Tossing Grenades levels the playing field..... Gets rid of the BS people are spouting
PS I was inspired by that movie tittle.....
SP’s and agencies asking for Perb handle
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PS I was inspired by that movie tittle.....
With a Perb handle every one is hiding behind a name.... or avatar.....
some fuckers are just too serious.....
signed Yahoo!
I'm not sure I understand what you mean? This board and the reviews are very serious to us providers. They literally mean life and death for some. A bad review can ruin a reputation and a livelihood. Graphic reviews (that are often exaggerated to look cool for the boys in the locker room) can lead to boundary pushing in very real sessions for providers. This might be a hobby for you guys and this website might be a way to blow steam but for us this is a job. This is an advertising platform. This is a way to provide for us and our families. Your words affect us and our businesses.
I'm not condemning anyone here. You are allowed to write whatever you want. But the beauty in being an independent provider is choosing your clients. A board handle is a way to look for compatibility. I once had a very popular reviewer contact me for a booking, I read his reviews and posts and told him I didn't think we would be a great match. He thanked me for my honesty. I saved him money that he can spend with a provider more his speed and I saved myself an unwanted experience. Win-Win.
I think that whatever information the SP wants is up to her. She is just looking after her own personal safety. I can choose to provide the info or not.
This ^ however I think lying and saying you don’t have a perb handle if you do is super gross. The two options would be “my perb handle is x” and “I’m not comfortable sharing my perb handle.” Anything else is treading in dangerous waters where consent is concerned, I’d say.
Agreed. I believe in full, true and plain disclosure.
They ask..
I tell
I either get laid or not
It's that simple
I tell
I either get laid or not
It's that simple
Bravo Rose! We men on our side do not understand what it is like to be opening a door to a totally stranger. We don’t know how many times you have felt threatened, been threatened and wondered if you were going to make it out of a session unharmed. You have every right to do what you can to keep safe but also provide the best service to your clients. It is a learning curve for this newbie and these dialogues have been super helpful! ??
O.K. that explains the reaction I got from a well known SP I contacted for the first time recently......."where's my money for the sheets." Seems "uncleg" came by and wore his boots and spurs to bed....seems he was a bit of a "thruster" as commented on by Charlee and did a bit of shredding. But "uncleg" must have done something right/well since "I" was not banished and it's not like the sheets were all that expensive.
If an SP wants my Perb handle I will happily provide it. I can't think of any posts that I really regret although there may be some that could have been better worded. If she doesn't want to entertain Perb members because we might post a review, that is her choice and I respect that. There are plenty others around.
I like your perspective ! ?
It measures up with this Review, which I assume You would consider respectful ?
But, I'm curious...
https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/review-rose-delacourt.248827/
Mr Q.
I personally find all my reviews to be respectful. As long as they are not play by play of an intimate session I have no problem with them
R
About graphic reviews can lead to boundary pushing, I would say that all guys on here need to understand that all encounters are YMMV. I don't think we guys should stop posting graphic reviews, but graphic reviews should not become an expectation for us guys prior to a date. For me, I enjoy reading graphic reviews because they are fun to read, and they intrigue me to book someone, but I have never requested a SP: "Hey I saw a review on you that you did this, can you do that for me too?" I come in and go with the flow, and be as respectful as I can. I don't let what I have already know control my emotions or push boundaries.
Case in point, I read a review of a SP who swallowed at his first visit, and that's what I wanted so I went to see her. Well, she did not swallow even after I repeated her twice. But guess what, I never confronted her and always went with the flow. Yes she never swallowed for me but I never held that against her or even mentioning it to her. I still had great sessions with her. Another case was when I read a review that graphically describes an awesome BBBJ for free which intrigued me to visit this other SP, well guess what YMMV hit me and she quoted me extra for BBBJ. I did not get upset or confronted her I simply said oh I don't have any extra money on me, and we went with CBJ. The session went well, I never mentioned that I knew she did BBBJ for no upcharge. Because I understand it's YMMV. And nobody gets hurt.
Therefore, I don't think we should stop posting graphic reviews all together. Instead, it's vital for us guys to realize all sessions are YMMV, and still be a gentleman even if you don't get what you want. Guys that push boundaries are assholes, and I'm sorry if it has happened to you. Just know that I am a respectful client that won't let a graphic review brainwash me into doing something stupid. Yea, I didn't get something this guy got, maybe he had better connections with this SP or she liked him more than me, and THAT'S OKAY! Guys, I enjoy reading graphic reviews, please don't do something stupid so we won't be censored!
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