I am not sure if 'annoyed' is the right word. Each sp has her own 'preferences.'
A lot depends on the situations. I have had advance bookings standing me up and same one two hour advance bookings being fruitful.
My conclusion is, nothing is guaranteed in this business. I have had a VERY reputable SP cancel long term booking 90 minutes before the schedule and some reputable, extremely popular, busy SP accommodate me on an 60 minutes notice (Thank you Dani Daneh).
I have had Yujin cancel on me on 60 minute notice leaving a bad taste in my mouth. But she contacted me over a month later offering me a FREE session. Talk about class!
On the same token, advance bookings have been right on the spot case in point my duo with beautiful Azalea and Georgia was planned over ten days ahead and things went smoother than their thighs. Ok, sorry, no, nothing is smoother than their thighs! But you know what I am saying.
Also, this 'preference' does not define class of an SP. Jewel, from what I know, prefers same day bookings and she is one of the loveliest women I have ever met.