Women can sense when a guys is getting laid.

[pro-boner]

Interesting thread.

In the past it seemed to be feast or famine for me. When I was dating, and having sex on a regular basis, I had girls on the go all the time, but then after, there would be long periods of nothing. I think that pheromones have a lot to do with it. Women unconsciously smell pussy on you and they are attracted.

There of course is nothing like the l have just been fucked by a beautiful women vibe that adds confidence to your demeanor. It matters little whether it is a compensated encounter or not, you still get the buzz, the pheromone load and the quiet confidence. Where I used to be downright chicken about engaging a gorgeous women in a casual conversation on the street, I do it all the time now, thanks ladies!

Also having some involvement with the ladies has also made me immune to being manipulated by a beautiful woman and women I am sure can sense the subtle push back. Their usual wiles do not seem to have the same effect on you as they would have years earlier or as they do on more needy men.

But this is just my experience and that of my pooning friends, as we have discussed this effect from time to time over the years

Regards,

Pb

BTW. I am no movie star to look at but I do try to take care of myself and make myself look as acceptable as possible, given the raw material I have been given to work with. LOL

 

[Officeguy]

Badbadboy you are soooooo correct....I have not been hit on for many many years...but since I have been in the playground something is happening, I was hit on twice on a 16 day cruise,( had my butt smacked a couple times after doing a booty shake compitition on stage on the ship.....weird...even in the stores I get smiles....but then again...I am smiling more now...grin

 

[JonnyBoi]

Oh god I think I threw up in my mouth a little. Your name is really apt. I thought you couldn't top your terrible "Are there ANY good looking sp's in Vancouver" thread but you managed, congrats.

My advice is to read less pick up artist literature and try to be an actual interesting person to be around, failure.

To be fair - he's clearly trolling HARD since he invoked the wrath of KEK and the like..

I think his trolling ways belong more on 4chan or YouTube comments. But hey, it's a free country. Let's not feed him...

 

[DangerousDan]

It's not hard for her to pick up the signals that he's getting some on the side. Before that he was miserable and she liked to keep him that way. Now that he's getting laid, she can tell he's happier and it had nothing to do with her. It's as easy as that.

That's definitely true for girls who use sex to manipulate a relationship. If a guy getting some on the side, she'll quickly realize that she doesn't have that power any more. If your girl is mad at you after sex, that's a pretty good hint she's using it against you. The reason for the anger is the immediate loss of power.

 

[failure]

I always laugh out loud when people say that women are attracted to intelligence and confidence and whatever other nonsense du jour. These people are clearly under the delusion that males and females are somehow completely fungible.

TBH women do not give a rat's ass about a man's level of intelligence... or his confidence... or his shoes or any other characteristic hopeless, naive romantics like to dredge up in order to shield themselves from the brutal, unforgiving reality of female reproductive choice.

If women were primarily attracted to intelligence, they would be throwing their panties at abstract philosophers, pure mathematicians and theoretical physicists, since these are the most heavily g-loaded disciplines.

They would also be creaming themselves over guys like Stephen Hawking; reading Newton's Principia Mathematica would give them endless 'gina tingles; solving differential equations would have them moaning out loud with pleasure.

Unfortunately, reality presents us with a very different picture. I've known many intellectuals, who said many profound and illuminating things, who actively repulsed women by their mere presence.

This isn't even true historically. If it were, Sir Isaac Newton (to use but one example), one of the greatest physicists and geniuses to have ever lived, would have been swarmed by women. However, no woman dared touch the discoverer of gravity and inventor of calculus with a 10 foot pole while he was alive. Why? Just look at contemporary portraits of Newton. He was brutally ugly, with a long midface and shit lower third. Of course he had to be by himself.

No, no... I won't have any of this nonsense. I only deal with objective reality.

If we see women throwing their panties at anyone, it's always at men with chiseled jaws and square chins.

 

[felixthecat]

There of course is nothing like the l have just been fucked by a beautiful women vibe that adds confidence to your demeanor. It matters little whether it is a compensated encounter or not, you still get the buzz, the pheromone load and the quiet confidence. Where I used to be downright chicken about engaging a gorgeous women in a casual conversation on the street, I do it all the time now, thanks ladies!

