Do you like it loud?

[Pretty_Priya]

I've always been very vocal in bed.

At one point I had a boyfriend who told me that my screams of ecstasy were off-putting, and that made me feel self-conscious about it. As well, I've had men accuse me of "faking" it, which I can assure you after much soul-searching and experimentation, I am not.

Because my sexy playtime often happens in hotels, I have been trying to tone it down a bit, to be honest. I worry I'm going to get tossed out of a hotel one of these days for disturbing all the neighbors!

That said, a few months ago, I had the immense pleasure of meeting a man who was similarly expressive at the point of orgasm. I was so delighted!!! What a huge turn-on!!!!

I've discovered that I absolutely love it when people are rambunctious between the sheets.

And so, I ask you, dear PERBerts, do you like it loud?

 

[johnA27]

I try to be loud or at least say something but I am so ridiculously sexually inexperienced that all my focus goes to the act itself and I end up not saying anything at all. I've had ladies that get mad cause they dont know if I am enjoying it or not. So thats my excuse >.<

As for the lady I really enjoy them being responsive. Though being over the top isnt necessarily helpful if I am trying to figure out if what I am doing is right. I am sure I dont speak for everyone, but I really do hope that I can learn something useful in terms of pleasuring a woman with the sessions?

 

[Larry Storch]

I'm very expressive. Quiet sex feels awkward and uninteresting. I'm usually describing how something feels or how she looks; not a running monologue exactly just letting her know that I'm enjoying it.
When the magic moment arrives, usually the whole neighbourhood knows. I'm a screamer.
I remember one of the first times I saw an escort. It was an incall and I told her ahead of time that I can be very loud. She said "Don't worry about it, I don't mind." I said I was worried about her neighbours, but she didn't think it was a problem. The session went very well and she was on top to finish things off. I warned her that I was going to get loud, she just looked down at me and smiled. Well when I 'went off' she was "OMG!" and proceeded to force feed me a pillow. To her credit she didn't miss a beat or stop riding. When she removed the pillow she said she didn't think I was going to be THAT loud. Later we experimented with gags, but a pillow seemed to work best.
Over the years I've found that when I'm loud my orgasms are more intense. I feel that if I'm holding back trying to be quiet, it's like holding back physically. When I just go for it, it feels so much better.

 

[johnsmit]

I like some acknowledgement that I am doing something for the girl.
But in general I like some vocalization it just makes it more energized.
Now I admit I don't say to much myself and wish I had I lot more explicit comments I could make when going at it with a sexy girl. At lease so there is a harmonized vocalization of our exstasy

Of course where can you be screening in orgasimice bliss with out disturbing the nabour.

On a few occasion I have clearly heard my nabour in an a joining apartment having some pretty wild sex.
I don't think they had any idea they could be heard so plainly or maybe they just did not care .Let give the old boy a shoe.!!!!

 

[J.O. Henson]

I think the entire experience is about all the senses not just the act itself. Sounds, tastes, smells all contribute to the atmosphere. I find it a complete turn on when the lady I'm with is "non-quiet". Hearing her breathing, moaning or more makes it all more erotic. Huge turn on. Plus it lets me know I'm also making her enjoy herself as well.

 

[silkk]

I think Pretty Priya needs to cum to Vancouver im gonna make her yell real loud

 

[take8easy]

I think talking, esp bit of a dirty talking is a turn on. I kind of like when things are being whispered as opposed to loud voices/noises. I like it when both sides are vocal, but I am not too sure about screaming! I have been with some SP who tended to get loud and honestly, it seemed a bit fake.

So talking = yes, loud = no.

 

[golferjohn]

There's nothing sexier than having a beautiful woman whispering all the naughty things she's doing/going to do and having her respond to all the naughty things you're doing/going to do to her. Primal screams? None for me, thx

 

[tiger69]

I am on the quiet side in bed but I do prefer women who can talk dirty and make noises in bed. I did have neighbors complain once- the time when Ms. Erica Phoenix and I met up at my place...rofl that was memorable.

 

[golferjohn]

Along these lines, can someone explain why it's erotic to lightly (emphasis on lightly) strangle someone? There have been more than a few requests, so I'm guessing it's a 'thing'. (The only episode that comes to mind when I hear this is Michael Hutchence dying from autoerotic asphyxiation...yikes)

 

[Sonny]

And so, I ask you, dear PERBerts, do you like it loud?

Firstly, loud or not, I like it real.
Secondly, that photo of OP is hot!

 

[Pretty_Priya]

Firstly, loud or not, I like it real.
Secondly, that photo of OP is hot!

*blush* thank you

 

[clu]

Every time I happen by this thread this song gets stuck in my head:

 

[FreeG]

Loud of not, as long as its authentic, its all good! But even if she is shouting something fake, if its done with some passion, I still find it a turn-on. I'm pretty reserved and not loud by nature, but it certainly doesn't mean I'm not having fun! I just try to remember to let her know how things are feeling so she doesn't think she's seeing a mute ;-)

 

[Warl0ck]

but some nights when I'm really charged up I would rather be taken to a dark industrial area under a bridge for some adventurous fun instead of a boring old 4/5 star hotel.

Wow!, sounds like a chapter from the novel "50 Shades of your Significant Other".

 

[Mr Jones]

On my very first date with a SP, she was so loud I was worried about her neighbors. When I told her this, she stared right in to my eyes and said 'baby I don't care about the neighbors, this is our moment.' Gawd, that was hot.

 

[BaconNeggs]

On my very first date with a SP, she was so loud I was worried about her neighbors. When I told her this, she stared right in to my eyes and said 'baby I don't care about the neighbors, this is our moment.' Gawd, that was hot.

That is the best thing I have ever heard said during a date!