Do you think the moderators on this site are doing a good job?

[masterblaster]

Brings up a question, why did kamikaze pilots wear helmets and life jackets ?

In case they ran out of gas.

 

[Horndog14]

This place is like visiting some one in their home. Abide by the rules and you are welcome ,if you don't CYA.
I have been on the internet since 1995 and a member of many forums of various topics hobbies etc.
This place is as well moderated as any I have seen, thanks mods for doing a fabulous job.

 

[rlock]

I only ask one thing of the Moderators.

When 2024 ends, PLEASE lock both the Inappropriate & Random threads, and next year make sure we have only once such thread running at a time.
I mean look at this site & its purpose - most things are just going to be inappropriate in polite society, that is a given.

 

[rlock]

In case they ran out of gas.

Gotta still be able to swim to the enemy carrier and stab it with your wakizashi. 🔪

 

[VinVan]

Entitlement. They feel entitled not only to access of and participation on the forums, but also to freedom of speech without consequence. They feel justified rebelling because they cannot accept the punishment they were given as being valid nor reasonable.

It is easier to feel angry, entitled, and justified than it is to accept loss of community and the shame of punishment due to poor behaviour. If they can find more like-minded people, they can feel validated by them despite their history of bans here. They want to belong and feel "not wrong". It's human.

Following what you had said, they want to be able to freely dump on women and men alike for not meeting their unspoken expectations on what they believe society, and this forum, should be like without judgment nor repurcussions. It's really awkward because the people they want to find community with constantly don't want them around here shouting everyone else down and telling those who disagree with them that they are emotional simps and white knights for having positive opinions they do not agree with. It's like entering a church and demanding they change the religion for them - side eye and blasphemy 👀

When freedom of speech comes without risk of consequence, what becomes of us in a cesspool without the most basic order? The forum rules are tidy and simple - easy to understand in a single read-through if mental gymnastics is not your Olympic designation.

Anyways, those are my thoughts. Also, they are undoubtedly contacting naysayers so that they could collect the rebellious masses here 💫

I will refrain from further comment.

This is a very considered and nuanced answer. The fact that Perb is an underground society of sorts, makes it rather unique in its openness to topics and discussions too taboo for the mainstream. I think the Mods do an admirable job of keeping it civil, like the refs at a MMA match.

I wonder if the Bros are even aware they are being offensive or if they really are just trolls? They could also be, as the Mod suggested, one or two parties on a revenge tour. I guess trying to guess their motivation is a fool’s errand so I’ll leave it at that.

 

[fatty2.0]

Hello,

I am the original poster of this thread democracyperb , and I wanted to clear up the misconceptions about me I am seeing in this comment thread.

I used to be a member with the username airsoft_fatty , but I got banned. I wasn't a troll, I only posted positive reviews and comments about ladies, except for one. The review that caused the issue was titled "Serena Sinclair and me did not have sex." When I first posted it, it was taken down even though I showed proof to the moderators that I had seen her. They couldn't tell me why it was removed and said an admin did it, so I tried to contact the admin four times over a few months. They read my messages but didn't reply. I then contacted the moderators again, and they said they would check on it. After waiting for months without a response, I asked if I could repost my review. They said I could, but they couldn't guarantee it wouldn't get taken down again. So, I went ahead and reposted it.

The review was posted for a week or two, and then when I tried to log in, it said I was banned for trolling and having multiple accounts. I never trolled or had multiple accounts, so I was really upset with the board. It felt like I was being ignored and bullied. I've been bullied my whole life, due to my looks, and my autism, and seeing escorts was the only place where I felt treated kindly by women. I've always tried to be nice and respectful to them. With the encounter with Serena, I think my kindness is why she took advantage of me, it felt like she bullied me, and now I don't want to see escorts anymore. Now, I feel like I'm being bullied by the members here. I just posted a poll, and now people are making accusations against me and bullying me with their comments.

I don't expect to be treated fairly, and I doubt this comment will stay up. But I wanted to explain my reasons for posting this poll so you can stop jumping to conclusions and blaming me for what others have done.

 

[MB Mod]

I only ask one thing of the Moderators.

When 2024 ends, PLEASE lock both the Inappropriate & Random threads, and next year make sure we have only once such thread running at a time.
I mean look at this site & its purpose - most things are just going to be inappropriate in polite society, that is a given.

We lock all the 2024 threads on New Year’s Eve, the Canadian and US political threads and the random and inappropriate threads.

 

[jgg]

In case they ran out of gas.

good answer.

