If you divulge that you're married on here, and also mention GB's and extras with escorts, you're setting your self up. It's just too easy. Best to keep that part private, you know, so people don't think you are an inconsiderate, disrespectful person. How's that your business, if you don't mind my asking?
Too easy? I don't get it. Akin to the old saying "when you point one finger at someone else, remember three are pointing back at you." this is an anonymous forum, why is there a necessity to belittle someone for something YOU decide is a character flaw. At the end of the day, the argument about putting other members in their place because of how vulgar their reviews are, is still pretty weak. Saying a poor review puts you off seeing an SP that you're "into" shows maybe you have a weak constitution. That's some beta male shit. Go get that pussy boy. Claim it. Read it a feminist bedtime story. Own the experience and if you like it, write you non-misogynistic non-detailed review with a rating out of 10. And if somebody chirps you for enjoying a lady, let it go. Tell you that much for free SDK.
Regarding not finishing when on with an SP - this has happened to me a bunch of times. Usually on the 2nd shot though. I'm pretty good at keeping my powder dry on the best of days, even with women I'm dating and TRYING to impress, but often the urge to "not finish too soon" fucks it up then you can't finish at all. It's all awkward like, fuck, replace this shitty condom. Suck my dick again, oh god how much time is left?! Also the adrenaline, or the awkwardness of being with an SP for the first time, if she isn't good at relaxing into the experience. Repeat visits often yielded far better results. I've learned, if it's your first time with an SP - just fucking let er fly - unless it's under 10 minutes of penetration. Hold off till the 10 minute mark, then if the urge comes along, let it go, let it go. :laser: Granted my first time visits with an SP are always 30 min, I have learned this lesson.
Smelly poon is the worst culprit though. If the poon is foul, get hard, go for a tight mish, bury your head in her neck and hair and get your rocks off quick.
1 last thing as well. I feel like MORE SPs need to keep lube around. The thing about condoms is the fucking friction. A little bit of lube gets the works in motion and makes it MUCH easier to finish.
my long winded 2 cents. I fucking hate condoms