Repeat dates vs seeing someone new

[FreeG]

Unless you’re someone who has LOADS of spare cash, maybe you’re more like me: I save enough for one date every 1-2 mos.or so. So there’s always the quandary: meet someone new or someone I’ve seen before.

Logically, it makes sense to see someone I’ve already seen - many (But not all!) repeated dates can get better and better each time. Familiarity, trust, understanding each others’ minds and bodies - all can build up so nicely on successive dates.

And yet!!! I still am tempted by so many women, lol! Some I’ve followed on Twitter for awhile, some whose ads I see, some at agencies who I’v always wanted to see.

What about you all?

 

[stressless123]

I try to strike a balance. I have my ATFs that I will repeat with atleast once a month and then I try to see someone new here and there

 

[masterpoonhunter]

I wish I had MORE cash. Like that guy who said he makes 7 figures. Fuck man I would need IV vitamins!!

 

[Pornholio]

I hear you. The FOMO vs what you know. Kind of like why guys whom cheat on their wives, who they really love, but are enticed for something different

 

[badbadboy]

It’s important to have a balance between seeing local girls and the visiting girls. Prior to Covid I was active 2-3 X a month seeing both visiting and locals.

With COVID the visiting girls eventually stayed home as did many local girls who chose more frequent clients that earned their priority . It’s difficult to get a rapport with new local SP if you’re pooning every 4-6 weeks.

Also local references are golden but not a lot will bother with references if they are from visiting girls. As we know sometimes it takes weeks to get a reply for reference requests.

 

[VinD]

I have one girl as a regular , meaning I have seen her 4 plus times . That’s kind of how I roll . First it was Lavinia , then it was Raelene Rose , now it is Delilah . I like predictable great service . You get that when you see them multiple times . They also tend to be more comfortable being more adventurous after multiple visits . However , it’s nice to try someone different from time to time .

 

[YYC]

Most of my life as a client was spent jumping around from lady to lady. Great fun. You don't develop an unhealthy relationship to anyone, you can experience a ton of really fun shit.

A few years ago I decided to focus on repeat visits and developing more of a relationship. That can lead to more really freaky kink because you develop trust but you can also develop emotional attachments to the provider. Some of those were fun and they developed into some short term fun off the clock romances. But when you develop feelings that aren't reciprocated it can eat at your soul; especially if you're both on the same board and you keep reading about how everyone loves her. Never bothered me dating sex workers but weirdly bothers me when I love someone who doesn't love me.

Anyway, I'm thinking it's time to go back to the one-offs just because it won't eat away at my soul

 

[taster]

Can start watching at 6 min 25 seconds or from the beginning.

 

[VinD]

I saw Lavinia likely 7 times . When I texted her to see if she wanted to go to a PLUR summer mansion sex party , she said yes . I said for a fee , and she said , just buy me drinks for the nite . I asked about “what happens if I want you at some point “ ? she said “ it’s a sex party “ !! Haha . We had sex together at one of the play areas with other people fucking beside us . She also enticed a girl and her boyfriend to come to the play area with us later on . The guy couldn’t do it , but the 3 of us had a great 3 some . Lavinia was so cool back then . So that was a benefit of getting to know someone over time with multiple visits . I highly doubt many or any providers would have done that with me for drinks only .

 

[GeeBeeP]

The allure of someone new is always there, and its hard to beat that feeling when the door opens and a sexy new girl is waiting. But I agree repeating with someone leads to better sex in the long run once you know each other and both get comfortable.

Its a combination of both for me as long as I can afford it.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

People like to flex. Him saying that does not really add anything to his point. Lol

Anyhow, for me, i much prefer seeing someone new everytime i poon. I like to travel the world lol. And.. i get easily emotionally attached to someone as i am single right now. Seeing the same lady back to back will make me fall in love with that lady. Lol

Yes and there is also the trolling issue ...
When I was in university I fell in love at least once every week there was so much delight in the delectable females I was meeting!!

 

[rlock]

I have tended to be half new ladies, half repeats with favourites.
As I do less of this than in the past, with limited play money, it has been hard to "take a chance" on new ladies. The number of ladies I would want to see is maybe 20x the number that I can.

 

[Dick Ford]

I am a guy who is loyal to his regular, for many of the reasons described here by ALYX, a Chicago provider, in a recent Tweet: "The beautiful thing about a long-term relationship forged w/in this realm is it's existence w/in a perpetual honeymoon phase. It remains intimate & full of discovery. It is rife with authenticity, joy, passion & desire. The weight of life / of a shared life does not intrude."

