Would you accept your SP/an SP as a GF or Wife?

[SexyBoy]

LOL

That, is a SP secret weapon. I'm telling you...
I wish I could advertise it cause I'm at my very best when having angry sex.
No kidding.. I just wish I could advertise it. lol All that extra angry energy.... just tons of fun for all involved, I tell ya. I love it!

I just try to turn something negative into something positive. Life is too short enjoying it. If anything you well fall deeper in love.

I think fighting is important in a relationship anyways.

 

[SexyBoy]

SexyBoy, HONESTLY, how old are you? 14?

That would be awesome! If I have already been with so many women and only at 14 years of age!

I have about 200 reviews on this perb forum and only this one account.

 

[SexyBoy]

For some of the SPs, when they do their work, they do it diligently with great discipline, not allowing their own emotions to affect their physical act.

It is those quiet moments that are awful: all alone and have a chance to reflect ...Imagine sleeping with hundreds of strangers, but then waking up in the morning there is no one around. Sure some of clients are nice but .. ..

When they in their 20s they can still hang out , have a blast and forget the whole thing . But as times start catching up, then what??? Can they still trust man after what they have seen???

It must be tough on them and we probably will not even know that emptiness?

You are implying that all the men are dishonest. I guess some are to their wives. The younger generation is becoming more open though.

I do think it is tough on them to give sex up to almost anyone.

Many don't mind what they are doing but they want to do give back to society. It is ironic how many SP's I know that go into a care giving profession.

The girls I have been with try to spend money on me and I actually want to spend money on them. They want to give so bad it is dangerous taking them to a store.

The ones who are lonely are the ones that are too scared to start a relationship up. They don't like being hurt. Too many are scared that the bf well get jealous and leave. Or Try to make them quit the hobby.

It normally happens when they start coming home and talking about work. If it is a good client the bf gets jealous. If it is a bad client the bf wants better for his woman.

There are not too many men that are secure with themselves. Not too many that can look at sex as just sex.

It doesn't help when the SP is a really giving person they become extremely open to having an emotional relationships with their clients.

What happened to me was finding a SP that I connected with on so many levels that nothing could touch that. Then she decided to travel and see the world.

The best part about dating a SP is knowing how sexually compatable you are to her.

 

[Pantherdash]

I already have, but not anymore...twice is enough.

Panther

 

[O-Shoes]

No Way!

No Way... I would never trust her... She most likely would not trust me either...and would not blame her ...

 

[Randy Whorewald]

I would consider it if I was unattached.

 

[Commando]

If I was dating an SP and we got into a fight, I would never let her profession enter the picture because I would always remember the time that I clicked yes on a PERB poll about accepting an SP as a GF/wife.

LOL. Good one! Gues I'll be in the same boat if I was to get into a relationship with my SP but I doubt it.

 

[Krustee]

I already have, but not anymore...twice is enough.

Panther

Never say never Panther, you have a lot to offer and you just never know....the third one may be Miss. Right.

Hubba

Have to agree wih Hubba here Panther.

Who knows you may meet one at the gun club & find a kindred spirit

 

[delerious]

I could marry a former SP but would have a difficult time dealing with one who is still working.

I have a good friend who is now out of the trade and I know when I was just her friend while she was still an SP I had twinges of jealousy or some feeling just as bad. I would ask her where she had been the night before and she would get pissed with me for asking which would only make me want to know more.

I met her as an SP but after a while it progressed to friendship but at the same time I knew she would drop our friendship for her chosen occupation (didn't help she also had a habit).

She is no longer an SP and we have lost touch (mainly because I did not have the time to meet her the cpl of times when she called when she was back in town--she moved to the island when she got out of the biz a cpl of years back).

Could she be my significant other? The question is could I be her significant other.

Her past would not bother me.

If she went back to being an SP or back to drugs or more importantly, for the poll question above, if I THOUGHT she was back to being an SP or on drugs, No I couldn't accept it.

 

[Krustee]

I believe you. But when we want to hurt our partner we go for some of the darkest things that should never be said. I can imagine all guys dating current/retired SPs saying they would never mention her past in a fight and find themselves doing the opposite.

I've been able to restrain saying things that I know will hurt, what's tough for me is restraining from saying the things I did'nt know would hurt.

It does'nt matter whether you meant to say something inappropriate or not, girls will cut your balls off just the same.

Best thing is to always admit it is your fault & ask them what you should say.
Of course then you stand the chance of them calling you a spineless pussy!

I just love women, they're so .......
interesting (is it OK for me to say that?)

Is that a guy thing? I don't get that... I mean, I've been able to control that urge even when I'm really really reallllly angry. After a few times realizing the damage that can be done and not undone, I learned.
Sure, I can say or act impulsively and be like WTF after it's all over.. but the real hurtful things that come to mind or the ones you just know are going to sting..? I can totally keep that to myself even if really pissed off.
But somehow it isn't the case with most men I've met...... why is that? Is a guy thing (in general or just the ones I'm lucky enough to meet? LOL) or a maturity thing?...or what?
(Sorry kinda hijacking here but oh well..)

