I once had an SP I felt a connection with after our first (and only) encounter (only been with a few SP's).
She was older than me, probably 40's, but her small size and willing body and spirit made her one of the few I've often thought naughty thoughts about.
I could tell from when her alarm rang after our time was up (she actually had an alarm set) she wasn't anxious to end our session (she also was enjoying herself). She also was made sounds like she was enjoying it....I asked it she was just doing that on my behalf, and she assured me that was not the case. Mind you, at the time I was DATY. She asked if I wanted protection while she went down on me (69) and I declined. She still went ahead and gave me a bbbj.
After we were done, she seemed much "closer" to me, and was not concerned with getting the payment at the end (or at least her relaxed and pleased spirit made her seem that way).
Considering I'm paying for a service, I do not want the commitment of another intimacy partner.
She's only available in the summer and is somewhere in the west end.