 

[happymoments]

I wish I had MORE cash. Like that guy who said he makes 7 figures. Fuck man I would need IV vitamins!!

Huh what guy who makes 7 figures? 🤔 on here?

Did I miss something lol... i need to make 6 figures first 😂

But I was on a TDL of sampling as many as i can till my heart just couldnt stop for one... seeing others didnt even feel the same or fun either so i stopped seeing any and taking a time out while i focus on self ... will pickup either with my fav or see where life takes me again after i get some extra figures lol

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Focusing on just one can lead to you know, that love thing.
Way back it was all explained to me and I didn't follow it (face-palm). Anyway:
Furniture, you start with furniture.
Then you need a place to put it.
So you get a place and some delectable gal hooks onto you. Next thing you know you are in a relationship.
Now its serious so the two of you start co habitating, maybe even marriage.
A kid happens, maybe more, you now have a house, the minivan, a dog the whole shit-a-ree.
Divorce, you lose a lot of it, get miserable, etc.
So Furniture the root of this focus on one thing.
Kidding .. maybe not ...
That guy who made the claim of 7figures was a troll, got himself banned, again
Back to one or many? Well I really think its one of those very much up to you, your lifestyle, desires, urges, all of that. And that changes as time goes on.
Just my 2bits.
Cheers. MPH

 

[happymoments]

Focusing on just one can lead to you know, that love thing.
Way back it was all explained to me and I didn't follow it (face-palm). Anyway:
Furniture, you start with furniture.
Then you need a place to put it.
So you get a place and some delectable gal hooks onto you. Next thing you know you are in a relationship.
Now its serious so the two of you start co habitating, maybe even marriage.
A kid happens, maybe more, you now have a house, the minivan, a dog the whole shit-a-ree.
Divorce, you lose a lot of it, get miserable, etc.
So Furniture the root of this focus on one thing.
Kidding .. maybe not ...
That guy who made the claim of 7figures was a troll, got himself banned, again
Back to one or many? Well I really think its one of those very much up to you, your lifestyle, desires, urges, all of that. And that changes as time goes on.
Just my 2bits.
Cheers. MPH

Oh nice now i dont feel soo bad not making 7 figures 😂 but i'll work on getting the 6 lol

haha that's sounds like every bro's life story here... at least a good amount of them lol...

but you know the funny thing is... #1 rule of these adventures is not to have feels for one... and see others so you can dilute it...

Except for me, even in sessions with other pretty ones i find myself not in the moment and thinking of another... so only thing to do so is send it all the way for a break lol...

At least now i can work on the extra figures lol

But on that note, who knows maybe it's a phase thing and with age lifestyle and all the other stuff, we all get bored eating the same thing over and over but i recommend living a colorful life, meaning experience as much as you can before it's over lol... only live once, but once is enough if we truly lived 🤓 🤣

 

[Noob888]

Huh what guy who makes 7 figures? 🤔 on here?

Did I miss something lol... i need to make 6 figures first 😂

Metro Vancouver and the big cities across Canada have a LOT of people, as does many in Canada making 6+ figures now especially those who can poon daily or several times a week.

I'm seeing those who don't are often ridiculed for choosing to be poor and not earning 6+ figures.

 

[happymoments]

Metro Vancouver and the big cities across Canada have a LOT of people, as does many in Canada making 6+ figures now especially those who can poon daily or several times a week.

I'm seeing those who don't are often ridiculed for choosing to be poor and not earning 6+ figures.

LOL yeah clearly i'm doing something wrong 🤣

Either not taking enough chances or not going deep enough or creative enough... which I think is all 3 at the moment, so taking a break to sort myself out first... you're right I am choosing to be poor if I'm not striving to be / do more...

Poor is the default status for being idle or not progressive now 🤣

 

[Pornholio]

LOL yeah clearly i'm doing something wrong 🤣

Either not taking enough chances or not going deep enough or creative enough... which I think is all 3 at the moment, so taking a break to sort myself out first... you're right I am choosing to be poor if I'm not striving to be / do more...

Poor is the default status for being idle or not progressive now 🤣

I'm 6 figures yearly, and still seems like I'm going chq to chq.(variable rate this year hasn't been favorable). Strive for happiness. 6 figures isn't always it. Ie I give up alot of time to Chase the OT

 

[Noob888]

I'm 6 figures yearly, and still seems like I'm going chq to chq.(variable rate this year hasn't been favorable). Strive for happiness. 6 figures isn't always it. Ie I give up alot of time to Chase the OT

The more you make, the more you spend. If you don't do so wisely, you end up in the "chq to chq" status.