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Do you think age equals maturity when it comes to SP's?

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TallDark&Handsome

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Every once and a while, I see men on here asking for recommendations and I see both other members and SP's suggesting an older SP due to maturity.
From my life experience, If you exclude the 18-19 and early 20s demographic, I do not see any correlation between age and maturity.
And from experience in this hobby, anecdotally I have often found that the "younger" SP's tend to be more mature than the "older" SP's

What are your thoughts?

Edit: same goes for men. A man can be a man baby at older ages.
 
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Every once and a while, I see men on here asking for recommendations and I see both other members and SP's suggesting an older SP due to maturity.
From my life experience, If you exclude the 18-19 and early 20s demographic, I do not see any correlation between age and maturity.
And from experience in this hobby, anecdotally I have often found that the "younger" SP's tend to be more mature than the "older" SP's

What are your thoughts?
No, age does not equal maturity when it comes to SP's. And that is not surprising as there is no difference, in that regard, between day to day real life and this hobby: the lady is mature or not, regardless of her age. I met SWs who were in their mid 40s and had little maturity, and I met mid 20s SWs with more maturity than their own mothers, so to speak. But for sure, we tend to expect older ladies to have more maturity, and that is normal as well. That said, I personally would not suggest an older SP due to maturity. I would suggest a mature SP for maturity no matter her age. Therefore, I stand where you stand (based on the content of your post) for the most part (I do not know about the 18-19 and early 20s as I always book ladies from mid 20s up to mid 40s).
 

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Well at my age I have to be considered mature and hell if I know if that has changed too much for me regarding sex. I mean if its on its ON and as long as my current lady I am doing the wild thing with is as ON as I am I don't give a shit about maturity.

Now there is a difference between maturity and old as when old is all over the SP's condition and there is a thing about very young acting as such but if we are all getting down to it, I say be turned on and do it!
 
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Based on my time as a moderator, age has diddley squat to do with maturity, of both SPs and pooners. I have dealt with very mature and head screwed on straight 21 year olds and I have dealt with completely unhinged lunatics over the age of 40, 50, or more. What makes it more fun is the inconsistency. Someone can be very lucid and logical one moment and in another post the same day, lose their composure and have the cheese fall off the cracker.
 

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Based on my time as a moderator, age has diddley squat to do with maturity, of both SPs and pooners. I have dealt with very mature and head screwed on straight 21 year olds and I have dealt with completely unhinged lunatics over the age of 40, 50, or more. What makes it more fun is the inconsistency. Someone can be very lucid and logical one moment and in another post the same day, lose their composure and have the cheese fall off the cracker.
Haha, cheese fall off the cracker
Excellent
 

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I would say age of a pooner is ofcourse relevant to the maturity but not in case of SP. Because If a women working in this industry after age of 40, it shows a very bad decision making at her end and a strong sign of immaturity. If she made good choice at her younger age she would be hiring dashing male escorts for her rather than sleeping with random men for money. Another observation also, may be I am wrong, older the lady is, has to do unusual things to compete in this business.
 

TallDark&Handsome

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Honestly? Usually yes, but there are exceptions, just like in any industry. Experience plays a bigger part.
In what way would experience in the profession make someone more mature?
For my business, as well as other careers I have had, how long someone has been in the position or career does not indicate maturity.
I actually have a relatively new coder working for me, he is 23, has only been with us for less than 12 months, one of the most mature people at the company.
 

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I don’t agree with your age analogy, I’v been around a while and it gets better mostly imho
 

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Younger gals are busy, hustling to make a lot of money. As a result they come off as more mature than they actually are. In my experience the lunatics are the ones that are less busy and are desperate to get repeat customers. And unfortunately fewer customers correlates with older age.
 

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Thousand cock stare, thats a new one, made me chuckle. looked it up on the old urban dictionary, I have certainly seen that look far too many a times .
Thousand cock stare must be similar to the “can’t cum by anything but his hand “ due to porn addiction.
Clients are no different, I often find young men so refreshing and fun , they haven’t desensitized themselves to the point of addiction like a lot of long term “hobbiests”
I’d say you are under the illusion of “maturity “ with younger ladies as they’re not up to speed on all the levels of bs we deal with over time .

