do you believe when a sp tells you youre packing

[ssj4]

When you see a sp, do you believe them when they say youre large down there.. or do you think its part of the job and they tell everyone that?

Also, for the larger hobbyists have you ever run into problems with sps not being able to handle it or hsve their perdormance hindered because of your blessing which could also be a curse at times?

 

[JimDandy]

When you see a sp, do you believe them when they say youre large down there.. or do you think its part of the job and they tell everyone that?

Also, for the larger hobbyists have you ever run into problems with sps not being able to handle it or hsve their perdormance hindered because of your blessing which could also be a curse at times?

SPs are always telling me I need to take an ice bath just prior to their visit or I'm just to large for them to handle. I do it, because I don't want them to be uncomfortable, but I really must admit I'm not a big fan of ice baths. Does anyone have any advice on alternative solution?

JD

 

[islander1-1]

Good one... This might prove to be an interesting thread... I am sure all guys are concerned about their size, but are aware that most ladies will tell them "Its not the size of the meat its the motion!" As we get older and finally figure this out (some time too late) there is less concern for it, but usually the envy of a guy with a big dick is still there. As soon as they let me out, I have a date with one of my fave SPs and this guy with a 9 1/2 incher. The last time with this guy, the SP I was with says .. "I gotta try this." She DT's him.... and says... "Nope Can't do it. thats a first!"

Nice start ssj4 for a newbie here.. Are you packin or not?

 

[johnnydepth]

Nope, don't think I have anything special. According to those suveys by sex researchers, condom manufacturers, etc... I am slightly larger than average for a black guy. Maybe one or two ladies over the years have commented on size, but it's far from being huge. Looks on the other hand... I could have been a dildo model.

 

[Newb808]

I’ve heard that line from every SP as well as all but one civilian I’ve encountered. I know I’m above average in length and especially girth. I don’t think it’s anything to be proud of and it, especially the girth, is actually a hindrance. Deep throat, Greek(so far turned down outright by 5/6 greek advertisers) and even deep penetrative vaginal sex are often curtailed by ladies’ comfort limitations, especially asian/petite SPs. Of course it is nice when an accommodating lady takes it all whether that be on a first try or or after a few visits.

I know I’m big and also know I’m nothing special in bed too lol. Would rather be somewhere in between...

 

[Fullhouse]

I have never had an SP comment about me packing, --- but I have been told a couple of times to 'start packing'.

 

[EuroSZabina]

Please take the compliments by a lady if she compliments and you are not sure if she tells you the truth or not.
Nothing makes me feel worse when I compliment and you say respond to it "oh you say that to all the boys".
Please please don't do that. Take the compliment and thank the lady.

 

[Luv_Kitty]

I have never had an SP comment about me packing, --- but I have been told a couple of times to 'start packing'.

Lol :heh:

 

[milemiles]

I was with a couple of girls in a short time hotel in Bangkok, and when we got undressed in the shower, one of them takes me in her hand, and says, "oh good, small" (my height is 6'2") I started laughing, and she goes, "no, medium! Medium!"

 

[PoorGuy]

"You're big for an Asian guy"

Yes so I am 5.1" compared to the average 5" for Asians.

 

[Westcoast1]

Being on the larger side is not all that great at times.
Having someone being uncomfortable and seeing some pain on true face is a mood killer.
I have found a few regulars that like it and can take the size.
I’m not a freak but I have also had certain providers say, no not going to work.
You have to be compatible.

 

[cruefan]

Please take the compliments by a lady if she compliments and you are not sure if she tells you the truth or not.
Nothing makes me feel worse when I compliment and you say respond to it "oh you say that to all the boys".
Please please don't do that. Take the compliment and thank the lady.

Actually I always say that I am sure you say that to everyone when I hear something overly complimentary.

Most providers often tell you everything that a client wants to hear to keep them happy in hopes of possible return visits.

 

[lukom]

I don't always get told that from all SPs. However when I do it's from ones that are more on the petite and short side. I'm roughly 5'6", and I'm roughly 6.5 inches, so with my below average height and slightly above average length I may appear big to a lady who's 5'1. Just before the pandemic I had a session with a lady who was telling me she likes doggy usually but wanted to start with cowgirl first cause she feels everything during doggy and she said I was too big to start that way. I smirked, took the compliment but knew that I don't have anything worth bragging about.

 

[604jbear]

I've had a number of ladies (both SP and legitimate masseuses) comment that I have a cute butt! :tickled_pink:

 

[Correct]

I've had a few SP's, and several girlfriends tell me that I am bigger than average. While flattering for them to say, I don't actually believe it, unless it was a girlfriend who was very inexperienced. But I just say thanks, and continue, because I am not delusional enough to really believe that I am well endowed.

 

[ssj4]

Wheres the self confidence mate?

 

[PuntMeister]

Yes.

(Animal metaphors were used).

Didn’t matter if it was a line or an honest observation.

Some things feel good, even if your not quite sure.

Embrace the mystery.

 

[ssj4]

What animal?

 

[hedgeman]

nope, I am average, and ok with it, I'm not huge nor do I expect them to butter me up and lie and say that I am

 

[BobbyMcgee]

so, someone says “hey you are tall”, i’m 6’4, i don’t say Thank You, as me being that height has nothing to do with me my personality confidence nor accomplishments. it’s just a physical attribute. like oh you are bald. oh you have very green eyes. all weird to be honest as nobody did anything to acquire this feature. now, hey you are really fit. hey, i really like your hair style...different story. size of member, big deal, unless you are doing length and girth lifting somehow