Just missed a session...

[splatzeld]

I pride myself on being a good client, was always on time, gifts, tips, etc.

Had a session booked today in an area I don't know well. Left early to make sure I had enough time, then a transit problems strike, my pre-planned route is thrown out the window, and being possibly the worst person in the world with directions I have no idea how to make my way back to the location. Phone won't get Internet.

Get home, check email, this well reviewed SP is rightfully calling me a time waster and already on social media about it. Can't blame her since basically her experience with me was negative and she doesn't have counterexamples to know that it was an exception.

Feels bad man, any tips on how to approach this to establish some credibility? I haven't seen this person before but have wanted to for a while..

 

[Miss Hunter]

I forgive you.

 

[Silverpooner]

Data plan!

 

[clu]

Feels bad man, any tips on how to approach this to establish some credibility?

Pay her for her time you wasted in the session you didn't have.

 

[felixthecat]

Feels bad man, any tips on how to approach this to establish some credibility? I haven't seen this person before but have wanted to for a while..

Money would help, obviously. If you are typically respectful of other people's time, it won't bankrupt you to compensate for the time and costs that were wasted because of you once in a rare while.

I'd apologize and ask how much to send her for her troubles. Not mentioning any future meetings or any other conditions. Then I'd send her what she asks. You could check her cancellation policy if published, but that may not reflect what she would consider fair. As SPs cannot collect effectively, they may go with what's realistic vs. what they consider fair.

If she asked for too much (in my subjective opinion, for example her full rate), I'd pay but would perceive her as greedy. No further business.
On the other hand, something like $100 for an hour appointment is a quite reasonable compensation, comparable to incall costs etc. It's in line with the maximum no-show fee a lawyer or a dentist would ask, though some ask for less.

 

[Miss Hunter]

Pay her for her time you wasted in the session you didn't have.

It’s all good. This situation only wasted a bit of my time. In this case I was already at my workspace for a previous session. He should save the money to get himself a phone with data. I already told him he’s welcome to book again with another deposit in the future.

I actually ended up having 2 clients who paid deposits flake on me yesterday. I had another one booked for 615pm yesterday. I’m much more annoyed at this other guy because it was for GS. I stopped taking my b-complex vitamins days in advance so my system was properly flushed. From now on I’ll be collecting a higher deposit and charging a higher rate for any sessions involving GS because of the amount of preparation involved.

 

[JimDandy]

I have no idea what GS stands for, and since it involves the woman's diet, I'm pretty sure I don't want to know lol. Unless of course it will cause the woman to have bad breath and make dfk-ing unpleasant. But I don't think B complex vitamins give a woman bad breath

JD

 

[uncleg]

I pride myself on being a good client, was always on time, gifts, tips, etc.

Had a session booked today in an area I don't know well. Left early to make sure I had enough time, then a transit problems strike, my pre-planned route is thrown out the window, and being possibly the worst person in the world with directions I have no idea how to make my way back to the location. Phone won't get Internet.

Get home, check email, this well reviewed SP is rightfully calling me a time waster and already on social media about it. Can't blame her since basically her experience with me was negative and she doesn't have counterexamples to know that it was an exception.

Feels bad man, any tips on how to approach this to establish some credibility? I haven't seen this person before but have wanted to for a while..

I forgive you.

Since you are forgiven, give it another go. Just one piece of advice, unless it is freshly shaven with no stubble, don't let her near your junk with duct tape....

 

[angry anderson]

I have no idea what GS stands for, and since it involves the woman's diet, I'm pretty sure I don't want to know lol. Unless of course it will cause the woman to have bad breath and make dfk-ing unpleasant. But I don't think B complex vitamins give a woman bad breath

JD

Good Shit?
Gargle Swallow?
I'm stumped.

 

[Newb808]

Good Shit?
Gargle Swallow?
I'm stumped.

I don’t think I’m wrong:golden shower

 

[Flashmp]

So if an sp wastes my time should they pay me?

 

[Miss Hunter]

So if an sp wastes my time should they pay me?

What does this have to do with anything that happened in this situation? I have a deposit policy. I didn’t demand that he send any more money other than paying another deposit when he books again. I don’t think I’m being unreasonable.

And if anything ever goes wrong on my end and I had to cancel a session, I would refund the deposit.

 

[Miss Hunter]

I have no idea what GS stands for, and since it involves the woman's diet, I'm pretty sure I don't want to know lol. Unless of course it will cause the woman to have bad breath and make dfk-ing unpleasant. But I don't think B complex vitamins give a woman bad breath

JD

Good Shit?
Gargle Swallow?
I'm stumped.

I don’t think I’m wrong:golden shower

Newb808 is correct.

But when I do it, it’s more of a clear shower. I flush my system well.

B-Complex vitamins turn my pee a glowing yellow colour, and I find it smells nasty. Even if a client was a dirty freak who didn’t care I can’t do a session that way. The odour makes me gag uke:

It takes a few days to clear out the b-vitamins.