Is anyone poonig these days? In other words what is in demand out there in Nanaimo?

[Miss Hunter]

The assumption that men paying $300/hr and up are “happily” paying it couldn’t be further from the truth. They pay it because they have to. The price has nothing to do with demand. It’s a pride thing and nothing else. When one SP sees another popular SP charging more, that SP’s price goes up to keep up with the Jones’ and to save face.

The condescension about sex being a luxury is crazy. Let me ask you this : how much education and post secondary schooling does one need to become an escort? None. Just the will and desire to get naked with random men. I guess that’s a luxury that requires the same pay rate tax free of that of a lawyer or doctor.

How many doctors or lawyers quit within the first year? Only a minority last in this industry long term. The potential to make an income comparable to a career that requires a decade of schooling...yet so many cant stick with it, that speaks volumes.

Not saying it's a terrible job, but sure it isn't an easy job.

 

[westwoody]

The condescension about sex being a luxury is crazy.

It is a luxury.

These price threads always end up with the same guys saying the same things, and telling women how to run their business.

 

[Smoothmover]

I'm simply saying the woman is the one who decides what value she places on intimacy. Be it monetary or otherwise. The man, or ...men, can step up or go elsewhere.

But in this case, That same woman is complaining that business is slow (and apparently she can’t understand why) (And PS, apparently we ARE going elsewhere)

What advice would YOU offer her in this situation?

 

[Miss Hunter]

But in this case, That same woman is complaining that business is slow (and apparently she can’t understand why) (And PS, apparently we ARE going elsewhere)

What advice would YOU offer her in this situation?

The definition of “slow” is subjective...some want multiple sessions a day, every day. Some are happy with a handful a week. Some even less. Lifestyle also comes into play.

My advice, take it or leave it, ... do whatever you’re comfortable doing with whoever you’re comfortable doing it with for whatever value you’re comfortable providing it for. Then budget your spending accordingly.

But when it comes to maximum income, I am not the person to give advice. I am happiest with a modest but steady income and peace of mind.

 

[Smoothmover]

The definition of “slow” is subjective...some want multiple sessions a day, every day. Some are happy with a handful a week. Some even less. Lifestyle also comes into play.

My advice, take it or leave it, ... do whatever you’re comfortable doing with whoever you’re comfortable doing it with for whatever value you’re comfortable providing it for. Then budget your spending accordingly.

Which is more/less what we are saying here...

Perhaps lower your rates and/OR increase your levels of service

Everybody knows a girl can charge whatever she wants but at the end of the day they need to understand that it’s all going to come down to rates and service. Use your rates and your services as a lever to control your volume/revenue. When you are happy with the volume/revenue you are receiving, then you know you have adjusted your levers correctly in terms of rates and services, If you are not happy, then an adjustment may be required...

 

[European flair]

I have a box of Kleenex, feel free to wipe your tears or what's left from your jack off hand.

This is not a voice nor opinion.This is disrespectful ,rude sarcastic suggestion that insults many individual feelings.
I did not have attention to heart anyone's feelings ,just gave you 2 options but you decided to recognize yourself as a perpetrator.
Self-reflection was what you did in your second reply,everything you denied it is true, otherwise you would not react at all.
Apparently, world wide , only in your business, costumer feedback is not welcomed .....and I am well aware of it, therefore please do not bring your expertise in question because just like my ex spouse, you care about my budget not my needs.6 months ago when I gave you chance to shine and show me what you got, you failed ,I had you under any budget ...so cheap $ 130. So keep living in denial and keep laughing.

 

[johnnydepth]

I haven't seen an escort in years; several factors why. I've tried everything I can think of that I wanted. The selection had become less than desirable in several ways. Price wise, the juice wasn't worth the squeeze. L.E. becoming more strict.
Would I see someone in the future? Maybe but she would have to be very enticing.

 

[European flair]

You may not be trying to “White Knight” but your post is exactly what White Knighting is...(and it’s obvious....) so congrats

I love this one.Straight in the bull eye.

 

[Miss Hunter]

I love this one.Straight in the bull eye.

Vanessa is one of the rare ones who has managed longevity in this industry while keeping her head straight. I feel her opinions are valuable. And I think this is just a case of white knighting. She’s strong enough to stand up for herself. So what if another poster is jumping in, he’s merely stating his opinion

 

[Forum mod]

Here we go again.

This topic has been beaten to death, over and over.

Either pay or don't, but the ladies charge whatever they like and it's the height of asinine male privilege to think you can dictate rates to the ladies.