How Long Should I Wait For an SP to Respond!?

Miss Hunter

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Expecting an escort to respond in a certain amount of time does come across as a bit entitled. Sometimes they are busy working . If on a sleepover date may not look at phone for a few hours . May be also be on personal time .
The thing to remember all the ladies will prioritize date lengths . They can receive up to 50 requests every time an ad is posted . Half Hour or Hour dates will be ignored if longer dinner dates or overnights are offered. So you want her attn . Offer up a longer date and she will probably respond asap when she is finished with current client or back on shift .
A shorter date in her eyes is kinda like , meh. Even if you seen her a couple times.
I don't feel the OP's question comes across as entitled. Your response, on the other hand, does come across snobby. If you aren't into shorter bookings that's fine but no reason to look down on your nose about them.

Plenty of providers happily accommodate shorter bookings on short notice. And for many clients, that's the only way they can see ladies due to hectic work schedules, and family responsibilities.

edit; Actually I should have said look down your nose at the short booking crowd all you want, but your comment "a shorter date in her eyes is kinda like, meh. Even if you seen her a couple times" is nonsense. Sure many ladies prefer the longer date realm, but that doesn't apply to everyone.

Btw...I don't know the OP, I'm just speaking up because although I'm in the advance prebooking realm, for my own personal reasons. I will happily provide shorter sessions until the day I exit the industry. When I check my messages, I'm not looking for the highest bidder. I'm accepting the sessions that give me the most peace of mind.
 

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Expecting an escort to respond in a certain amount of time does come across as a bit entitled. Sometimes they are busy working . If on a sleepover date may not look at phone for a few hours . May be also be on personal time .
The thing to remember all the ladies will prioritize date lengths . They can receive up to 50 requests every time an ad is posted . Half Hour or Hour dates will be ignored if longer dinner dates or overnights are offered. So you want her attn . Offer up a longer date and she will probably respond asap when she is finished with current client or back on shift .
A shorter date in her eyes is kinda like , meh. Even if you seen her a couple times.
I don't think you understood what I was asking. They are busy, of course they are. They have lives, jobs, commitments. My only question is how long do I wait for them to respond before I approach another one. Simple. :) My concern is would it offend them if they approach me say after a certain time and I have already set something up with another SP.

Again, usually this situation arises when I have to set up something on a shorter (a day or so) notice because of my job.

Also, thanks for Ms Hunter for chiming in. :) I wanted to hear from an SP.
 

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I don't think you understood what I was asking. They are busy, of course they are. They have lives, jobs, commitments. My only question is how long do I wait for them to respond before I approach another one. Simple. :) My concern is would it offend them if they approach me say after a certain time and I have already set something up with another SP.

Again, usually this situation arises when I have to set up something on a shorter (a day or so) notice because of my job.

Also, thanks for Ms Hunter for chiming in. :) I wanted to hear from an SP.
Not trying to sound like a giant suck up, but Ms. Hunter always has great posts. While I admit that we often have differing opinions on a topic, I still enjoy her posts, and the well written opinions she shares.
I should also mention that I agree with her 100% this time.
 

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I don't feel the OP's question comes across as entitled. Your response, on the other hand, does come across snobby. If you aren't into shorter bookings that's fine but no reason to look down on your nose about them.

Plenty of providers happily accommodate shorter bookings on short notice. And for many clients, that's the only way they can see ladies due to hectic work schedules, and family responsibilities.

edit; Actually I should have said look down your nose at the short booking crowd all you want, but your comment "a shorter date in her eyes is kinda like, meh. Even if you seen her a couple times" is nonsense. Sure many ladies prefer the longer date realm, but that doesn't apply to everyone.

Btw...I don't know the OP, I'm just speaking up because although I'm in the advance prebooking realm, for my own personal reasons. I will happily provide shorter sessions until the day I exit the industry. When I check my messages, I'm not looking for the highest bidder. I'm accepting the sessions that give me the most peace of mind.
What the heck, Snobby?
I was merely pointing out to the OP why an Escort may not respond right away. Never assume Hunter as I have zero problems with guys or girls doing 30-60 mins dates. To each their own.
Now I did say ALL, should have used the word MANY girls will and do prioritize date lengths . That does not mean ladies will not do or enjoy shorter dates . That would be goofy . Many just prefer the financial benefits and perks of longer date lengths if available . I think you should reread my post a couple times before assuming and twisting around my words .
And yes if a lady has the opportunity to choose between a 60 min date and make 300 ish . Or a 4 hour date and make 1k including a nice dinner out , pleasant convo, and a bit of spoiling which do you honestly think most will choose.
Some like yourself may not offer full escort services, that's your choice and I respect it. Just like its many ladies choices are to do so and most def will prioritize longer dates. It's often why you read on here and other boards why a lady ghosted, no showed or cancelled . Barring any sort of disaster it generally means she got a better offer or current date was extended.
Your entitled to your opinion but please don't come on here twisting words and stirring the pot as it serves no purpose.
Good luck to the OP and most def no judgement intended towards you . Was just trying to offer up a bit of advice if having a difficult time arranging something on short notice . Hope you can find what your looking for :)
 
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