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So there's this tall thin blonde girl in her mid twenties....and she's been kinda hanging around this beat up old cowboy.....helping with chores, cooking for me, and just spending time with me.
I've not seen one gold digger warning sign yet, and as a matter of fact, after a few weeks of playing around, I tried to run her off.
She hung around and put up with my bullshit, because it was just an act anyhow.....when I considered her leaving my life, maybe I wasn't too happy about it.
I mean.....this little cowgirl is freaking hot, and could have just about anybody she wants, but for some strange reason, she's wanting me.
Taking it real slow and easy for the moment....so nobody is moving in just yet.
I guess she figures the older the violin, the sweeter the music......but I'm seeing the age thing come into play when she's 40 , and I'm in my 60's.

Or am I just overthinking things?
 
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sybian said:
but I'm seeing the age thing come into play when she's 40 , and I'm in my 60's.

Or am I just overthinking things?
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Isn't that for her to decide? Besides... don't get ahead of yourself. One thing at a time, I say. :)
 
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sybian said:
So there's this tall thin blonde girl in her mid twenties....and she's been kinda hanging around this beat up old cowboy.....helping with chores, cooking for me, and just spending time with me.

Or am I just overthinking things?
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I don't think so. The sun is low and the winter is long and cold. It's good to have her around. Some times life is for the moment.
 
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That Palamino mare wont leave your corral for good reason your a 16 hand stud
 
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Oldschooler said:
Hey Sybian. I say go for it. Im in my mid 40s as well and have had a couple women in their 20s interested in me too in the past couple years. Like one of the other guys said its about maturity of the woman and how you get along. I think a lot of these younger girls are not used to guys from our generation who were taught to treat women with respect and dont act like a pig etc. Im lucky enough to be back in university full time in my 40s so Im around 20 something women all the time. Im friends with quite a few of them and I just can't beleive the guys they tell me about. Pretty much pussies who don't even know the meaning of work, mamas boys who live with their parents, little pretty boys with no balls. Im sure your lady friend is kinda intrigued by the fact you know how to treat women and act like a real man. If it doesnt work out, oh well youll still have the memories and you wont regret it I can assure you.
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You pretty much nailed it on the head.....which makes sense given your chosen handle Oldschooler.
 
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Give her permission to ride one horse, have one cock and two eggs, one or two spoonfuls of cream in return for two pots of milk and dinner the Y. I wouldn’t let her have the keys to the barn...,, yet. In other words, keep your ass (and you cock) covered.
 
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BobbyMcgee said:
unless she’s half your age and ultimately looking for half your farm...
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Half of a working ranch is half of a lot of hard work. Sybian says she's been around for a bit, so that must be obvious to her. She's still there.
 
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It feels good to be wanted. It feels great to be appreciated. It feels fantastic to be sexy. It's magic when one woman spawns all of those feelings...maybe see if this 'love-drunk' phase has any legs and evaluate daily. It's really easy to throw-open the barn door and say 'here!', and heartbreaking watching the farm from your rearview mirror. You're instincts are usually on-point, just listen to them and you'll be fine :)
 
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Sybian unfortunately the odds are not on your side for this to end happily ever after. Now after saying that there is a small percentage of these relationships that last but it is very small. l have a handful of friends that have tried this and one out of six is still together. The problem is people change once they get older both man and women ,most of these relationships lasted more than 10 years one less than 3. l will just say this, not one of them worked out well for the mans side. They all had lots to lose ,and when things went south it got very ugly and was decided by lawyers . Not saying this will happen to you , but my advise is proceed slowly once they move in BC laws are on her side not yours. Good luck hope all works out for both of you : )
 
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MissingOne said:
Half of a working ranch is half of a lot of hard work. Sybian says she's been around for a bit, so that must be obvious to her. She's still there.
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just a statement about asset protection and not “advice” that i’m pretty confident he doesn’t need
 
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tivad said:
Sybian unfortunately the odds are not on your side for this to end happily ever after. Now after saying that there is a small percentage of these relationships that last but it is very small. l have a handful of friends that have tried this and one out of six is still together. The problem is people change once they get older both man and women ,most of these relationships lasted more than 10 years one less than 3. l will just say this, not one of them worked out well for the mans side. They all had lots to lose ,and when things went south it got very ugly and was decided by lawyers . Not saying this will happen to you , but my advise is proceed slowly once they move in BC laws are on her side not yours. Good luck hope all works out for both of you : )
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PS if it flies ,floats or fucks rent it LOL
 
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tivad said:
Sybian unfortunately the odds are not on your side for this to end happily ever after. Now after saying that there is a small percentage of these relationships that last but it is very small. l have a handful of friends that have tried this and one out of six is still together. The problem is people change once they get older both man and women ,most of these relationships lasted more than 10 years one less than 3. l will just say this, not one of them worked out well for the mans side. They all had lots to lose ,and when things went south it got very ugly and was decided by lawyers . Not saying this will happen to you , but my advise is proceed slowly once they move in BC laws are on her side not yours. Good luck hope all works out for both of you : )
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BINGO and my 165 acre orchard knows this one all too well...
 
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sybian said:
So there's this tall thin blonde girl in her mid twenties....and she's been kinda hanging around this beat up old cowboy.....helping with chores, cooking for me, and just spending time with me.
I've not seen one gold digger warning sign yet, and as a matter of fact, after a few weeks of playing around, I tried to run her off.
She hung around and put up with my bullshit, because it was just an act anyhow.....when I considered her leaving my life, maybe I wasn't too happy about it.
I mean.....this little cowgirl is freaking hot, and could have just about anybody she wants, but for some strange reason, she's wanting me.
Taking it real slow and easy for the moment....so nobody is moving in just yet.
I guess she figures the older the violin, the sweeter the music......but I'm seeing the age thing come into play when she's 40 , and I'm in my 60's.

Or am I just overthinking things?
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If she really likes you or even loves you by now you can put her in every kind of test, she will put up with it because love is blind and she will stick around.
I think if you really like her not just because she's tall and blonde, but for many other reasons then you should just go with the flow and don't analyst he age differences.

I almost got married to a guy who was about 20 years older then me. Not for his money, because we were on about the same level.
I cared for him. A few years later it turned out that it was only a lust on my part and I wanted out. I could see the aging in him and I had a lot more energy then him.

I'm glad that you have it in your back of your head that what happens when you are in your 60's and she's 40. Who knows in your case...but that's what I keep thinking in my case and I will not get in a relationship like that at all. But that's me..
 
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Honestly if a lot more then any women did for me .
When they want to be around you that says a lot.
 
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