The art of approaching women

[Zoot Allures]

Approaching women isn’t about one liners
it’s about social intelligence, presence, timing, and reading the moment and beng real.


Most men focus on what to say, focus on what’s happening between you
Soft eye contact no hard staring. Relaxed posture. A friendly sharing of the moment.


Practice builds ease. Having light, intelligent, humorous lines in your back pocket can help you tremendously. The key is choosing lines that sound like you not Jerry Sienfield unless one of his friendly jokes does sound like you.


Noticing signaling is of the essence for then it is not a cold approach .

If she stands beside you for no reason and has a open posture and it just feel right requires use of a bold line that you would not just walk up to a stranger and say-

comment on her, but not her looks, or comment on surroundings

IE comment followed by a joke - You have a soft presense - makes me feel like being quiet

 

[westwoody]

Pick up artiste 🧑‍🎨

 

[Bang4thebuck]

When I was in university as a handsome, young, fit, funny, witty, charming, outgoing man, being able to read social cues and knowing how to have a fun time got me laid a ton despite having no money.

As a now older man who is overweight, stressed, depressed, with thinning hair and very little free time to do anything fun, BUT with a wallet full of cash, my pickup game is now "Hey are you free for a 1 hour GFE session today at 4 pm?"

Works fine for me!

 

[angry anderson]

When I was in university as a handsome, young, fit, funny, witty, charming, outgoing man, being able to read social cues and knowing how to have a fun time got me laid a ton despite having no money.

As a now older man who is overweight, stressed, depressed, with thinning hair and very little free time to do anything fun, BUT with a wallet full of cash, my pickup game is now "Hey are you free for a 1 hour GFE session today at 4 pm?"

Works fine for me!

So what happened to you?

 

[Sheen]

Mystery is that you?

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Way way way back in my timeline I was put into an intensive course on the psychology of sales - this was for science/engineering gear etc market but it extends to all kinds of communication. Good tools but the one that stayed with me forever was "people remember how you make them feel". I have always tried to make the woman I am attempting to meet, feel good in whatever way seems appropriate. Sure seems to go a long way in breaking the ice. Does it get what I aim for? Enough to keep me encouraged I guess is the answer.

There is a myriad of books, articles you name it on the topic, no magic bullet as far as I can see, so just keep it light and intimate that there is fun coming her way from you.

And that is all I have to say about that.
MPH out

 

[MRGREEN]

Approached a woman sitting at a bar said hello, she wanted to blow me off so she said I'm lesbian...I said how are things in Beruit? She pushed the chair out for me.

 

[Zoot Allures]

"people remember how you make them feel". I have always tried to make the woman I am attempting to meet, feel good in whatever way seems appropriate. .

And that is all I have to say about that.
MPH out

You have not said it all

How do you make the ladies feel good?

Be specific IE not that you make them laugh but how do you make them laugh?

 

[Bang4thebuck]

So what happened to you?

Wife, kids, business, and eating my feelings away as I don't drink or do drugs (anymore) :'(

 

[Larry's Torch]

Wife, kids, business, and eating my feelings away as I don't drink or do drugs (anymore) :'(

AKA Time and life. I can take its toll.

 

[Larry's Torch]

You have not said it all

How do you make the ladies feel good?

Be specific IE not that you make them laugh but how do you make them laugh?

Begging for tips?


Quick show of hands.... who else knows where this thread is headed? 🤣

 

[Real Sonny Burnett]

Begging for tips?


Quick show of hands.... who else knows where this thread is headed? 🤣

 

[Uncled]

Pick up artiste 🧑‍🎨

 

[Zoot Allures]

Begging for tips?


Quick show of hands.... who else knows where this thread is headed? 🤣

Yes, how did you guess? Because I asked ?


Best tip so far is in post # 6 "people remember how you make them feel". So I asked him what is the best way to do that as he took a sales course learning how to do just that so he must have some ideas

 

[ChromeGasCap]

Yes, how did you guess? Because I asked ?


Best tip so far is in post # 6 "people remember how you make them feel".

Agree, but if you come across as too safe, it counters the excitement they may be seeking, and is likely to put you in that group that gets to provide but gets no sex,
or worse yet could make you marriage material which nets you the same results. 🤣

A balance must be achieved and that balance is different for each woman.

 

[MB Mod]

Begging for tips?


Quick show of hands.... who else knows where this thread is headed? 🤣

Im waiting for him to figure out this isn’t a dating site

 

[westwoody]

Best way to pick up chicks?
Use the love handles.

 

[Billiam]

Im waiting for him to figure out this isn’t a dating site

Seriously - the only move I've found necessary when approaching any women related to this site is to pull out my wallet. Just sayin'.

 

[Larry's Torch]

I just can't figure out how they think an escort review site would be related to picking up women in any way. Do they think they'll be able to sweet talk one of the Sps into a free session because they show up dressed as 70's era Elton John?

 

[dare.devil]

I just can't figure out how they think an escort review site would be related to picking up women in any way. Do they think they'll be able to sweet talk one of the Sps into a free session because they show up dressed as 70's era Elton John?

I stopped trying to pick women long back to stay away from drama and time waste, modern women are not worth it, thats the one of the reason I am here. I also put providers having over excessive requirements to book into the same category for me. I value my peace and time over those.

I look forward to one rule to pick up here, open your wallet and go straight to the business.,easy, time saver and no brainer.