First timer questions

[flex_flexing]

Hi everyone,
I've decided to try this new hobby :heh: (first time with an SP, I'm not a virgin), and I'm thinking about seeing Belle @asianfever. Do you guys think she's a good choice (yes, I'm into asian girls)? Also, care to share whether or not I tip the girl? Should I do it at the end or before the session (I know the donation happens before)?

Thanks

 

[masterblaster]

I don't see why people refer to seeing an escort as a hobby. Far as I'm concerned a hobby is not something that is illegal, involves human trafficking on occasion and women being forced to do things against their will.

 

[cr_tallguy]

Hi everyone,
...Do you guys think she's a good choice (yes, I'm into asian girls)?
...Also, care to share whether or not I tip the girl? Should I do it at the end or before the session (I know the donation happens before)?

Thanks

I don't know Belle, so can't comment there. As for tipping, I'm told it's never expected, but I have found that if you click with the lady, a tip at the start of the session lets her know you are into her, and that can only be a good thing, IMHO. A tip after the session is also good if you plan on repeating - I have found it helps facilitate the scheduling of the follow-up appointment, again, based on my experience. In the end, regardless of how much you want to spend, it's the lady who decides if she'll see you again.

Welcome to PERB! Good luck!

 

[justwannahavefun]

Please explain why you recommend tipping beforehand- this seems odd to me...???

I also question tipping before hand. To me, a tip is a gift meant to express thank you for service above and beyond normal service. I don't go to a restaurant and get shitty service and tip if it is the servers fault. I also would not tip a lady for shitty service. If I have seen a lady before and know what I am going to get, then yes, I will tip before we start.

 

[justwannahavefun]

I don't see why people refer to seeing an escort as a hobby. Far as I'm concerned a hobby is not something that is illegal, involves human trafficking on occasion and women being forced to do things against their will.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hobby

 

[masterblaster]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hobby

And your point is?

 

[flex_flexing]

From wikipedia:

A hobby is a regular activity that is done for enjoyment, typically during one's leisure time.

Sounds about right :clap2:

 

[take8easy]

I think we are getting too technical with "if this is a hobby or not". What would you rather call it without being disrespectful to the ladies and their profession. So hobby sounds good to me.

Tipping: Being in this 'hobby' for a while now, I have done all the scenarios.

Tipping at the end: That's what I used to do at the start of this hobby and I have come back to it again at present.

Tipping at the start: I did that sort of after about year or so in the hobby. It is basically with expectation that the service will be better.

No Tipping: That's pretty much self-explanatory.

Presently, if I feel the need to, I tip at the end. I don't tip them all basically because a. the service was deserving, b. I am an old guy, and they say memory is the first thing to go.

I will say this for sure, I would prefer not to see an sp if her ad hints that she kind of expects a gift. Now, not many will say it straight up that a tip is expected but it doesn't take too much to get the hint. Then there are some that are very clear that they don't expect the tip at all (dont quote me on this, but I remember seeing that in Szabina's ad).

Now @op, since you are going to see an agency most likely, I think you should tip. I would tip a girl at micros and agencies if she earned it.

T8E

 

[justwannahavefun]

And your point is?

Just defining hobby

 

[masterblaster]

Just defining hobby

Unless I missed something I didn't see anything in the definition about hiring escorts (illegal), an activity in which women are trafficked and/or forced to do something against their will. Your idea of a hobby differs greatly from mine.

 

[johnnydepth]

Unless I missed something I didn't see anything in the definition about hiring escorts (illegal), an activity in which women are trafficked and/or forced to do something against their will. Your idea of a hobby differs greatly from mine.

I think a lot of the women on this forum would be offended by your view of escorts. just saying.
And for the record this most definitely fits the definition of hobby. Unless escorts are your only source of sexual activity I would consider it a hobby.

 

[justwannahavefun]

Unless I missed something I didn't see anything in the definition about hiring escorts (illegal), an activity in which women are trafficked and/or forced to do something against their will. Your idea of a hobby differs greatly from mine.

Different opinions is what makes the world go round round round!

 

[masterblaster]

I think a lot of the women on this forum would be offended by your view of escorts. just saying.
And for the record this most definitely fits the definition of hobby. Unless escorts are your only source of sexual activity I would consider it a hobby.

So if you were in a job interview and the question was asked. "What do you do for a hobby?" You would reply "Hire escorts"
I don't think so. End of discussion as to what is a hobby.

 

[flex_flexing]

I think we're moving away from the topic, how about we stick to Belle from asianfever (yes, I've read the reviews) and tipping? :focus:

 

[johnnydepth]

So if you were in a job interview and the question was asked. "What do you do for a hobby?" You would reply "Hire escorts"
I don't think so. End of discussion as to what is a hobby.

OK. fair enough, you're entitled to your opinion. I also collect jars of urine, but wouldn't mention that at a job interview.
Now lets get back to your derogatory opinion of escorts. Where does that come from? or is it a general hatred of women?

 

[masterblaster]

OK. fair enough, you're entitled to your opinion. I also collect jars of urine, but wouldn't mention that at a job interview.
Now lets get back to your derogatory opinion of escorts. Where does that come from? or is it a general hatred of women?

I'm not seeing where I have a derogatory opinion of escorts. Perhaps your comprehension is lacking.

 

[jgg]

...I also collect jars of urine...

I have to ask. Why?

 

[johnnydepth]

I'm not seeing where I have a derogatory opinion of escorts. Perhaps your comprehension is lacking.

" hiring escorts (illegal), an activity in which women are trafficked and/or forced to do something against their will"

You seem to indicate they have no control over their life. They don't make their own decisions. Forced against their will?
Big blanket statement there. Confident many of the women on here would disagree with you. Clearly looks like a derogatory opinion to me.
But hey, I don't even know what a hobby is.
Great, now what do I do with all these jars of piss I have been collecting

 

[masterblaster]

" hiring escorts (illegal), an activity in which women are trafficked and/or forced to do something against their will"

You seem to indicate they have no control over their life. They don't make their own decisions. Forced against their will?
Big blanket statement there. Confident many of the women on here would disagree with you. Clearly looks like a derogatory opinion to me.
But hey, I don't even know what a hobby is.
Great, now what do I do with all these jars of piss I have been collecting

You've never heard of women being trafficked in this business or controlled by pimps that abuse them? Better have a reality check sometime.

 

[johnnydepth]

So anyways the urine I use to make scents and pheromones that I sell on the side. I normally would
Call it a hobby but hey. Anyway it's usually not my urine. Surprisingly lots of people willing to donate.