For anyone who ever called me a man hater

[blakealridge]

Calling you Charlee a misandrist is wildly inaccurate. Being vocal about pointing out double standards and misogyny toward women would be on point.

Keep in mind that men quite often are raised differently. Sometime it's where you come from , sometimes cultural and sometimes a religious problem.

Men tend to be guarded emotionally because of the way our parents raised us and peer pressure but not necessarily because of a lack of emotional intelligence in my mind . Chris Rock did a piece a while back that I find funny as lot of male friends and that we thought accurate about unconditional love that define how men see love and emotions in a certain extent.

I agree men are raised differently. The patriarchy is bad for all of us. But while that may not be your FAULT, it is your RESPONSIBILITY to rise above it and learn to be better. You’re capable of it. Like I say in my video: I believe in you.

This video bugs me though. It’s as if women aren’t expected to keep the house clean and stocked, provide childcare, often therapeutic level support for their partners, often meals/grocery shopping, usually he majority if not all of planning date nights/trips/excursions…and god forbid we gain weight or start looking much older. Then after all that, we are expected to be so content with minimal support in those areas that we still want to put out for the guy who insists we’re only with him for his money. And often if we ARE successful and make more than our male partners, they become emasculated and resentful.

 

[blakealridge]

I wouldn’t take this very seriously. Consider the context - it’s a stand up comedian doing a routine. The objective is to be satirical.

I know it’s a stand up comedian doing a routine. However, it’s not funny, thought provoking, or rooted in any semblance of reality. So, it bugs me.

 

[blakealridge]

we live in a gynocentric society, not a patriarchy

This is demonstratively false.

 

[VinVan]

Then demonstrate it.
What is your evidence that canada is a patriarchy?
What right and privileges do men have that you dont?
What special treatments do men receive that woman dont?
Give some examples of affirmative action for men?

do you believe in the wage gap?

Seriously? Are you just trolling or do you actually believe this?

 

[blakealridge]

not trolling.
I am talking about canada of course, not internationally.
Care to answer or refute any of the questions?

https://canadianwomen.org/the-facts/

 

[Drjohn]

https://canadianwomen.org/the-facts/

The concept of the "Patriarchy" is a creation of radical feminists.

I believe that men and women are and should be considered equal.

If some women are insecure with their place in society, maybe they should look inwardly instead of trying to blame their real or perceived problems on men or other women.

It's always handy to blame the "system".

 

[blakealridge]

The nice thing about facts is that they’re true whether you believe them or not. Go start a straight pride parade and whine about how “all lives” matter.

Your dismissal of the female experience, history, and current statistics are proof in themselves that the patriarchy is alive and well. You deny our experiences and use exceptions to try to prove your unfounded arguments.

Honestly I don’t really care to engage with conspiracy theorists who deny proven facts 🤷🏼‍♀️ good luck with life I guess 😂

 

[blakealridge]

The concept of the "Patriarchy" is a creation of radical feminists.

I believe that men and women are and should be considered equal.

If some women are insecure with their place in society, maybe they should look inwardly instead of trying to blame their real or perceived problems on men or other women.

It's always handy to blame the "system".

"the patriarchy" is q'anon for feminists.
Charlee also didnt read what she linked, because its mostly woman oppressing themselves if you read it.
Also the mere fact that there isnt a male equivalent to that government funded page shows that society doesnt give a fuck about men.
Im sure she doesnt try to combat the "wage gap" in sex work either, maybe she should consider giving a large portion of her earning towards male sex workers if she wants equality.

I’m sorry but imagine, everyone, having sex with one of these 😂

 

[Drjohn]

The nice thing about facts is that they’re true whether you believe them or not. Go start a straight pride parade and whine about how “all lives” matter.

Your dismissal of the female experience, history, and current statistics are proof in themselves that the patriarchy is alive and well. You deny our experiences and use exceptions to try to prove your unfounded arguments.

Honestly I don’t really care to engage with conspiracy theorists who deny proven facts 🤷🏼‍♀️ good luck with life I guess 😂

If you've decided to live your life in a perpetual loop of victemhood, who am I to stop you?

 

[stuntin]

I’m sorry but imagine, everyone, having sex with one of these 😂

I mean the same could be said about you.

