The longer you're in this lifestyle.........the older you get.
The longer you're in this lifestyle...
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Perspectives on regular dating are different from normies, tolerance for stupid head games reduced to zero.
Not going to jump through hoops and spend a fortune on dating if escorts are a fraction of the price, satisfaction is near certain. and no drama ensues.
I'm permanently warped.
Not going to jump through hoops and spend a fortune on dating if escorts are a fraction of the price, satisfaction is near certain. and no drama ensues.
I'm permanently warped.
I second this! The longer I poon, the less I find myself caring about random hot girls I see on the streets. Before pooning officially became my lifestyle, I used to be this typical horndog that would turn my head when I saw hot girls on the street, would try hard to be a fuckboy just to get laid, you know, typical teen stuff. But now I care less and less about random hot chicks, because I know there is nearly no chance of us ever hooking up, and I grow lazy in trying to build a relationship with someone, it takes too much time and efforts just to let her guard down and have sex with only her or you are a cheater? Nah, now I am more calm, I am still horny, but I keep calm and save money, and then I can jump to the freaky stuff with girls I like right away with my money, save myself the efforts to create affections, as well as the drama.
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Agreed
Adding too, that the pooning has given me a lot of confidence knowing that given a chance I can make that girl/woman have fun if not a LOT of fun.
I very much doubt you are warped.
You adapted to the system and are benefiting from a logical calculus. We all discovered the same goldmine.
It’s not as easy for either side to quit as they often claim. The guys, because, there is generally always that urge or need physically, there is the excitement of something new, and also it becomes a habit. This hobby can also lead to what I call dependency issues.
The comedian Patrice O’Neil used to joke about how woman can just point at their crotch and yell incoherently and a guy will eventually show up. A man needs to be smooth and polished to sweet talk his way into getting the girl.
This invaluable social skill is extremely difficult and takes a lot of practice, some more than others. Once someone is out of practice, it’s can become path of least resistance. If trying to meet people naturally keeps failing, why keep trying to learn to master social interactions when $$$ can do the talking in place of the learned social skill? Plus the $$$ will probably get a top shelf woman that would be perhaps very difficult to be had in a normal social setting.
The same could be said for woman that get into this world as a provider. I know of one girl making $40,000 a month and wanted to quit, and did....
.... but her great job at $80,000 a year was just too far backwards and a year later, she was back at it.
Why go through all the time consuming training and stress of trying to build a business or career when there is a job paying 5 times as much (10 times if your not paying taxes) right there if you wish?
Hard choices to make like most of the things we are faced with in life.
I have been in love before, like the irrational in love that boarders on insanity. I think that is one of the best and most incredible emotions we can feel in this lifetime. There is no way an SP is ever going to give me that sort of a feeling.
Is it worth it? To each their own. My first marriage cost me a lot when it ended and it was a catastrophic amount of money but what really hurt is the emotional pain of feeling like I failed at life in some way.
I think so long as a person remains grounded and keeps themselves in check, then this hobby on either side is okay. It’s when a person can’t stop that things get complicated.
The comedian Patrice O’Neil used to joke about how woman can just point at their crotch and yell incoherently and a guy will eventually show up. A man needs to be smooth and polished to sweet talk his way into getting the girl.
This invaluable social skill is extremely difficult and takes a lot of practice, some more than others. Once someone is out of practice, it’s can become path of least resistance. If trying to meet people naturally keeps failing, why keep trying to learn to master social interactions when $$$ can do the talking in place of the learned social skill? Plus the $$$ will probably get a top shelf woman that would be perhaps very difficult to be had in a normal social setting.
The same could be said for woman that get into this world as a provider. I know of one girl making $40,000 a month and wanted to quit, and did....
.... but her great job at $80,000 a year was just too far backwards and a year later, she was back at it.
Why go through all the time consuming training and stress of trying to build a business or career when there is a job paying 5 times as much (10 times if your not paying taxes) right there if you wish?
Hard choices to make like most of the things we are faced with in life.
I have been in love before, like the irrational in love that boarders on insanity. I think that is one of the best and most incredible emotions we can feel in this lifetime. There is no way an SP is ever going to give me that sort of a feeling.
Is it worth it? To each their own. My first marriage cost me a lot when it ended and it was a catastrophic amount of money but what really hurt is the emotional pain of feeling like I failed at life in some way.
I think so long as a person remains grounded and keeps themselves in check, then this hobby on either side is okay. It’s when a person can’t stop that things get complicated.
Great post. I can offer some harsh truth but my personal experience. A close friend became involved with an SP who eventually quit because he gave her an out.
They met while she was in the business so neither could chastise the other. Did it work out?
In this case yes. Both are extremely happy and are incredibly close with each other. It’s like they legitimately found each other. Neither of them admit to how they met or their previous behaviour.
Had they met outside of this environment and then she had to disclose, it’s hard to say. My friend struggled with her work for a while but eventually got over it. The woman also had a very safe place for him to vent and get clarity. When he would get upset, she would be extremely patient and understanding and reassured him that she really loves him and that her past was an act, not the truth.
It’s been 3 years now and they’re doing well.
I think the best way to move into the civ world is disclose it when you feel it’s right. Not too soon but not late either.
A famous line I always used was to frame a scenario that was about me but not about me to gauge the other party’s response. It’s sort of a silly thing to do but it can make the process easier if you can gauge how your response may be taken.
“My friend Jenny use to be a cam-girl and made a lot of money. Now that she quit, she’s asking me how to bring this up with guys she’s meeting. Crazy huh? What do you think?”
If the person says “Oh that’s no big deal, I used to suck some dick on camera to pay for my degree....” then you’re probably safe to bring up your situation.
If they say something like “Ohhhhh.... wow, yeah, she needs to go to church and repent for the next 10 years...” then it’s likely safe to say its going to be an uphill battle.
There are also surprises in life. I never planned the life I have, or the people in it, or this hobby, but I’m incredibly grateful for all of it. I wouldn’t lie about your past but I wouldn’t advertise it either.
Just one guys response.
That's very disappointing, as I enjoy your unbridled Posts ! ?
What's changed in the Payment options ?
It been a while since I've been in Red . LOL ?
Mr Q.
I love working girls.
There are several hundreds who I have seen just once.
There are numerous favourites over many years.
There are those with whom I have long-standing connections.
There are those who are friends.
There are the newer ones, some mature and some young.
This old guy has had the best sex life one can imagine.
The stories are many.
As long as I can, I will.
I love working girls.
There are several hundreds who I have seen just once.
There are numerous favourites over many years.
There are those with whom I have long-standing connections.
There are those who are friends.
There are the newer ones, some mature and some young.
This old guy has had the best sex life one can imagine.
The stories are many.
As long as I can, I will.
I love working girls.
Unless you are a SP on Leo whose age has not changed in 8 years, or sometimes gotten less.
