To the sex workers who ask what race/ethnicity?
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I don't have a 'bucket list', but if a guy mentions the country he's from, I do make a little mental note out of my own interest. United Nations of sex, baby, this gal doesn't discriminate! 
Or maybe they've had a bad experience with an ethnicity?
Bargaining theft lack of hygiene chauvinism
that kind of thing?
Bargaining theft lack of hygiene chauvinism
that kind of thing?
Well, not a SW here, but as a pooner of many decades, I am happy to report I have had sex with almost every ethnicity I have come across. And its all good!!
I personally don’t ask this question, as it’s irrelevant to me personally, and I see clients of all ethnicities. I do know of provider friends who ask this question, and when I have asked why they ask, it’s because they just want to know more what to expect when their client shows up, and to not mistake them for someone else.
One friend who asks this found in one city particular she works in, I won’t say as it’s irrelevant, that she has had some people get quite upset when she’s asked them, and asked my advice. I told her she can just not ask them if people are uncomfortable being asked this.
I do think there are some providers, very few, who would maybe be racist or not want to see someone of a particular ethnicity, which is racist imo. I honestly think this is not a high percentage of providers. So if a provider asks this question I think it is very valid to ask them why they ask it.
One friend who asks this found in one city particular she works in, I won’t say as it’s irrelevant, that she has had some people get quite upset when she’s asked them, and asked my advice. I told her she can just not ask them if people are uncomfortable being asked this.
I do think there are some providers, very few, who would maybe be racist or not want to see someone of a particular ethnicity, which is racist imo. I honestly think this is not a high percentage of providers. So if a provider asks this question I think it is very valid to ask them why they ask it.
another possibility is the provider not wanting to see a client with the same ethnicity/nationality for fear of being recognized?
I've seen ads like this.
I've seen ads like this.
As an older Asian male, I am happy when any nice and kind ladies(like kelcaine, I am sure everybody agrees) see me. But I understand if any SP don't want to see me because of my ethnicity. It can be personal thing and not always racist thing. I go to ladies who will take me as I am.
As a client, I am fortunate that my ethnicity affords me access to all of the beautiful professional women out there. And yes, I have a bucket list that is slowly getting filled.
I find it so much fun interacting with people from all different backgrounds and cultures.
Just doing my part to bring peace and love to the world.
One handler explained these exact reasons to me. They open the door as soon as they see us through the peephole before we even knock, so they want to avoid opening the door to a delivery person or anyone who doesn't match the description (age and ethnicity) given to them. A couple ladies won't see people of the same ethnicity because their community is very tight-knit and small. It can be a matter of safety and anonymity for some. It's not always a matter of racism, but people often want to make it into that.
I don’t know about that because they’d never stop to see white men if they had a bad experience with one.
That's quite enough speculation about race. Ladies can decide to see whomever they please, this is not a costco where anyone with 60 bucks gets in. This is her body, her rules. Thread closed.
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