There has always been a double standard, and still is.
Rape a boy, no big deal...but if it happened to a girl its an outrage....same goes for robbery, assault, or whatever. I learned that at a really young age.
I think most men learned decades ago they are considered dispensable and unimportant by the masses in our society. Sure some people don't think that way, but most do.
Look and see how many women's shelters exist, and then look for the mens shelters...that pretty much tells you how society views us. The elementary school teacher who was gay and raping us boys in school didn't even lose his job when the principal was told. Imagine the outrage if he had raped girls though. I've come to accept that this is the reality of our society, and just keep moving on.
Apples to oranges man. There are more women's shelters because there are more women victims. And unless you're in your 20s, teachers raping children was swept under the rug more frequently regardless of gender of the victim.
Here's the thing you're not getting: it takes a LOT of systematic victimisation for outrage to hit critical mass. The sheer quantity of victimisation of women and minorities has reached the boiling point. It's not a double standard. It's a threshold of societal indifference that's been crossed for them, but not for us yet.
Clearly it's not an all or nothing situation. You're complaining about it. JB is complaining about it. There are less people complaining because there are less victims to "trigger". It's not rocket science.
If you complained that you feel dehumanised because "your kind" is being portrayed as disposable in the plot of some movie, most women and minorities would probably say "take a number."
Anyway my point of view: don't like it? Don't watch it. Not everything is made with you in mind as the audience. Same thing I'd say to people outraged by Grand Theft Auto or Game of Thrones or the Joker or ...