How Long Do You Wait For Response From A Provider Before You Go To The Next One?

[take8easy]

How Long Do You Wait For Response From An SP Before You Try To Contact Another One?

I would normally wait for at least an hour and (depending on how desperate I am) I would give up in about two hours. This is especially true when I can see that she has recently renewed her ad on LL.

I hate being in situations like this especially if a lady responds back too late and I have to tell her, "Oh sorry, you didn't replied in time so I contacted someone else!!"

Why am I asking it all of a sudden? Because that's exactly what's happening to me today.

(Desperately needing for a date with a well-reputed SP tomorrow in DT)
T8E

 

[take8easy]

For text message or phone call inquiries 1 hr should be long enough wait time.

I don't respond back after 1 hour for privacy & discretion reasons.

How about email inquiries? How long should a client wait? (I should have included that in my post)

 

[felixthecat]

How about email inquiries? How long should a client wait? (I should have included that in my post)

Most of my appointments are prebooked by email a few days in advance. I can afford to wait a day or more before contacting others.

I'd say give at least a couple of hours before you move on? She could be in the middle of a session, or just busy with some personal business.

Some SPs can be significantly slower than that. I had 2 days delays after the initial contact. Even if the girl posted on twitter meanwhile.

Quick responses are always appreciated. But even a slow one is much better than no response. Most of the time, there is a chance to meet later.

 

[Claire Monet]

Short notice (within an hour or even same day) can be hard for a lot of ladies to accommodate as many have different screening protocols which need to be fulfilled. Not to mention most ladies share their spaces (and have lives outside of SP work) so pre-booking is typically ideal.

Reaching out beforehand to a lady you're interested in and passing her screening process could expedite a short notice/same day appointment.

Telling the lady you're interested in that you reached out to someone else seems, imo, quite declasse. Why divulge that info? We all (ladies and gents alike) want to feel special and unique. If she didn't get back to you within your desired time-frame perhaps just follow her screening process, get passed (or not) and keep her contact info in your back pocket for next time.

 

[Riza]

I find email contact is best for prebooked appointments..so I'm not sure about short notice situations ..

I agree completely, I am often a day behind on emails especially if I don't recognize the email address. I find email bookings for me have over a 50% chance of no show or just ends up in a endless loop of emails back and forth over a few days. I prefer the direct real time communication lol

Edit: And for likes of take8easy who are clear and concise in their requests email is ok. Day, time duration and requests. If you email consists of "Hey babe, how are you? Don't be surprised if you get a response of "OK" because I know where this is going lol.

 

[veronique_mtl]

It's really hard to stay on top of email request for request for the same day, especially for touring girls as we get a lot of request at the same time. Txt message is the fastest way to get a reply usually right away or within the hour. If you are messaging outside of my working hours you will most likely get a reply in the morning.

Try to pay attention to the preferred way to get contacted. Some girl mention that they like emails or booking on there website better. If the ads mention txt message only, do not try to call the number. Chances are she's not going to answer.

If you message many girl at the same time please try to remember which girl is who! You will most likely not be taken seriously if you ask which one she is!!!

Hope this help!

Veronica xx

 

[badbadboy]

Expecting a reply in an hour or two seems to be unrealistic expectations IMO. Especially, during a work day.

If I'm really wanting to see someone within a couple of days, I'll send out a request in the evening and hope for a response by morning or early morning. This would apply to the 'outlook group' mainly.

A couple regulars I see have school and civilian jobs. They typically take a lot longer to reply but 100% worth the wait. A couple may take a week or longer due to their regular life vs SP life.

 

[Cock Throppled]

My time is often short. My windows of opportunity may be small. I don't like booking in advance because there are just too many things that can go wrong or interfere.

Therefore, I need to get a reply ASAP. Now, I realize this just isn't feasible sometimes, so it's no big deal, but I usually don't wait more than 30 minutes, sometimes only 10-15 minutes before moving on.

 

[Warl0ck]

Not to mention most ladies share their spaces

I think that's one facet of this industry that's not well understood by all pooners. The appointment calendars of some incalls are nearly fully booked.

Years ago a successful SP might be able to have her own incall or share with another woman. Today, especially in downtown Vancouver, I can't imagine it's possible unless it's a very high end escort who does multi-hour dates every day. I figure a good Yaletown condo close to the Skytrain with washer/dryer (and parking) is $2500 bucks. So that's 10 sessions for the female to cover just that cost or if she's sharing and charging say 15% of the cost of the date, that's $40 bucks x 60 sessions..just to break even. I'm honestly amazed women in the downtown region aren't charging much more than they do.

 

[girth-brooks]

Hard to say... depends on the time of day and the time of the posting (if it applies). Best bet is pre-booking in advance.

 

[Damaged]

There are times where I prebook days in advance for a session and plan accordingly. There are far more often times where the mood strikes me and I want a date soon, like within 3-4 hours. In those cases I usually don't wait more than an hour before contacting another SP. Often only wait 30 mins, especially if I see her actively posting etc.

Most cases I try and call to settle whether she's available or not. Sometimes Sp's prefer texting only in which case the waiting 30-60 mins is max before trying another.

 

[take8easy]

Short notice (within an hour or even same day) can be hard for a lot of ladies to accommodate as many have different screening protocols which need to be fulfilled. Not to mention most ladies share their spaces (and have lives outside of SP work) so pre-booking is typically ideal.