Also having some involvement with the ladies has also made me immune to being manipulated by a beautiful woman and women I am sure can sense the subtle push back. Their usual wiles do not seem to have the same effect on you as they would have years earlier or as they do on more needy men.

Absolutely!

I attended a bbq last night.
Large group and a mix of couples and singles.
The guy who by some peoples standards would have been considered the good looking guy, he tried to score with a few of the females, but got shot down by them.

Maybe females don't attend BBQs with the primary goal to hook up randomly?

When they look for a NSA hookup, their thinking can be quite shallow. A 'cute guy' will do. Decisions can be made in seconds, there's not enough time to evaluate the guy's intellect or long-term potential. The easy-to-spot attributes matter more: sharply dressed, attractive. That's a natural bias. Some very intelligent women told me the 'cute guy' justification is enough to sleep with the guy.

The same women can think very differently when selecting a long-term partner.
In either case, a confident image matters a lot. A "nice guy" won't cut it; there are enough "nice and boring", "nice because desperate", and "nice because trying to get into her pants" types.

 

[failure]

Women do not care about "nice guys."

"Nice guys" are just deluded fools who lend too much credence to social constructionist views of female sexual behavior.

"Nice guys" are ugly guys and women do not like ugly guys.

However, a woman will gladly stay in a long-term physically and emotionally abusive relationship if her partner happens to be the most alpha male she can obtain at the moment.

 

[ParadiseChaser]

Women do not care about "nice guys."

"Nice guys" are just deluded fools who lend too much credence to social constructionist views of female sexual behavior.

"Nice guys" are ugly guys and women do not like ugly guys.

However, a woman will gladly stay in a long-term physically and emotionally abusive relationship if her partner happens to be the most alpha male she can obtain at the moment.

Bro why are you on a escort forum? Why are you not out there "negging" some hot girls (and I am talking 9's and 10's not the 5's and 6's like the Vancouver escorts cause I mean we know there are no hot ones right?) and swimming in pussy? I mean it can't be that hard? Isn't every girl just some dumb bimbo with no personality that just gets wet and spreads her legs when she sees a chiseled chin?

So in your small world you only have the chiseled chin alpha male who gets any girl he wants and then you got the fedora wearing neckbeard "m'lady" nice guy? Fucking christ this PUA shit has been the absolute worst thing that could have happened to relationships. I feel bad for the girls out there. No wonder so many of them are wearing fake wedding rings.

 

[JonnyBoi]

Bro. Don't feed the trolls, I just told you. Lol.
He gets off on this.

 

[ParadiseChaser]

Bro. Don't feed the trolls, I just told you. Lol.
He gets off on this.

I know. PUA shit always gets to me. I guess I am a "nice guy"

 

[BaconNeggs]

Just relax.
Even failure knew he is wrong when he typed that out.
It is just his stirring the pot to ruffle peoples feathers.
Best to just ignore the trolling and carry on.
Cheers

 

[Officeguy]

wow GrandMarnier.....the hugs and kisses just started...i know she senses something different about me and is now showing some affection.....yes she was like my sister almost for 10 years,all else is super,
my worst mistake was being so predictable for 31 years,so i made a couple changes telling her i need alone time a couple times a week....i took care of my mom everyday for 3 years before she died in december...so i reasoned with my wife that was my alone time and i still need it.....i never want to hurt her...so i am very careful.....my SP is everything plus more that was missing in my marriage in the last 10 years....for me I am not in this to get a variety of girls I am in it for the loving emotional hugging kissing love making feeling that I so miss and spending time with a wonderful lady .....if I wanted a gf then I would have seperated....31 years together is my history...I dont want to lose the person to talk about the old days with....I started here again in december to only do three things in my life that I have never done before and before I couldnt as I get older, #1 have wonderful sex with a tiny blonde..#2 have sex with a young asian....#3 have sex with two woman at once......#1 complete, #2 complete, #3 never got to,that because that wonderful beautiful tiny blonde was able to find a spot in me that was long long gone....and I love it.....I just hope she is here for a long long time

before someone points this out again here is my post on emotionally getting to close with a sp -

already happened to me,but I have worked through the emotional attachment part and have now got a very healthy relationship with her that is acceptable for both...thanks to many many people here in perb
who talked on the subject in their posts and I was able to reason things out when it got clouded.....and finally for my personal needs and ED issue I would have to go through many ladies to find 3 that could do as I have now.....again I appreciate my sp patience with me over the last 5 months and for me it has paid off in spades....

