Assumptions of another’s expectation immediately curtails my generosity. What I have come to learn in my still youth, is that some people were never told/trained about how to best operate.I'll often bring a small gift,i.e. lipstick, nail polish, some cosmetic thing, or, depending on SP's ethnicity, a food item, eg. banh mi for a Vietnamese,
kimchi for a Korean, dimsum for a Chinese.
not to derail the thread, but it rots my socks when I'm paying a bill in a bar or resto and the server asks, "do you want your change?" that brings on the
make-the-tip-disappear trick.
I know, the rant s/b in a separate thread...my bad.
But there isn't any leftover cold cocksucking to microwave and enjoy the next day.If I always tip the pizza guy 15% for driving a pizza, then I will tip an escort 20% because they just sucked my cock.
what better reason is there for a tip than someone who just literally sucked your cock?
I was starting to worry that I was the only one who did this so it's nice to know I'm not alone. I do the exact same thing as Puntmeister and I get nearly the exact same experiences. Most reputable SPs remember most of their clients, it's the ones that make an extra positive impression they will likely favour moreI Always tip my repeats. In advance. Many have said they really do appreciate it. It’s my way of saying I appreciate them. I know one hard to book gal always responds promptly and makes time for this gent. Another will entertain me when she’s on a work break, cuz it’s easy, fun, sexy, authentic, worthwhile, and always respectful. Expected or not, these gals deal with a lot of crap and when they provide an enjoyable intimate service, I don’t know what warrants a tip from me more than that.
if I’ve done my homework correctly, I can pre-tip in the envelope at the start. Not liking to drop a coupla greens at the end of a first date. Seems tawdry. Guess I’m just a pay it forward guy. If it’s good, I will be back, and she will happily receive me. That’s just the way I roll, and I am happy about it.
-Punt.
I'm going to be real with you: it's really sweet when guys get me a gift, but getting me specific makeup is frustrating. Usually it's not makeup that I want or need. Much better to get us a Sephora gift card!Jade,7388,actually declined my tip,in the form of a small gift,but did so very politely,saying she didn't use much makeup.
Far from being offended,I was impressed by her honesty, because she could have accepted the gift and given it to one of her friends.
Instead, I was able to give it to the next lady I saw.
High marks to Jade!
That’s funny I thought the same thing…I don’t even try to buy my wife any makeup (it’ll be wrong) let alone for a stranger. But @grusse heart is in the right place!I'm going to be real with you: it's really sweet when guys get me a gift, but getting me specific makeup is frustrating. Usually it's not makeup that I want or need. Much better to get us a Sephora gift card!
You can always check our wish lists! I have makeup on my wish list.That’s funny I thought the same thing…I don’t even try to buy my wife any makeup (it’ll be wrong) let alone for a stranger. But @grusse heart is in the right place!
If we use SO preferences to guide us on SP gifting, I’d say my best mileage comes from good old NY CHEESECAKE with Raspberry Compote (on the side), nicely packaged from a high quality bakery. Tried that twice and yes it was gobbled up right quick. For foodie offerings you should know each other well, have chemistry and trust already established, and enjoy a little decadence together. Nice!That’s funny I thought the same thing…I don’t even try to buy my wife any makeup (it’ll be wrong) let alone for a stranger. But @grusse heart is in the right place!