Reaching out beforehand to a lady you're interested in and passing her screening process could expedite a short notice/same day appointment.

Telling the lady you're interested in that you reached out to someone else seems, imo, quite declasse. Why divulge that info? We all (ladies and gents alike) want to feel special and unique. If she didn't get back to you within your desired time-frame perhaps just follow her screening process, get passed (or not) and keep her contact info in your back pocket for next time.

Miss Monet, I don't think I even mentioned that part in my post. I would NEVER NEVER EVER tell one SP that if she does not respond back, I will go to someone else. Yes, it is not classy at all. I don't know why you got that idea!!

I think that's one facet of this industry that's not well understood by all pooners. The appointment calendars of some incalls are nearly fully booked.

Years ago a successful SP might be able to have her own incall or share with another woman. Today, especially in downtown Vancouver, I can't imagine it's possible unless it's a very high end escort who does multi-hour dates every day. I figure a good Yaletown condo close to the Skytrain with washer/dryer (and parking) is $2500 bucks. So that's 10 sessions for the female to cover just that cost or if she's sharing and charging say 15% of the cost of the date, that's $40 bucks x 60 sessions..just to break even. I'm honestly amazed women in the downtown region aren't charging much more than they do.

I understand the lack of availability of a shared incall, What I was referring to was the first response back. If nothing else, I wouldn't mind getting a message back with things like .. "Oh hey, let me check to see if the incall is free or not" or .. something like.. "hey, just give me a few minutes to get back to you". Just something to let me know that the communication is in process.

I am talking about NO RESPONSE at all. Yes I think one to two hours is a pretty good time.

My experience of advance booking by days has not been too good on multiple occasions. Something almost always come up on both sides. Personally, if possible, I prefer one day in advance. Sometimes, due to nature of my work, I get a little window during the day and that is when I am in a bit of pressure.

Anyway, this is a good discussion to have because it certainly shows us things from ladies perspective.

 

[golferjohn]

...and then add The Border wildcard for those of us under the 49th.

 

[take8easy]

...and then add The Border wildcard for those of us under the 49th.

Just wondering ....if the 49th was called the 69th... Canada would still be on top.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

Wait for response?!
If they are not freshly showered and sitting around in their sexiest lingerie waiting on my call then they are out of luck.

Seriously, it all depends on how much you want to see them and how much of a rush you're in.
These ladies all have personal lives and other clients.
I would never call and EXPECT for my doctor, dentist or accountant to be able to see me at a moments notice, although if they can it is is nice, and I would expect to afford an SP the same courtesy.

Cheers
J

 

[Lady Vanessa]

Miss Monet, I don't think I even mentioned that part in my post. I would NEVER NEVER EVER tell one SP that if she does not respond back, I will go to someone else. Yes, it is not classy at all. I don't know why you got that idea!!

Apparently Miss Monet got that impression from one of your quotes from your OP.

"I hate being in situations like this especially if a lady responds back too late and I have to tell her, "Oh sorry, you didn't replied in time so I contacted someone else!!"

All in all, this is a good question posed to get an insight as to how us Ladies respond to inquiries and possible bookings.
I personally choose to be contacted by email as I cannot justify carrying 2 separate phones.
My BP ad specifies I prefer at least an hour notice for bookings because I am not one to sit at my in call waiting for suitors. Or I may be engaged within a call and do not respond to incoming inquiries until I am free.
I believe one should respect a Ladies time and give her at least an hour to respond in some way.

 

[golferjohn]

Canada would still be on top.

yep, you're our toupee

 

[Bridge]

Booking in advance is the best plan as it takes most of the stress out of waiting. After a further email to organize "bits and bobs" all that should be needed is a text an hour or so prior to the appointment.

 

[Lady Companion]

Keep in mind that if you text a lady to try arrange a liaison, you want to put as much information into that text as possible, especially if it is for a same day liaison.

A few sentences should be fine. "Hi, my name is ____. We haven't met before, but your advert on xyz caught my eye and I was hoping you would have some time available today. I'm interested in meeting for two hours, ideally beginning between 4 and 7 pm. Please let me know if you are available, as well as how to proceed.

Texting is such a minimal effort/lazy way of communicating to begin with. If you aren't putting in at least a bit of personalized effort, you text message is likely to get ignored or replied to later on when the lady is doing a mass copy/paste text back to all the people who sent messages along the lines of "Hi Hunny. RU available? Wut R UR rates?"

 

[johnA27]

Keep in mind that if you text a lady to try arrange a liaison, you want to put as much information into that text as possible, especially if it is for a same day liaison.

A few sentences should be fine. "Hi, my name is ____. We haven't met before, but your advert on xyz caught my eye and I was hoping you would have some time available today. I'm interested in meeting for two hours, ideally beginning between 4 and 7 pm. Please let me know if you are available, as well as how to proceed.

Texting is such a minimal effort/lazy way of communicating to begin with. If you aren't putting in at least a bit of personalized effort, you text message is likely to get ignored or replied to later on when the lady is doing a mass copy/paste text back to all the people who sent messages along the lines of "Hi Hunny. RU available? Wut R UR rates?"

Now I kinda wonder what you guys say to the "u avail? rates?" guys lol.