 

[MB Mod]

Hello,

I am the original poster of this thread democracyperb , and I wanted to clear up the misconceptions about me I am seeing in this comment thread.

I used to be a member with the username airsoft_fatty , but I got banned. I wasn't a troll, I only posted positive reviews and comments about ladies, except for one. The review that caused the issue was titled "Serena Sinclair and me did not have sex." When I first posted it, it was taken down even though I showed proof to the moderators that I had seen her. They couldn't tell me why it was removed and said an admin did it, so I tried to contact the admin four times over a few months. They read my messages but didn't reply. I then contacted the moderators again, and they said they would check on it. After waiting for months without a response, I asked if I could repost my review. They said I could, but they couldn't guarantee it wouldn't get taken down again. So, I went ahead and reposted it.

The review was posted for a week or two, and then when I tried to log in, it said I was banned for trolling and having multiple accounts. I never trolled or had multiple accounts, so I was really upset with the board. It felt like I was being ignored and bullied. I've been bullied my whole life, due to my looks, and my autism, and seeing escorts was the only place where I felt treated kindly by women. I've always tried to be nice and respectful to them. With the encounter with Serena, I think my kindness is why she took advantage of me, it felt like she bullied me, and now I don't want to see escorts anymore. Now, I feel like I'm being bullied by the members here. I just posted a poll, and now people are making accusations against me and bullying me with their comments.

I don't expect to be treated fairly, and I doubt this comment will stay up. But I wanted to explain my reasons for posting this poll so you can stop jumping to conclusions and blaming me for what others have done.

Trying the “it’s not me I’m innocent“ defence again? This is the third or fourth time I believe, not going to believe it again.

 

[VanCityNewb]

This is becoming a self fulfilling prophecy.

 

[LLLurkJ2]

The thing that makes me sad/cringe is that you providers have to be in rooms alone with these people, repeatedly. The kind of person who insists that their worldview is correct and doesn't 'accept' a provider not wanting to see them because of the views, or any consequences for being an asshole.

Entitlement. They feel entitled not only to access of and participation on the forums, but also to freedom of speech without consequence. They feel justified rebelling because they cannot accept the punishment they were given as being valid nor reasonable.

It is easier to feel angry, entitled, and justified than it is to accept loss of community and the shame of punishment due to poor behaviour. If they can find more like-minded people, they can feel validated by them despite their history of bans here. They want to belong and feel "not wrong". It's human.

Following what you had said, they want to be able to freely dump on women and men alike for not meeting their unspoken expectations on what they believe society, and this forum, should be like without judgment nor repurcussions. It's really awkward because the people they want to find community with constantly don't want them around here shouting everyone else down and telling those who disagree with them that they are emotional simps and white knights for having positive opinions they do not agree with. It's like entering a church and demanding they change the religion for them - side eye and blasphemy 👀

When freedom of speech comes without risk of consequence, what becomes of us in a cesspool without the most basic order? The forum rules are tidy and simple - easy to understand in a single read-through if mental gymnastics is not your Olympic designation.

Anyways, those are my thoughts. Also, they are undoubtedly contacting naysayers so that they could collect the rebellious masses here 💫

I will refrain from further comment.

 

[rinamood]

The thing that makes me sad/cringe is that you providers have to be in rooms alone with these people, repeatedly. The kind of person who insists that their worldview is correct and doesn't 'accept' a provider not wanting to see them because of the views, or any consequences for being an asshole.

I participate here so that the guys who are incompatible won't waste their hard-earned money on me. I believe wholeheartedly that people deserve to spend on the providers who best suit them - from looks, to service, to personality. The more suitable my clientele, the more enjoyable and sustainable this is for me 😇

If someone is not interested in me or doesn't like me, I would strongly prefer for them to leave me alone (they don't and I'm still getting harassed)

 

[carvesg]

I participate here so that the guys who are incompatible won't waste their hard-earned money on me. I believe wholeheartedly that people deserve to spend on the providers who best suit them - from looks, to service, to personality. The more suitable my clientele, the more enjoyable and sustainable this is for me 😇

If someone is not interested in me or doesn't like me, I would strongly prefer for them to leave me alone (they don't and I'm still getting harassed)

Hopefully by voicing your views and preferences in life in conjunction with screening, selection and discarding the incompatible few your clientele improves .

 

[Forum mod]

The fact that this OP has been banned about 4 or 5 times now under various handles should be enough proof for anyone of the patience of the mods to let this farce go on for a day or two. But that's enough.