I tend to swing,back and forth, from dating to this"hobby" and I have had "bests" and "worsts" on both sides. People are people, sometimes it all goes great, sometimes not so much. One of my best duo experiences was in this "hobby" but the rest were all with amateurs. Spontaneity goes a long way. As for nervous pretense, I am always nervous, no matter what, and I rather like it, and I must admit, I find first date jitters, displayed by women, adorable and irrisistable.