As we mature , if you’re still successful 🥳we just don’t put up with all the bs , and have a solid clientele so don’t need to put up with it . When you’re new all you care about is making “EVERYONE” happy and getting dozens of reviews .
If you’re good you don’t need to kiss anyone’s ass . They come for yours 😘
 

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This.

I would even lower the age, usually over the age of 30 its a sign of poor life choices and immaturity.
The mature hot girls usually settle down pretty early, because they know cashing in their chips while in their prime will land them the most high value/ quality man. A mature woman also understands male nature, knows her youth and feminity are her greatest powers, and knows doing sex work shrinks their dating pool drastically, so if they do choose to participate they are extremely discrete and usually keep it short term, I think thats one of the reasons why sugar babying is more popular with the younger generation, less likely to get exposed.

Theres also something that happens with alot of older SP's and ones who have been in the industry for years were they become very bitter towards men. some of them are more overt with it, while some are more covert about it. but even the covert ones just give off this aura/attitude of misandry and resentment, even if they come off as friendly enough while your meeting them, some of the more simpish guys and guys who are less experienced with woman clearly dont pick up on it, but the guys who have some game and are experienced with civvie woman pick up on it right away. I also have conversations with SP's sometimes and they just seem so disconnected from how non sex worker girls act, and they will say some unusual things, and you can just tell they have lost the ability to pair bond with a man properly.
then theres the "thousand cock stare" that blank look and vibe girls who have had sex with way too many guys always seem to have.

And before I get attacked, I will say the same about alot of pooners. it can manifest itself in misogyny (cant believe im actually using that word unironically) . or in white-knight/simping and the captain save a ho persona. Like I cant believe the stuff I see posted by some guys on here, especially when they start talking about their "deep connections" and being "monogamous to providers" etc , its really immature and sad.
I'm monogamous to one provider at a time...unless I book a duo.
 

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I would say age of a pooner is ofcourse relevant to the maturity but not in case of SP. Because If a women working in this industry after age of 40, it shows a very bad decision making at her end and a strong sign of immaturity. If she made good choice at her younger age she would be hiring dashing male escorts for her rather than sleeping with random men for money. Another observation also, may be I am wrong, older the lady is, has to do unusual things to compete in this business.
This is absolutely not true. So you’re saying that women who are more mature in this industry are in it because of poor decisions? There’s many of us who fully choose to be in this industry. I am highly college educated, and I chose to get into this industry for various reasons, and in my mid 30’s. There is absolutely nothing wrong with sleeping with random men for money, or if you don’t want money… just as there’s nothing wrong with men hiring providers and sleeping with random women. Your value, worth or maturity has absolutely nothing to do with how few or how many people one sleeps with, whether transactional or not.


Younger gals are busy, hustling to make a lot of money. As a result they come off as more mature than they actually are. In my experience the lunatics are the ones that are less busy and are desperate to get repeat customers. And unfortunately fewer customers correlates with older age.
I would have to completely disagree with you on this. Regardless of age there are providers who are busy hustling to make money, and some that don’t. Honestly since I have been in this industry I see a lot more women in their 30’s and 40’s putting in a whole lot of work into their business and being super professional.

Fewer customers absolutely doesn’t correlate with older age. I began doing this 1.5 years ago in my mid 30’s, and I would say I have been pretty successful in this industry so far. I’m doing much better financially than when I used to be an educator or when I worked in IT, and I also truly love my job. I also get many clients of varying ages, where they are particularly seeking out more mature companions.

I also know many providers who have been doing this for many many years who say they are more successful in this industry in their 30’s and 40’s than when they were younger. I think you’re assuming a bit too much here.
 
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TallDark&Handsome

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I also know many providers who have been doing this for many many years who say they are more successful in this industry in their 30’s and 40’s than when they were younger. I think you’re assuming a bit too much here.
how many clients do you see per week on average?

And wouldnt that just be a product of the internet and social media? that is if they are telling the truth.
 
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