The elusive side chick

[take8easy]

Why have One side chick, when you can have a new one every month or every few days (depending on your budget). Less drama, much less risk of getting caught and the best part is the variety. The best part is no inhibitions. You could choose a provider that serves those needs and desires that you would not necessarily share with your partner or any side chick.

 

[Sean/Pen]

Side chick….it sounds good at first but a very bad idea. Feelings get involved on one side or the other almost every time, virtually unavoidable. The escort hobby is risky enough even when being extremely careful with a burner phone/email, go bag, alias, cash only, discrete date times….but a side chick is almost a sure fire way to blow up your life.

 

[Big_Guy_Rye]

Any lessons learned?

For me, I never tried juggling multiple women like that. After seeing my friends try, it always ends in disaster. That's my lesson.

The main thing that ruins the 'side chick' dynamic is "Time".

... the more encounters, the more chances to get caught, the more chances a pregnancy can occur, the more wrinkles show up around the eyes and choices have to be made to lock down the person you're with even if it means muscling out the other girl..... eventually fate will force you to choose one girl or the other, and unless you're some free-loving hippie with too much bitcoin wealth to find two women to agree to a polyamorous relationship.... eventually the side-chick will leave or complicate your life into alimony bankruptcy....

That's why I just go with providers... simple clean, quick, brief business transactions that can sever the connection when needed; being respectful of course, but at least the intentions are known every time there is an engagement.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

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That's why I just go with providers... simple clean, quick, brief business transactions that can sever the connection when needed; being respectful of course, but at least the intentions are known every time there is an engagement.

And THAT, with emphasis on INTENTIONS, just may be THE forum's profound statement of the month.

 

[Once you go black]

I remember a friend of a friend yrs ago who apparently had lots of one night stands . His rule was always leave in the morning . This had gone on for years, until one time he broke his rule .
They went for breakfast , and got to know each other . The beginning of the end .
He was “torn”.
Eventually he left his wife .
It only cost him his wife , the respect of his children , half of everything he owned and of course his house .

No vajayjay is worth that .

 

[angry anderson]

I remember a friend of a friend yrs ago who apparently had lots of one night stands . His rule was always leave in the morning . This had gone on for years, until one time he broke his rule .
They went for breakfast , and got to know each other . The beginning of the end .
He was “torn”.
Eventually he left his wife .
It only cost him his wife , the respect of his children , half of everything he owned and of course his house .

No vajayjay is worth that .

 

[Once you go black]

I prefer Against the wind & Night moves lol

 

[Okanaganguy1985]

Side chick is way more bang for your buck

literally.

But jokes aside, side chick has more of a taboo then an escort, it’s more justifiable (crazy I know) if you’re paying for it.