I often see a particular sp at a shop - we have a good rapport, long time regular - but less commonly I go on other days to see someone else at the same place. Their days have changed and now both are there at the same time. Any thoughts on how to navigate that? It feels like when you see a different hair stylist at the same salon, like I'm breaking some sort of 'code' of who 'owns' which client.
Etiquette for regulars at a shop
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What do you honestly think would happen? Some kind of Teamster throwdown with a scab? Watch them go at it like the Jerry Springer show, just for you?
As far as you should be concerned, you're just a guy who wants some with money to spend; and more often than not, that's how they see you too. If you have a good rapport, that's good too. You're probably a nicer guy than the hundreds she's sees between your visits. If you're worried about her feelings like that, then start booking direct appointments with her and make time to meet that appointment. Otherwise, if your free time is valuable, and can't get the schedule to match, what can you do?
As far as you should be concerned, you're just a guy who wants some with money to spend; and more often than not, that's how they see you too. If you have a good rapport, that's good too. You're probably a nicer guy than the hundreds she's sees between your visits. If you're worried about her feelings like that, then start booking direct appointments with her and make time to meet that appointment. Otherwise, if your free time is valuable, and can't get the schedule to match, what can you do?
I remember one time I had a main regular who I saw during the day and then a night time semi regular who was more of a "well I guess I'm bored so I'll head down just to kind of burn 45 mins of my evening."
Long story short, there was an appointment log book and one day I had seen them both in the same day. After the deed, night time girl questioned me on why she saw so many entries for day time girl with my name on them and why her bookings were longer lollllll she also dug in and asked me all of the things we did together 🤣🤣🤣
Long story short, there was an appointment log book and one day I had seen them both in the same day. After the deed, night time girl questioned me on why she saw so many entries for day time girl with my name on them and why her bookings were longer lollllll she also dug in and asked me all of the things we did together 🤣🤣🤣
Exactly, it’s not always the customer who can get attached to the girl, becoming a regular can have unexpected consequences. Some will get jealous that you are spending money elsewhere, others may forget that you are a customer and start to have feelings for you, that’s when jealousy becomes a problem
At strip clubs the competition can be ruthless and many ladies do view a customer as "hers" and it can get heated if a lady moves in on what she believes is her customer. Of course, from the guys perspective the enjoyment is often playing the field in terms of having higher priced dance sessions.
