Finding Sugar Babies on Seeking Arrangement
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When I was paying $25,000 a month - I thought it was exclusive. I'm sure that the other SD of hers I met thought it was exclusive also. I ended up paying about $2500 for each time I saw her. That could have been a fair tariff if I had been her only SD. It wasn't when it was clear that no amount of money was enough for her. What makes a SB worth it vs an Elite Companion is that you can have a certain amount of spontaneity. When she's scheduling like an Elite Companion, it's no longer a worthwhile SD/SB arrangement. If all I wanted was a gorgeous woman who is pretty damn good in bed and fun to be in public with - there are at least 4 women that advertise here and meet the criteria. I used to have a weekly arrangement with one of them and it wasn't costing $25,000 a month.
That's why my first thought on your idea of 2 SBs was "that's a lot of money".I find the thought of exclusivity in a play for pay relationship, to be naive, bordering on ridiculous.
In any relationship, I value honesty, above all else. Why create a situation where dishonesty is almost guaranteed?
I have dated a few sp's on the side and I have never, and would never, request monogamy. Sure, they see other men, but that is business( hopefully, a pleasure, as well ) and their relationship with me , is not.
In any relationship, I value honesty, above all else. Why create a situation where dishonesty is almost guaranteed?
I have dated a few sp's on the side and I have never, and would never, request monogamy. Sure, they see other men, but that is business( hopefully, a pleasure, as well ) and their relationship with me , is not.
More than once i've had a street SP living with me 24/7. Thus monogamy was guaranteed.
seeking arrangement not exactly secure and private. facebook somehow is pulling info from SA as i have had to two women i've chatted with on Seeking Arrangement show up in that little box facebook uses to suggest friends. the people you may know thing. one had given me a fake name, one just her first name yet somehow facebook made the link.
Facebook is actually hooked into your email account. If you use the same email account for Seeking Arrangement. Facebook and Seeking Arrangement share whatever information that the combination of email, facebook and Seeking Arrangement allow.
Do you use the other email for password resets? If Facebook, Google or Microsoft know any alternative email, cellphone, phone or social network addresses, they track and correlate your activity. The tracking and determining your habits is how they add "value" to their ads. It's the same with the people that Facebook offers as "friends". If you buy something from NCIX online, you get offered NCIX's entire staff as "friends".
I read this thread & tried SA. Experiment duration now two weeks and counting.
I've flirted with dozens of women online, met eight in person.
Observations:
1.) If your time is tight, SA not for you. The site is addictive and the get-to-know-you dinners are endless. This is either a pro or a con, depending.
2.) I knowing in advance how the evening is going to end is important to you, SA is not for you. But if you love the chaos and ego of the courtship, then SA is great.
Bottom line: SA demands much more time and money than other options. Some nights are busts. But when you meet someone with whom you click, it's a far better experience than the alternative.
I've flirted with dozens of women online, met eight in person.
Observations:
1.) If your time is tight, SA not for you. The site is addictive and the get-to-know-you dinners are endless. This is either a pro or a con, depending.
2.) I knowing in advance how the evening is going to end is important to you, SA is not for you. But if you love the chaos and ego of the courtship, then SA is great.
Bottom line: SA demands much more time and money than other options. Some nights are busts. But when you meet someone with whom you click, it's a far better experience than the alternative.
It's the difference between Leo's List and Seeking Arrangement. You make an appointment with a woman from LL, it's pretty much a sure thing and she has no idea what you look like or what age you are until she peers through the peephole on her door. You have a first meeting with a woman from Seeking Arrangement and she may decide that you are MUCH older than your picture, and too creepy for words. The woman from Seeking Arrangement can say no. The guy also gets to say no if the woman isn't what he saw on SA. You aren't paying for it until both people have said yes.
The ability to host is an issue on Seeking Arrangement. A lot of the women haven't even thought about where they will do the deed, can't do it where they are staying and, therefore, must do it at the Guy's place or in a hotel room. So, if she does say yes, she's in more danger than the LL woman working out of an incall.
PS on the question about hot, petite Asian women. There are three that are well worth seeing that are active. The most fun of the three has a picture of herself in a school girl outfit and says her goal is to earn 30K as quickly as she can.
Four of eight.
Thing is, I didn't pursue it with the other four. For a variety of reasons. Two seemed high-risk of becoming too enmeshed in my life. Another two because there was no spark. SA is a game of spark.
Thing is, I didn't pursue it with the other four. For a variety of reasons. Two seemed high-risk of becoming too enmeshed in my life. Another two because there was no spark. SA is a game of spark.
LOL. You guys are over thinking things. Seriously. Don't flatter yourselves, these women are merely putting up facades and feigning interest to reel you in. For the ones that do this, you can call it smart business but don't ever overthink it.
And yes, I've been there and done that. SA was better a couple of years ago but it's more or less become mainstream so all that extra time, effort and cost don't make sense to me any more.
And yes, I've been there and done that. SA was better a couple of years ago but it's more or less become mainstream so all that extra time, effort and cost don't make sense to me any more.
If you're ancient and/or grotesque/creepy, it doesn't matter where you go, most escorts on LL and SA will turn you down anyway. Thankfully, I'm neither old nor creepy and am doing this now as opposed to say when I'm 50 or 60 when my hair is falling out and my abs have turned into a nice, round 1-pack.
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