I recently had an unnerving experience as follows:
Did:
- Last two weeks: i was bored, and curious so cast around a bit on LL to some likely lower rate providers to assess rates and services. About 5 or 6. Pretty sure I gave my name in one of the text messages, but not all.
- All except one got back to me with the info on donations and services- fine. Mostly promptly so there is somebody is out there. (bait and switch aside- this post is not about that). I deleted the msg that did not respond after about a day, thought nothing of it.
- Evening late week i got a text with somebody giving their name from LL, stating that i had been bothering several of his girls. He was going to send thugs to visit and demanded some thousands $ money to be transferred.
- The text was almost immediately followed by a phone call from same number which i declined. Phone number from USA area code.
- a follow up text indicating they were serious and call back in order to settle. it is common in scams to create a sense of urgency.
Did:
- refuse the call
- delete and block
- made sure my phone answering message did not contain full name (I changed both busy and regular message)
- locked all my doors well.
- felt rattled
- got some advice from somebody on the provider side who helped talk me down
- reverse phone look indicates a registered mobile number.
- drank some wine
- pay ransom
- get enough sleep
- call back
- it reminded me that there are more lovely ladies that i know already, or have established reputations than I have time and funds to see, so focus on them.
- Use 411 to ask first if any other experiences out there with particular lady
- Consider using burner number for initial contact. I know that for safety and security i will give real number once established legitimate contact.
- Be cautious about making contact as it could get very weird, not just an innocuous b&s that you walk away from.
- save messages for a few days if nobody gets back to you
- I don't want to indicate all the potential contacts as some are probably legit. The perpetrator will just change profile and there will be a new number fishing scam.
- My guess is there are others in the same boat, maybe not sure how to deal with it.
- Be cautious! This is nasty stuff. ... and i circle back to the first point.






