Tips!!! ... When to tip ? How much ? and gifts ?

[Luckylou555]

I did a quick search and didn't see anything on this topic ..If there is a detailed thread please hook me up ..I usually tip my SP at least 12% or more and most times I will bring a small gift bag as an added little bonus ..Fresh fruit and veggies from my little orchard /garden, Fresh prawns or salmon when in season ,gift cards, New books because she likes to read..more or lees stuff she likes ..so far no lingerie but im sure it will happen one day soon ..Really what is a realistic amount and when should you tip? I usually add the tip in the donation when we first meet ..Last time I totally forgot to pay from the start ..we were busy yakking away and I totally forgot ..She graciously didn't say anything and I remembered while we were making out ..hahaha me balls deep ..I said to her that I forgot to pay her ..She laughed and said no problem ..she wasn't worried about me and said it does happen from time to time ..A few of her regular clients she had to text back after they had left .After we finished I quickly paid and added a bit extra ..Very professional of her and no awkward moments .She is a regular and treats me well ...Im sure when seeing a new SP things would be alot different as well ..
I have seen Independents SP state their sizes and links to what they like on their websites.. Ladies lets hear your thoughts opinions and stories ..thanks fro sharing

 

[raymann]

I have a habit of bringing a box of chocolate, whenever visiting a working lady. I think it's a nice gesture, everyone likes chocolate and it helps break the ice faster. As for tipping, I only do that when I feel that she's going above and beyond of normal level of service; I think this part is really universal. You tip when the service is good, and the amount depends on how much you're impressed.

 

[Corym]

Hmmm , if the SP advertises what she likes in terms of a gift than I may be inclined to bring it over.

I think being a gentleman during the initial contact, session and afterwards is the best gift.

Cory

 

[nomis2013]

I dont tip because this is already a very expensive hobby. But i do my best to make sure she enjoys it as much as I do

 

[take8easy]

I tip moderately. I usually avoid seeing SP's whose Wish List includes list of 100 luxury items.

If I like an SP, I repeat her again and again. There's my tip.

IF I tip, usually it is not more than 10% to the maximum of $20. I just can not afford more than that. Sorry.
Only way I feel compelled to tip is when I feel that the SP is charging a below her market price. I am not going to name her, but I have reviewed her extensively and I always felt she was charging way below her worth. But now she is charging a decent amount. I tipped her whatever I could afford. (You know who you are babe.)

I have been told that as soon as I post a (positive) review, her phones start to ring. There.... I rest my case.

 

[BigCgaijin]

Well we could go back to what TIPS actually mean. To insure prompt service. So one would pay the maitre d‘ some cash to make sure you got to your table quickly instead of waiting in the line. Therefore the tip was paid ahead of time. Then the promptness of the waiter came in to play. Getting your meal and your service fast again paying ahead of time. Then getting to the airport on time, getting your bags fast from the ship etc etc.
In Canada tips has been transformed in to “friendly“ service for the most part along with a million interpretations of “good” service. I think giving an SP a tip is a little crass in theory as I prefer bringing a present she would enjoy, appreciate, or find quirky just like I would with any other date or relationship. Even though I know full well this is a service industry, I think it’s a little deeper of a relationship.

 

[Theguyfromvictoria]

For a well known provider I will bring her a bottle of wine of her choosing. If she cares to share, great. If not, that’s ok too. But in my little mind i like to ‘think’ I get better service through the appearance of being a gentleman up front ...

 

[Andrew69913]

I tip moderately. I usually avoid seeing SP's whose Wish List includes list of 100 luxury items.

If I like an SP, I repeat her again and again. There's my tip.

IF I tip, usually it is not more than 10% to the maximum of $20. I just can not afford more than that. Sorry.
Only way I feel compelled to tip is when I feel that the SP is charging a below her market price. I am not going to name her, but I have reviewed her extensively and I always felt she was charging way below her worth. But now she is charging a decent amount. I tipped her whatever I could afford. (You know who you are babe.)