Yes, it is just the ones you've dated ... it's your special gift!
(is it OK for me to say that?)


I think it is more a maturity thing than a sex thing.

Saying (& doing) dumb, thoughtless or insensitive things is not restricted to whether or not you've got a gun or a holster, shooting one'self in the foot is mutually common.

 

[Mojo]

Did that for five years, dated that is! Great time, many fond memeries and still great friends

 

[Miss*Bijou]

Yes, it is just the ones you've dated ... it's your special gift!
(is it OK for me to say that?)

LOL it is okay. it has been said before....
Many, Many times before.

 

[AA_Train]

I agree

I think that everyone who has answered Yes without having experienced it can say it all they want but the answer means nothing until you can back it with real life, real love experience.

It's so easy to answer yes with the best of intentions and open mind without having lived it, it's even possible to answer the same way in the beginnings of it..... but a few months down the line, when the woman you love is busy getting ready for work, kisses you on her way out and all you can think of is that you know she's on her way to fuck someone else.... there are very few of you who would still say yes.

Some, yes... but very few. That's just the way it is. Things change as it gets more serious. And by then, the initial answer means shit. Just means wasted time.


So as strange as it may sound, I feel safer knowing someone who's answer is no. Because I know where I stand, I know they're not fooling themselves (or me) and I can be sure it won't change!

We can all say how we would act in a given situation before we've experienced it but things change BIG TIME once you're living it. That's probably because the path you took to get to that point gave you different perspectives and therefore new knowledge.

I think I would try to accept it but ultimately I wouldn't be able to.
What would get to me wouldn't be the act of sex itself but the intimacy that my wife/SO would be sharing with another person, most likely a man. If I'm going to committ to someone, it has to be total and I expect the same back. But that's just my speculation

 

[chillencjo]

Does it matter

Your on here debating if your wife is or was an SP? I was married to an SP, At the time I met her she had quit and was working in a professional job, I had no Idea, until one night she told me the things she used to do, and I didn't care, but then she ruined my life by telling everyone THE TRUTH, and by everyone she told all my family about her past. Then she dumped me, and started doing it again. I even don't care what anybody says, I want her back, she doesn't have to work at any job, She doesn't even want to see me or talk to me, I went out with her last week, got drunk, tried to have fun, and she said NO, I even said I will pay she said I won't f you for free or even 10k. I am still in love with her.
So to answer your question, Yes you can love an SP, at the end of the day I don't care about yesterday. And I am no hippocrite, she turned me loose on escorts, CL, Perb, she told me to go and fk other women, actually her cold hearted mean words were" GO AND FCK 12 MONKEYS".
I think she has something wrong as she doesn't want to have children with me and be a normal family. Probably to long in that lifestyle
Bottom line is, still trying to break thru

 

[Aerts]

Do you think the age of the SP would make a difference in if you could work a relationship? (let's assume she is still working for the sake of argument, and in the same relative age range as you)

For example, say you are dating a younger SP, 25 or so, do you think it would be a lot tougher (or easier) to work a relationship than if you were with an SP who was 35?

Or a more general question, would any woman (sp or not) be easier or harder to have a relationship with depending on her age?

 

[Miss*Bijou]

Do you think the age of the SP would make a difference in if you could work a relationship? (let's assume she is still working for the sake of argument, and in the same relative age range as you)

For example, say you are dating a younger SP, 25 or so, do you think it would be a lot tougher (or easier) to work a relationship than if you were with an SP who was 35?

Or a more general question, would any woman (sp or not) be easier or harder to have a relationship with depending on her age?

Different ages mean different expectations for people, I suppose. But not always..
I guess that would all depend on the guy's age too, now wouldn't it?.. LOL

 

[Aerts]

Different ages mean different expectations for people, I suppose. But not always..
I guess that would all depend on the guy's age too, now wouldn't it?.. LOL

Mental and physical are usually far removed.

 

[chillencjo]

She F me Up

At first I thought it was fun and games, and she would change. I wasted 5 yrs. of my life and money on her. So now I prefer a randon bbbj and be gone, no headache no drama. I still love her, just not what she is doing, it actually pisses me off, because she has no need to. She's just a slutty hooker who can't keep her panties on. I knew it before ,when she screwed the water delivery man and who else for a thrill
I'm going out now looking for a good BBBJ, any recomendations

 

[Rod Steel]

I don't see why not.

She's a better fuck than my wife will ever be.

 

[SexyBoy]

There was one SP I dated before my serious relationship with another SP. This girl loved sex way too much and was too picky. I couldn't get her to see other guys after awhile and I couldn't have sex with her every 2 hours.

She only wanted attractive younger men with a package and stamina. The girl would get so mad at me when I didn't put out. Foreplay would last 2 mins at most and she would hop up on top to ride me.

She would keep waking me up in the middle of the night and get really bitchy if I didn't put out.

It was crazy I was the guy!

She didn't focus on too much of anything besides exercise shopping and sex.

The mental attraction faded fast and I have no idea about her spiritually.

She just needed a rich boy toy.

There was another one that was almost just as bad. Both were around 19 at the time. I end up missing them after I left them though.

I guess be careful for what you wish for.