You started a thread because the men you see don't show emotional intelligence, maybe it's because they come see you to fuck and not share their lives? You're a hooker not a therapist...

 

[blakealridge]

If you've decided to live your life in a perpetual loop of victemhood, who am I to stop you?

I’m sure people said this to suffragettes too 🤷🏼‍♀️ ignoring problems doesn’t make them go away, sweetie. We have to work together to make things better.

And yes I mean “sweetie” condescendingly. Just trying to match your tone.

 

[blakealridge]

I mean the same could be said about you.

You started a thread because the men you see don't show emotional intelligence, maybe it's because they come see you to fuck and not share their lives? You're a hooker not a therapist...

Actually the men I see *do* show a lot of emotional intelligence. That’s why they pass my screening, and you almost certainly couldn’t. 🥰

they’re the ones who make me expect better from the rest of you. And if you think fucking me is bad, feel free to read my reviews babe.

 

[silenceisgolden]

Charlee may not be a misandrist, but I'm starting to become one reading a lot of these replies, and I'm a man.

 

[stuntin]

Actually the men I see *do* show a lot of emotional intelligence. That’s why they pass my screening, and you almost certainly couldn’t. 🥰

they’re the ones who make me expect better from the rest of you. And if you think fucking me is bad, feel free to read my reviews babe.

"Yeah, standards (especially in emotional intelligence) seem to be much lower for men though, also I interact with a lot of men because of this job,..."
-- Hmmm. Above is from post 4 on this thread.

I just took a look at your "contact" page and your screening is literally a $100 deposit. There's plenty of agencies that require more than you do in terms of screening. Unless someone is a complete shit head, it doesn't seem very hard passing...

In terms of reviews, I wouldn't expect a supporting member to have negative reviews.

 

[Drjohn]

Charlee may not be a misandrist, but I'm starting to become one reading a lot of these replies, and I'm a man.

And the virtue signaling award goes to...

 

[Uncled]

Thread locking in 5 . . . 4 . . . 3 . . . 2 . . . 1 . . .

 

[carvesg]

Charlee....you hit sensitive nerves by the look of it . Lol

People seem to see this less about accomodations of the sexes but more as trench warfare .

Instead of understanding where Charlee is coming from, a lot of the guys here are going to the barricades.


I see this thread being shut down quickly because of a few child like replies. The discussion will have to carry on somewhere else or under a different form.

4 or 5 guys going after Charlee personally in some cases and one guy tries to side with her and they are going after him now . Wow ! Not too mature

 

[blakealridge]

"Yeah, standards (especially in emotional intelligence) seem to be much lower for men though, also I interact with a lot of men because of this job,..."
-- Hmmm. Above is from post 4 on this thread.

I just took a look at your "contact" page and your screening is literally a $100 deposit. There's plenty of agencies that require more than you do in terms of screening. Unless someone is a complete shit head, it doesn't seem very hard passing...

In terms of reviews, I wouldn't expect a supporting member to have negative reviews.

I interact with men like how I'm interacting wth you right now, but I wouldn't see you. And my screening isn't just a $100 deposit. It's an entire booking form and a back and forth that allows me to judge character.

I don't have good reviews because I'm a supporting member, that's not how reviews work. You really don't seem to understand how a lot of things work, honestly.

 

[blakealridge]

all of this could also be directed towards charlee. she got triggered. she didnt try to understand the male experience. and she resorted to name calling and sexist remarks.

why do you hate men so much @carvesg ? who hurt you? sorry you are so insecure

this is the epitome of projection. like truly they should just take the dictionary definition of "projection" and replace it with this forum post.

 

[stuntin]

Charlee....you hit sensitive nerves by the look of it . Lol

People seem to see this less about accomodations of the sexes but more as trench warfare .

Instead of understanding where Charlee is coming from, a lot of the guys here are going to the barricades.


I see this thread being shut down quickly because of a few child like replies. The discussion will have to carry on somewhere else or under a different form.

4 or 5 guys going after Charlee personally in some cases and one guy tries to side with her and they are going after him now . Wow ! Not too mature

She's talking out of her ass so of course people are going to go after her...

The intent of this thread is questionable. On page 1 VitaminD questioned her and she choose to not reply. Why start this thread and reply selectively...