Aww thank you! Can't wait for my Vancouver trip
For me I will say again I reaaaaaally do not like young inexperienced/self absorbed (when it comes to sex) guys very much. I had never dated someone that much older than me before I started working, and now I much prefer gents in the 45-65 age range than 20-30 age range. I still find younger good looking guys to be the worst and the ones I've seen have treated me like an object, no respect at all, and couldn't care less about even being considerate. The type that wants to stare at themselves in the mirror or treat sex like a workout to get their calorie burn in lol. Yes I have seen some older men who were rude, but far less that have acted in such an off-putting way.
And I'm being really honest when I say that those who tend to know how to touch a woman the most are not any young studs who've hooked up with a lot of girls. I'm talking about the guys who are married, divorced or had many long term relationships and they're in that 45-65 year old range and really know the nuances of women. They know not every woman likes the same thing and they actually enjoy exploring a new lover and finding out what she responds best to. I like when we are dfking together, it's reciprocal and back and forth. Not just the types that want to inflict their dfk onto us which is what some hobbyists do seeing how far they can tongue our throats and get away with. lol
We all know that most men are visual and it's very important for them to be absolutely turned on to their partner physically and many don't care about their personality, intelligence, compassion, interest etc. Well as a woman it's not really the same for us. There is no super handsome, fit, charming, amazingly self sacrificing lover out there, so we have to be more realistic and appreciate a lot of other things than only looks. Looks can help if you have a lot of other good qualities too, but I have never ever just hooked up with someone just cuz they are hot with a terrible personality/attitude, and I wouldn't enjoy it all in my personal life.