 

[oneoldone]

Being a creature of habit, I've recognized over and over again receiving friendly glances, smiles and "hey there" from females. Without question it's usually after I've had sex. I'd say after leaving a regular's place and going to a local coffee shop or Restaraunt I'd be warmly greeted.

Not too sure if I have pheromones being cast adrift as I walk in or a silly grin on my face that attracts the subtle attention; I'm just aware of it.

One thing said to me by various partners is my eyes have a softness post coital. I guess that means less intense?

I'm in agreement with this and this whole issue has been dealt with in a previous thread I believe. No idea how they know but I am careful not to return home too soon after and hope the effect wears off a bit.

 

[Officeguy]

One day buddy, you gonna have to tell me how you do that. I've always been a one-girl-at-a time kinda guy. When I got into this last year, I too thought why see so many girls? If you find one that you have a connection with, why not just stick to her. The problem is the SP becomes a perceived girlfriend (in my mind anyway) so the emotional roller coaster ride begins. The thought of her being with other guys just kills me. The only way to regain my sanity is to see other girls myself. Take my mind off her. I have stop seeing a certain SP because I liked her too much. Can't deal with it so I just stopped calling her. I felt really bad and it wasn't until months later that I told her why I stopped seeing her. We're good now. I'm glad we were able to close the loop.

GrandMarnier.....it was the toughest thing I have ever done and still doing....I was highly organized in my profession and was constantly dealing with issues between a union and me as management.....nothing rattled me...until this....I was a blithering school boy who could not figure out what was happening, felt embarrassed because I was rattled .... I though did not want to move on....
and had to try to understand if it was just me...I read many postings in here (perb) on the subject and felt good it was not just me.....then I had to get real....my sp was very understanding as I was open with her but she let me work things out without jumping in with fixes....once I understood what was happening I have been able to work on enjoying the level of a relationship that is more realistic with us ....never never again do I want to go through that...but it was worth it..... though its still a work in progress ..... I never got jealous at least...I was able to separate that part easy ....with smiles returning in my life it was because of her that I feel real good again.....

 

[papillion]

So is this true or not? What do u ladies and guys think?
they say women have better sixth sense than men.
I think if a guy was getting laid consistently, he'd appear look more confident both consciously and subconsciously and project more alpha aura that attracts women therefore more sex.
What r ur opinoins???

Uh, YEaah
When a woman sucks a guys cock and it taste like pussy, that is a dead give away

 

[t44]

Being a creature of habit, I've recognized over and over again receiving friendly glances, smiles and "hey there" from females. Without question it's usually after I've had sex. I'd say after leaving a regular's place and going to a local coffee shop or Restaraunt I'd be warmly greeted.

yea i get more attention after sex too. probably related to testosterone increase and women can smell it.hahaa

 

[t44]

You can smell a person's GENDER: Humans subconsciously identify sex using the subtle odour of pheromones

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencet...ify-gender-using-subtle-odour-pheromones.html

I don't smell shit.

 

[giaebonyprincess]

I don't know about this or necessarily agree. I think the only time a women can maybe sense your getting fucked is if your in a relationship (wife/girlfriend) Especially if you were so cranky before and moody and then all of sudden your happy and relaxed. But single ladies don't know and I don't think really care. Smelling another women down there is just sick, please scrub your balls and use protection. Yeast infections and BV can still be transmitted through sex!!!!

 

[t44]

I don't know about this or necessarily agree. I think the only time a women can maybe sense your getting fucked is if your in a relationship (wife/girlfriend) Especially if you were so cranky before and moody and then all of sudden your happy and relaxed. But single ladies don't know and I don't think really care. Smelling another women down there is just sick, please scrub your balls and use protection. Yeast infections and BV can still be transmitted through sex!!!!

What about the testosterone levels? Women can use their sixth sense and smell off of a guy right babe? haha

 

[giaebonyprincess]

What about the testosterone levels? Women can use their sixth sense and smell off of a guy right babe? haha

Wishful thinking my friend........plus I personally wouldn't want a man that is getting fucked all the time a bit of a turn off. Everyone wants to feel like the one and only.....right?!




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