I have been told that as soon as I post a (positive) review, her phones start to ring. There.... I rest my case.

Like you I will tip if the SP is charging less than the average girl, yet is providing the same services. I will tip to bring up the amount that an average visit would cost. That is all. A personal gift once in awhile if we get along really well.

 

[Metaxa]

The vast majority, especially among the high end women, claim it is a profession and they are professionals. When was the last time you tipped a professional in any other profession? When was the last time your doctor, lawyer, dentist etc gave you a wish list? I used to tip but no more. I will bring a regular a gift now and again though.

 

[steverino]

My guess is from the ladies perspective the best tip, like in most businesses, is to provide recommendations/reviews. Even if you don't write a public review, sending a note to those who you think would enjoy her services works as well.

 

[PierreCoeur]

I dont tip because this is already a very expensive hobby. But i do my best to make sure she enjoys it as much as I do

What a gentleman!

 

[PierreCoeur]

The vast majority, especially among the high end women, claim it is a profession and they are professionals. When was the last time you tipped a professional in any other profession? When was the last time your doctor, lawyer, dentist etc gave you a wish list? I used to tip but no more. I will bring a regular a gift now and again though.

I give my dentist stock tips all the time. He in return provides me extra freezing.

Moral of this story or tip of the day is bring someone a gift even when they are professionals because everyone deserves the appreciation.

Money tips save for your restaurant servers but please 10 and 15% is just wrong these days. 20% minimum and higher if you can.

 

[Metaxa]

I give my dentist stock tips all the time. He in return provides me extra freezing.

That’s not a tip. It’s a quid pro quo.

 

[PierreCoeur]

That’s not a tip. It’s a quid pro quo.

Don't go Donald Trump on me!

 

[take8easy]

One scenario where I will definitely consider tipping is if it is an agency or a micro like set up. But only if I m happy with the service.

 

[vanblue]

I have tipped for a great session.....and for getting much more than was on the menu and for a great attitude.

 

[Andrew69913]

I have tipped for a great session.....and for getting much more than was on the menu and for a great attitude.

Even if she charges $500 before any "extras"? (God I hate the very idea of extras, especially when considering a GFE lol). We are getting in to the range of "you better be damn sure you can make me orgasm for that much"...I'm talking Oscar winning performance here! Which we all know usually is not what you are dealing with. I've never been fortunate enough for an SP to go outside of her normal routine. I have a couple of regulars, well known and reviewed ladies in Winnipeg. They are comfortable enough with me to tell me all about their personal lives, relationships, kids, parents, whatever..which I would NEVER discuss with anyone so forget the DM's guys lol...but go outside the menu of her own volition? I think that's a rare relationship!!!

 

[blakealridge]

Tip if you can. That’s it really.

as for gifts, check out what the provider is interested in by paying attention to her social media (which you’ve probably done anyways while choosing which you’re going to spend time with). For example I love plants and clients have been bringing me plants lately!

 

[Dick Ford]

I figure with the amount I'm spending, an extra $20 bill or 2 in the envelope is no hardship and at the very least shows a modicum of appreciation for all the bullshit most SPs put up with.
I am always shocked, though, to hear from providers that most clients rarely tip. Don't people tip waiters? Hairdressers?

 

[take8easy]

I figure with the amount I'm spending, an extra $20 bill or 2 in the envelope is no hardship and at the very least shows a modicum of appreciation for all the bullshit most SPs put up with.
I am always shocked, though, to hear from providers that most clients rarely tip. Don't people tip waiters? Hairdressers?

Do you tip doctors, lawyers, physios etc too? They put up with lots of ... bullshit, so to speak.

I usually tip 20 max. My way of appreciation is being respectful to them and give them a good review (based on their good service) and repeat them again.

A $20 bill (or two ) might not seem much to the person who has a heavier wallet than many average Joes who have to save to indulge once in a while.

You might disagree to that, and that's totally fine.