I know what my experiences are but I am eager to see what you guys say.
Do you let the SP know before you CIM?
Do you let the SP know before you CIM?
Do you let the SP know before you CIM?
- Thread starter VanessainVictoria
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Only a complete jerk would not let his partner know.
I gather there are a lot around, unfortunately.
I gather there are a lot around, unfortunately.
A clamp down?
Spit it back in his face?
Seriously, do you make it very clear before the deed you want warning?
If a guy does something to an SP that she did not approve of or consent to in my opinion he has made himself fair game for her to deal with him as she pleases.
I warn people about 95% of the time. Sometimes I forget and it seems like thats the day I get a CIM'er. I have thought about the spitback but that seems too aggressive. I have also thought about requesting an additional fee.
That really is your choice of you do, but what is your objective? Is there more of a backstory you can provide to this incident? It wouldn't be unreasonable to also post about him in the PSA section.
I wonder the same thing. What is my objective? Ultimately, I do not want any confrontation. I usually make a note that a client has CIM'd and I either do not see them again or be extra sure to mention that CIM is a no-no the next time they book. Only one time has a client ever CIM'd after I requested that they do not. I never thought of reporting him.:gossip:
I would let all new clients know during your screening process, your choice how you deal with a repeat client, personally I think asking for money seems “cheap”, let him know how you feel, if he is a “good guy” he will be very apologetic and hopefully up the tip or bring something extra the next visit...
I sure do. It is polite and more fun if she knows its coming..I also request that if I do happen to find the right spot on her, that she tells me "right there" and if she is gonna cum, I ask her to let me know as well, so I stay on the right spot. Sometimes I can tell if she is about to orgasm by the engorging of her breasts and the clutching on the sheets as her body rises and then melts afterwards. Anticipation is part of the fun.
I just don't understand how anyone can do something without at least having previously discussed it. In this case its a form of assault. Lets say you were to confront him, how would you do so? A text telling him what happened was not okay and that in the future he should talk about what he has in mind and having consent from the SP before doing anything?
My experience with CIM:
Girls in almost ALL of the situations have indicated that they are ok with it. Them bringing their mouth closer to it as they see me building up, or just saying it explicitly that they want me to ........ you know.
I have never had to let her know that I am going to unload my gun in her mouth. The other party has always been very muh willing to accept it. Started with Cherise, then Jewel and then ........... the list goes on.
I am not stating the obvious here, but things get better with repeat visits.
Now, here is the flip side of things. I came in this ATF of my mouth, she quickly snuck up beside me and started to kiss me with her mouth still oozing with it. I almost threw up. Weird eh?
Girls in almost ALL of the situations have indicated that they are ok with it. Them bringing their mouth closer to it as they see me building up, or just saying it explicitly that they want me to ........ you know.
I have never had to let her know that I am going to unload my gun in her mouth. The other party has always been very muh willing to accept it. Started with Cherise, then Jewel and then ........... the list goes on.
I am not stating the obvious here, but things get better with repeat visits.
Now, here is the flip side of things. I came in this ATF of my mouth, she quickly snuck up beside me and started to kiss me with her mouth still oozing with it. I almost threw up. Weird eh?
Hmmmm so it was during bbbj? It's hard to predict sometimes if thats the case. For some reason I pictured something outrageous like him ready to bust during FS and catching you off guard by pulling out and going in your mouth. Whatever the case it's worth asking him if he deliberately came in your mouth or if that was unintentional advising that you don't offer it as a service and if you did youd expect a heads up along with there being a service charge (for example). Leave it up to him to apologize and offer to tip you another or avoid seeing him down the road if he tries to book with you again.
I will only give a provider CIM if she explicitly and clearly tells me she wants it. If there's even a hint of hesitation, I won't do it.
What provider is ever going to say she wants it. Thats some big time wishful thinking. At best she might tolerate it but thats one horny gal who actually wants it.
I've had girlfriends that seemed happy to swallow a load but I didn't dare ask is they actually liked it because I didn't want to ruin a good thing.
I've had girlfriends that seemed happy to swallow a load but I didn't dare ask is they actually liked it because I didn't want to ruin a good thing.
I appreciate your understanding.
I have a tendency to go off spontaneously and always ask before we start.
