guys give this roaming wolf an inferiority complex...

:rolleyes: Even if my tongue could last past the 15 min mark, I just feel ambivalent about stretching DATY out very long—a lady’s skin tissue there seems pretty delicate.

Just as I find myself going a little numb after extended cock-sucking, I just can’t imagine that pussy-eating with prolonged intensity—day after day, by almost EVERY pooner who shows up—makes the average SP tremble with ecstasy.

Obviously there’re going to be exceptions, live-wire nymphos worth their weight in gold…but they just prove the rule.

A different approach no doubt works for different pooners. I like to warm up with a bit of unrushed caressing followed by a BJ & DATY (no more, usually, than 10 min each).

I figure if she’s not particularly responsive to DATY after a few minutes, better lay off. If she is responsive, well, there’re things that feel better than DATY for me to move on to.

Some pooners seem triggered to heroic efforts by the challenge of getting resisters and pleasers excited; I'm not. I accept that a woman often just wants to please rather than get off—and that the occasional "resister" may be uncooperative, irritable and defensive. MY response to a resister is: don’t let her shut down my sexuality but sneak a fantasy into my mind and “consume the deal” as best as circumstances permit.

Providers haven't talked to me very much about what pleases them; I suppose explicit instructions could become mood-destroying. But I try to be sensitive to signals from an SP about what she DOESN'T like—a common example I found is anal play.

Still, I prefer—and repeat only with—providers that project an attitude of getting turned on along with me. Of course, it’s not so easy to tell when a provider feigns passion, just to stroke a pooner’s ego—or, in many cases, to speed up his arousal and get him to finish off and leave (or to get him to want to repeat). I suspect fake passion on the part of SPs is more common than we pooners like to believe.:confused:

I use the term "whoopers" for SPs who project passion and let themselves get swept up in the current of lusty playfulness—who like to "make whoopee" or "whoop it up." As for “whopper” it’s a bit reminiscent of a menu item at BurgerKing. “Rejoicer” is a nice suggestion—though a little pompous, in a churchy sort of way.:)
 

Krustee

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Careful, Krustee. Keep putting up posts like that and someone is liable to come in here and call you a "bragger shit". :D
Jeramiah Johnson, you may call me whatever you wish.
The FACT is that my SP has at least 30 orgasms each time we are together.
Now I am sure that the high numbers are mostly due to her clitoral & vaginal abilities, but when we started seeing each other she was lucky to get out 5 or 6 before getting too sensitive.

:rolleyes: Even if my tongue could last past the 15 min mark, I just feel ambivalent about stretching DATY out very long—a lady’s skin tissue there seems pretty delicate.
Yup, some girls get very sensitive & some can take it for hours.
Just as I find myself going a little numb after extended cock-sucking, I just can’t imagine that pussy-eating with prolonged intensity—day after day, by almost EVERY pooner who shows up—makes the average SP tremble with ecstasy.
I would venture to say that not EVERY pooner gives DATY to the SP.
I would also doubt that many pooners know much about how to properly go down on a gal.

I thought I was Rico Suave' until after I was divorced & heard my ex had told her friend that her new man was much better at givin' face than I was.
:eek: :eek: :eek:

Needless to say I made it a point to learn what that son of a bitch was doin that I did'nt!

So, hundreds of thousands of pussies later - I is edumacated now.
:p :p :p

Obviously there’re going to be exceptions, live-wire nymphos worth their weight in gold…but they just prove the rule.
I've had 2 of those & for both of em I began to beg my buddies to "take her off my hands for a few days" as I was getting raw.
Fun for the first 3 months but these 2 were over the top.
5-7 times a day is a LOT for anybody!

I figure if she’s not particularly responsive to DATY after a few minutes, better lay off. If she is responsive, well, there’re things that feel better than DATY for me to move on to.
Or you may be doing sumthin' wrong.


Providers haven't talked to me very much about what pleases them; I suppose explicit instructions could become mood-destroying. But I try to be sensitive to signals from an SP about what she DOESN'T like—a common example I found is anal play.
She may not like it now but turn up the heat & know how to treat & she'll fancy a little fanny fun in no time!


 
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